It’s starting to go back full circle. I feel the same as i did 6 months ago in the midst of the most chaotic period of my life. Nothing. The only difference is that im taking on whatever is thrown at me. Thing is im just trying to survive. Barly coming in time when i have meetings, sleeping late, waking up tired and doing everything last-minute just trying to survive.
That’s not how it’s supposed to be. Reality is different from how i envisoned how life would look life. It’s boring, annoying and the only reason why im able to keep it toghether is because i’ve gone through worse. Im just tired. How im i supposed to enjoy life? Im not saying that i need a vacation or go to disney land. Im wondering how can a person be happy even through all that.
Emotional state is the absolute #1 factor which determens outcome. If i feel great then no matter what i do, im simply more likely to succseed . Thats proven. But this shit is beyond me. I cant see how anyone can be happy through all this barrage of endless bullshit. I am making money now, im to busy for boredom or depression. My point is. This is not fun, yet they say its the journey not the destination. How come? Do i have to brainwash myself to enjoy all this sensory bs? I dont even feel like making food. Then id have to cook and then wash the dishes. Id rather starve than do that.
It would seem that i am somehow expecting a diversion, something grand or a reward for all this. There simply isnt. Thing is im unable to accept this boredom. I dont feel a thing, i dont feel like talking to anyone, do anything. It’s all pointless. The only thing keeping me going is the self image of who i want to be.
” Its all shit now but one day it wont be, because i will be X and i will do X ”. If this annoying ass life keeps going i might have to find a new framework which supports my vision.
Sometimes i play the same old sad/angry music i used to play when i was at rock bottom. It feels something at least. Id rather feel pain than nothing. Everything is boring and meaningless. Im too obligated by the stupid ass day to day activities. The way i see it. 99% of people are faking it. Nobody has their shit toghether.
What do i want? I want to be happy, to feel alive. Seems that i cant actually change my emotionless nature no matter how successful i become. Why im i happy 2% of the time? How can i change that? Im just too logical to brainwash myself with the ” be positive schtik ”. Sometimes i just want to escape in the abstract and the world of ideas. Thats a rather fun place to be than this nonsense.
I cant escape my high expectations. Without them id turn apathetic. How can a person be happy with what they have yet strive for improvment. This could be the good ol Ni-Fi loop. I just want to feel alive, at this point all i am is just a walking corpse. Fix your posture, wash your face, brush your teeth, dont forget the 20x things you need to do, be positiv, be productive, be nice to people, show up on time, call this and that etc. At this point all life seems to be is a big ass ” To do ” list and if i forget one thing then everything falls apart. 2 hours of missed sleep can wreck the entire thing.
Now i realise, everyone has it the same. Im no alone in this, nobody is. Thing is people need each other. And im all alone. Even when im around my friends i feel alone. I cant communicate with anyone beyond their stupid sensory day to day bs. It’s always got to be about them. Why? Because thats the price i have to pay for being an intuitive thinker.
The singular-absolut life goal i wished for myself is simply a fantasy. This world is nothing like they way i wanted it to be. If the world does not fit my idea then it means that im doing something worng. If i do it right then it will be how i want it to be. The reality is that no matter how hard i work, im still adjusting to this world. I cant adjust it to be how i want, how i believed and wished for it to be.
Thats not even the worst thing. Even through all this hell something bad will happen. Something so bad it makes you appreciate your day to day bs. You be like ” wow i had it so good why was i bitching so much? ” Thats not fair now is it… You just end up hurting yourself more.
The solution? Happiness and how to find it.