There she goes… 💃

It is what it is. I was also surprised.

just about the time( for the military not subs I mean ) :slight_smile:

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Yeah, in 18 he can be already a millionaire and pay your bills :slight_smile:

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I’ve been fighting with him to go to cadets weekly. This is when the aggression comes out the most for me. He says “take my devices I don’t care.” Amongst other triggering statements.

He’s super talented. Musically, coding, etc. he made his own game recently. Loves to film and edit.

So G:Mogul is maybe ideal for him, or look for other titles maybe there are others with ANY age.

Ah yes the ultimate weapon against the parents. Super OP move.

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Or give him any seduction sub to get all girls in the high school :slight_smile:

he should run khan and khan black imo

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Remember this is the age where he is becoming more and more his own person and your guidance and responsibility for who he is becomes less and less, I’ve not been a parent yet but I think this is one of the hard phases both for you and him of transitioning in your relationship, less teacher/student and more as equals with respect and acceptance of your differences.

The biggest part of your job as a parent is over, a little support and guidance if he asks for it but mostly simply watching him bloom!

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He’s a kid.

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This is super helpful. Thank you. :heart::heart:

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First of all, hats off to you :wink: I was also partially raised by my mom, and I will always respect her for that. It’s a tough job without a father. When it comes to success, prosperity, and appreciation, that’s something he needs to build on his own. The harshest truth a man needs to learn is that he’s never unconditionally loved (only by his mother) like women and children. He needs to earn that. This is mostly where the fatherly role comes into play, and now you have to play two roles at once, which is very difficult. So please don’t be too hard on yourself. Making sure he can handle himself at 18 is already very good, especially in this time.

By the way, he’s 14, which is like the highest peak of puberty until 16-17 years of age. He will make his own dumb decisions and learn from them later. Seeing how you talk about him, I have no doubt that he will not do anything that stupid.

Something I’ve learned along the way and learned from other parents as well:

0-10 years: The Commander, this is the phase of hard yes and no’s. He needs to learn that you’re in control and make sure he’s well-behaved for society.

10-20 years: Teacher, you still can send him out of the class in a manner of speaking, but you try to let him learn from his own experiences. Ask more questions, let him reflect on himself, and try to help him make his own decisions. Only when it gets out of hand, do you step in.

20+: The Coach, Now you’re on the sideline and just assist where is needed. You don’t give advice, you just listen.

As much as I enjoy Deadpools comments on this forum haha, do I strongly urge not to do that. As a teacher I see how many students are influenced from the outside. That shapes them into something they shouldn’t be. Let his puber brain develop on its own.

Can you imagine a 14 year old being in full recon? Don’t do that, just let him be. Maybe he doesn’t want to become a entrepeneur or a sexy lady killer like khan.

I personally think all subs need to be 18+, but that’s just my humble opinion.

Hope that helps!

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I wish I had had a seduction sub in my 14 and got all the pretty girls in the school :slight_smile:
Just kidding, not all just a few of them :slight_smile:

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Very much helpful. Thank you!!! :heart::heart::heart::heart:

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Gengish Khan was also a kid at some point : ) he’d have the full arc

At his age, he’s barely into puberty. He doesn’t need khan or kb quite yet.

Gotta remember these journals are publicly visible, and the company recommends not running those below a certain age.

I couldn’t imagine the recon he would experience :flushed:

Maybe it would work for some. I don’t wanna take a chance with that.

I was just joking around Palpatine. I personally wouldn’t let the kid run anything until he’s not at least 15 but that’s up to the parents.

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I sensed joking but you never know with these things :rofl: