What’s the best subliminal or stack to fully focus on purpose and stop pursuing women?

#126

Lots of observations about myself. I failed a emperor test, few moments ago. I ordered something at 7 /11 and the dude charged me for BBQ sauce and didn’t give me my change. Now it’s not about the change I’m upset about it’s a dollar and something, I’m upset about not speaking up. I didn’t say anything because I was afraid of judgment, because there was people around. So I walked back to my job then started getting really pissed off not so much at him but more so at myself, for being a bitch and not being assertive and mentioning how I got charged for BBQ and didn’t get my change. So I walked back and told him, it was obvious I was upset and I ended walking out the store, it doesn’t matter what our conversation exchange was, I wasn’t upset at him even though it appeared that way, I was upset at myself for not speaking up and telling him my issue when it first took place.
other unrelated news, I’m really desiring and craving to find a men’s group, where we can push each other to grow and take action. I’ve lacked masculine mentors, friends etc to push me to live up to my potential. I I’ve been researching how to find a men’s group, a legit no bull shit men’s group who gives blunt, tough love advice like I give to others from time to time.
I can care less about women right now and give a damn about what she thinks about me based On my job. I’ve reached a IDGAF mentality about what girls think of me, though I don’t know how long this will last.
I’ve realized what I truly need is masculine mentors, role models, friends, a group etc
I need men in my life not women.
I don’t want to reach my potential because I want women in my life I want to reach my potential because I want to be the Best MAN I can be.
My goals

  1. Nofap , 2. Fitness 3 Money/ purpose/ career 4 girls
    For years it was girls, girls And … girls For once in my life they are not a priority,
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#127

Hey…how’s it going with this? To be honest I think when it comes to this I think it needs some heavy lifting in the beginning. That seems to be the case. I am doubting whether the module really works without it (or at all?)

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#128

Excellent going, @Grimm1390. Can observe a lot of change when compared to before. Your masculinity is rising and your Emperor mindset is already manifesting.

Your desire to be among men reminds me of Jack Donovan’s book The Way of Men where he stresses the importance of having a tribe of men who can help reinforce each others masculinity and healthy competition.

No wonder you are also seeking to be among other masculine men who can drive you in the right direction and where you can do the same for them.

To greater success! :muscle::muscle::muscle:

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#129

@SubliminalUser @Lion I took a break from emperor since that last comment, because of Nofap. To be honest I been really struggling with Nofap for the past month or so maybe going on 5 weeks now. I had 69 days and 70 days and been binging like crazy since, even getting into stuff passed pmo which I need to be careful with.
I been using YouTube subs and trying to implement healthy habits, attend meetings, listen to recovery stuff, channel energy for Nofap etc I took a break from emperor until I build up momentum because I’m really struggling to gather 1 day of Nofap. That and I don’t have the energy to deal with the challenges from emperor. I had another emperor test Monday where I had to be assertive with a coworker but I went to far, in my opinion. As a Sagittarius for those who don’t know we are very blunt and our words can cut like sword. So I had to be assertive with someone but my rage took over and I was to blunt with my words.
I mentioned somewhere on this sub, subliminals won’t be the thing that’s gets you success in Nofap but it’s a tool that can be used. To have success you have to have a Nofap plan, learn what your triggers are, learn how to deal with those triggers, connect with people, build healthy habits, have tools, make a 7 day plan, 1 day plan even. When I’m having success with Nofap I’m making it priority and making a plan.
For subclub though when it comes to PMO ascended mogul was pretty money for me. At first I kept relapsing but after I took action and implemented my Nofap plan ,AM also started kicking in and I was so focused on being productive and building my career I didn’t want to fap or have urges to.
Again though I beg that subclub can one day make a Nofap subliminal, lots of users on here would love to have one as a major subliminal.
Definitely I listened to a jack Donovan podcast on knowledge of men and bulldog mindset and he’s spot on in regards to masculinity. Robert glover even says men need other men to achieve success. The thing is it’s so hard to find a group of guys or mastermind group. Richard Cooper Has a men’s community but it’s not free. I’m still searching though would love to have a no BS men’s group where we push each other to take action and hold each other accountable

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#130

@Grimm1390 - i can understand. NoFap and Money are the two big challenges for me. Right now, am using Elixir Ultima and RegenerationQ to heal myself. There might be physical healing but the unexpected side benefit was that I was being emotionally healed.

I noticed that am fapping way less and that when I do start, am not going all the way. Possible that as EU+RQ is making me emotionally mature, am not needing such validations anymore. So that addresses my NoFap issue.

Will be starting EmperorQ in 2 weeks time and hopefully by then I will be ready to take on the challenge of Money.

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#131

Yes i did notice my body felt stronger and full of energy…

You maybe also getting busy that theres no time to fap…also when u think of fapping you feel terrible…thats healing from the sub…

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#132

One thing with emperor do you think The challenges it brings to the surface can be a problem for Nofap ? The frustrations and testing that emperor brings into your life could lead you into fapping to cope with the challenges. Maybe you can run both elixir and emperor so you get the best and both Nofap goals + money goals. Just pay attention to see if emperor throws your emotions and feelings around, I know emotions and feelings can be a trigger for some people to fap, for me certain emotions and feelings definitely do.

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#133

@pacman - Yes. I have noticed that my mind gravitates to wanting to do more productive work.

Must be because: less of an inner hole to fill implies being more whole. And hence doing more of the right things.

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#134

I thought being busy would be a good way to not fap lol so far I’ve worked 14 straight day, I barely been home, But when I get home I’m tired and being tired is a trigger for me so my thinking isn’t on point, sometimes I want a reward and some excitement after coming home from work so I end up fapping, lol this happened unfortunately several times over the last 2 weeks. Then again if I had built up momentum and wasn’t stuck in the chaser effect would I have still pmo ? :face_with_monocle:
I agree though if your acting out place is at home which is for a lot of people getting out of the house is a great tool to use

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#135

@Grimm1390 - will definitely keep that in mind. If I do find myself relapsing a lot as a coping mechanism when EmperorQ throws challenges in the way, I will use EU+RQ along with EQ. Good tip.

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#136

Change that reward…
Replace it with a trip to a bar or a dance cafe just to talk to women dont think of sleeping with them at all.
Or
Play some sport in that time to get even more tired and sleep.
Or try going for women you know you can easily get and make them let you off…

Basically you need to change your reward system. It will take time but must start now.

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#137

emperor has the anti porn module and emperor was built to focus on wealth, status, masculinity etc so your sexual energy is being directed towards these areas. The problem with emperor though when it comes to Nofap even though it has that anti porn module is the challenges it throws, those tests could have someone fap to cope with the challenges which also weakens emperor because your sexual energy is being depleted.
Our seed it what drives us, pushes us to step out of our comfort zone, take action etc when we’re emotionally numb from fapping or just wasting that energy by releasing I think emperor can’t fully be unleashed.
It needs our sexual energy, our seed, our essence to help push us to greatness

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#138

Use what ever u said in that post and preserve that seed and what how you change.

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#139

I’m mgtow for now. I made women to much a priority in my life, but I agree I’m working on changing that reward, for me it’s dancing singing, walking in nature
, journaling, attending recovery online meetings. I’m stuck in the chaser though so my primal brain Is coming out on top of my logical brain these days

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#140

PS:I was once a very well disciplined fapper :grin::grin:
When i started with subclub it gradually changed. The urges came strong i pushed myself away even more. It does come now and then but not as strong as before.
Now i crave really women. :sweat_smile:

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#141

@Grimm1390 - yup. That’s why I will keep that in mind since the main reason why I relapse is to “feel good” especially when am feeling down. I have built a good streak now and intend to unleash EmperorQ on my world.

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#142

Just a thought but maybe khan st1 could be helpful for Nofap. The description says it will destroy anything that holds you back trauma or concepts. khan st1 plus healthy behaviors could be helpful for Nofap. We fap to self sooth and take care of our needs. We have reasons we fap such as x,y,z. Khan st1 could help break those down. I was thinking out loud and thought i would write it out here, could be helpful for someone

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#143

I suspected as much due to my personal experiences with Emperor, but is this actually verified or is this musing on your part?

#144

From saint

“As for the anti-porn module, it’s because Emperor is a much larger subliminal, so you’re getting less of an exposure to that potential module.”


Ascended mogul has the anti porn scripting as well but since the script is smaller and less dense than emperor it’s reasonable to say the anti porn scripting in AM comes off as more powerful than in emperor

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#145

I agree the only problem is that heavy lifting increases testosterone which makes you horny which makes nofap harder for some.