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#136

Fear, man.

It fixates us.

Threatens us when we try to process it. “You want more of the same?! Come here you little…”

And like any unprocessed content, it ties up our energy and weighs us down. Uselessly occupies bandwidth.

Working through pain and noxiousness. It always seems like it may last forever. Then it doesn’t.

When it is worked through, suddenly we have more energy, because that energy is no longer being spent on keeping those parts of us frozen and non-responsive.

Anyway. To echo a wise man:

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#137

What’s the rest of the sentence? ;). kidding. I can imagine a few words that fit.

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#138

Agree. This is probably why I keep on pushing myself. Pushing myself to my limits. To see what I am truly capable of. Past fear of the unknown. Past fear of the past. Past fear of my own self. Only to be truly reborn.

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#139

Me too. Though I wouldn’t want to delve too much on it.

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#140

Respect your journey, man. :muscle:t5:

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#141

DAY39

It’s been a few months since I last drank anything alcoholic. Not that I’m into sobriety or anything. It’s just that I didn’t feel like celebrating anything. But as I mark the end of the year, I feel that I should at least raise a toast. Not for the year 2020, but for what I have become since I started this year.

Though little by many standards, I still have not thought that I would be able to accomplish much this year. I have started a blog that people go to for reference. I have presented in a conference via recorded video. Though I still have not been promoted, nor moved to a better job/company, I still have a job that provides me with a means to pay the bills.

And so, as this year ends, I raise a toast to all who have helped me with this year’s journey. Thank you friends for helping guide me and give me the strength and courage to continue on this journey.

May this new year bring better luck, and a brighter future to us all. And like steel being hammered in a fiery forge, may we all become our best selves this new year.

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#142

DAY40

It really is a good thing that I decided not to play LEU this whole week. Today was rather uneventful. Wife’s OC nature had us take down all the Christmas decorations a week early.

But aside from that, we didn’t really do much aside from lounging around or watching tv or playing with the kids. Rather boring and uneventful way to start the new year. But at least we’re doing ok.

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#143

DAY41

Rest day. Somehow, I’m no longer looking for something in my ears. Was able to go about today without even thinking about playing subs today.

Is it reconciliation or does this feeling I have mean that it’s time for me to move on to ST2? I keep feeling that I should move on to the next stage of DR. But I’m still not sure if I’ve cleared enough crap in me.

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#144

I think if/when I pick up DR, I’ll likely keep ST1 on one of my subs on the stack rotation as I do the follow-on stages.

Not sure how viable that is in your case. If I were to do it NOW, I’d do a 3-sub rotation stack of BILLionaire, DR ST1 and DR ST1 at first. Then once I’d done that “long enough,” I’d do BILLionaire, DR ST1, DR ST2…then BILLionaire, DR1, DR3, etc.

I’m sure my plan will change before I get there, though

#145

I guess switching stages has been an issue for me. With Khan and QL, I switched right after 30 days. But looking back, a part of me feels that maybe I could have gotten more if I had stayed longer with each stage. That and constant stack switching. With DR, I only intend to use LEU and ElixirU as part of my stack.

With both QL and khan, I used to keep switching the stack. I guess aside from the days per stage, it was also how consistent my stack was.

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#146

DAY42

Another rest day. Nothing much happened today. Maybe it’s time to move on to the next stage, but just to be sure, I decided to keep pushing with ST1 for at least this week. Just wanted to make sure that I got all the healing I needed.

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#147

DAY43(early update)

Back to school for my kids and back to work for me. First Monday of the year.

Still feeling sleepy. Maybe because I’ve been used to waking up around midmorning for the past couple of weeks.

Did my morning meditation on waking up and then played 1 loop of DR ST1.

Not sure, but it feels like I’m getting hit with some reconciliation. Feeling of anger and frustration popping up again. Maybe it’s reconciliation. Maybe it’s because I woke up early. Not really sure. But hoping it gets better.

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#148

How are your rest days?

#149

Lately, rest days have been uneventful. Maybe because I’ve been trying a laid back approach during rest days.

#150

What is a laid back approach?

#151

Nothing. Absolutely nothing. Not expecting anything. Not doing anything either. Just trying to have fun with the family.

#152

Thank you for clarifying.

#153

DAY43(update)

Been really hard to get back in the groove so to speak. Maybe because of the 2 week leave I took, or because of the weather, or both.

But I’ve been pretty lazy with work today. Been more focused on finding ways to lower expenses like getting a refi for the mortgage and such.

Although I was able to do a minimum of the needed office work, I still felt like I needed to push myself to actually do it. Hopefully it gets better as the days go by. Maybe reconciliation? I don’t know really.

Oh well. Que sera sera.

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#154

DAY44(early update)

Kept waking up last night. Not sure why. Good thing I was able to quickly get back to sleep though. But feel tired just the same.

Woke up this morning and did my morning meditation. Although, honestly, I feel like I was forcing myself to get out of bed just to do it. Maybe because I was still very sleepy and felt that it was more of a chore than anything.

Played 1 loop of DR ST1 after. Will be playing 1 loop of LEU in a bit.

Funny thing though. Last night, my wife was in a more agreeable mood. I was able to tell her my pet peeve about her getting the bathroom floor very wet every time she bathes. And lo and behold, I noticed that the floor was dry before I went to bed. No complaints. No arguments. Am not complaining though.

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#155

DAY44(update)

Was able to run 2 loops each of DR ST1 and LEU and 1 loop of ElixirU today. Still feeling both tired and driven to work on something. Unfortunately, I’m not sure what to work on.

Although I was able to work on office tasks and produce the minimum required for the day, I really feel that I can do more. Only if I had direction. Feelings of getting pissed at my boss and office politics are popping up again. And yet, I can’t just drop everything without any backup plans.

Which, then makes it even frustrating since I really have nowhere else to go.

Feelings of attending other trainings and taking certification exams are popping up too. Although, with the current landscape, I’m not really sure what certification training to take. It seems that every employer I see wants one of everything. But at the same time, I don’t have funds to splurge on all that.

Somehow, it’s a cycle of frustration. Going round and round, but not really getting anywhere.

Oh well. Que sera sera…

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