The Social Fugitive: New WANTED and True Social

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#1

PLEASE NOTE SO I DONT HAVE TO EXPLAIN THIS REPEATEDLY: I am in an open marriage. My wife knows I go for other women and she’s more than fine with it.

TITLE: SOCIAL FUGITIVE

START DATE:

PROJECTED RUN TIME: Minimum six months. When I feel ready, and have met the goals I may replace WANTED with WB and take it to the next level.

MODULES:

  1. Wanted Core
  2. True Social Core
  3. Essence Clear Sight
  4. Essence Unstoppable Execution
  5. Furious Ascent
  6. Mountain Breaker
  7. ZPU Anti Recon
  8. Edge of Danger
  9. Alexander’s Play
  10. New Attraction Experience women
  11. Panther
  12. S. At the top
  13. S. Perfection Manifestation
  14. S. Divine Dominion
  15. Eagle Eye (so I notice results)
  16. Mosaic

RUN PATTERN: The new ZPU lite recommended pattern. I will still be running one weekly loop of Imperial Executioner, my financial custom for maintenance until I feel I no longer need to.

GOALS, OBJECTIVE:

  1. At least three new sexual partners. Hookups at Lifestyle parties and such do not count toward this number unless we exchange contact info and get together later.
  2. At least one ongoing FWB type of relationship.
  3. Arrange my life so that I can get some kind of socialization regularly.
  4. Maintain and continue all of the progress I’ve made on my financial life that I made on IE.
  5. Maintain the workout program that I’ve selected.

GOALS, SUBJECTIVE:

  1. Eliminate the vestiges of social anxiety that I still have.
  2. Look better, both to myself and others.
  3. Be more comfortable in social situations.
  4. Be able to start a conversation with anyone I want to for whatever reason I want to.

THE RULES:

  1. Don’t do anything that could jeopardize your employment. You can respond only to the most blatant flirtation and even then keep your response one level below her escalation.
  2. If you get a woman’s contact information from work keep the interaction friendly until she makes it blatantly sexual.
  3. Absolutely no sexual activity at work.
  4. Do not fool around with your direct co workers. Don’t even flirt. You can VERY carefully flirt back with members of the other on site organizations if you’re DAMN SURE they’re flirting.
  5. Always remember that supporting your family is much more important than having some fun.
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#2

Hey man, I’d recommend removing ZPU anti-recon as it’s in New Wanted, also one of the Essences (though that’s more optional, but it would significantly reduce the load). Aside from that, looks good :+1:

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#3

Too late. I guess I’ll just be extra recon free.

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#4

Nice custom :slight_smile: I am curious how your journey will be with TS and W

#5 
               **WEEK ZERO **

  • As always a link to my last journal.
    The Imperial Executioner

  • I haven’t been really excited about subs for a while. I think that’s because I’m bored by the subject matter that I’ve been stuck on.
    That was getting my financial and regular life back to some level of stability.
    I’ve done that. It still isn’t perfect, that’s why I’ll still be running the last sub once a week, but it is to the point that I think I can focus some energy on something more fun for a while.
    The sales copy for the new Wanted did get me feeling some of that old excitement for subs, and I’ve thought True social sounded great since this version came out.

  • Little background on me. I have actually done very well with women throughout my life despite being painfully shy in my teens and early adulthood and just not the most social guy even now.
    Thing is that I only know that in retrospect, and I have failed to capitalize on a LOT of opportunities because I didn’t recognize them, or I second guessed my way out of noticing them.
    But still managed to get a count that is quite a few times the national lifetime average.
    Come to think of it, everywhere I’ve been where I have regular contact with women at least one has blatantly thrown herself at me and more have been pretty obvious about it, but never said it directly. I’m sure that there were many more than that who were less obvious and I was entirely clueless about.
    I only caught the ones who jumped into the boat.
    I’ve never been one to “hit on” women. When I’ve been successful I’m not quite sure how it happened. Either they approached me first, or I’m not sure who approached who, a normal conversation started and eventually ended up in bed. In the early stages I usually had no clue what was happening. If there was any kind of process or formula behind it, I have no idea what it was.
    I have read PUA material, but back in the day I couldn’t think clearly enough in the heat of the moment to even try to implement it, and now it just seems a little doofy to me.
    All of this tells me two things about my start point.
    One, I am and always have been very attractive to women. I don’t mean just physically, though I am good looking. I have something a good many are looking for.
    Two, my natural seduction style aligns with WANTED.
    I decided to go with that rather than going against the grain with a more active title like PS.

  • I have run seduction titles before with no results. Yeah, I may have felt a little different, maybe shifted body language a bit, but to be blunt, I didn’t get any while I was on them. This run is for the results. I’m not counting anything short of new sexual partners as a successful run.

  • The first challenge I’m going to have with this is that the way my life is set up now I have very little opportunity for it to work. I need to build in regular contact with women.
    I’ll start to work on that problem while I wait for the custom to be delivered.

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#6

my honest unfiltered reaction when I read this

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#7

  • This feels like the old days when subs were new and exciting to me. I’m checking my email every couple of hours for the download link.
    I’m really eager to see what this will do for me.

  • I may have had some presults last weekend. I took the family to an event we go to every year. I was more comfortable in crowds than I usually am, and I kind of instinctively tried to make eye contact with women. They didn’t always lock with me, but it was a reflex act on my part. It gives me a baseline anyway.

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#8
  • OK, I need ideas here from myself or others. I’m trying to think of what I can do that gets me regular contact with women as well as regular social contact in general?
    It has to work with my weird schedule, not cost much money, and be regular and consistent enough that it gets me practice and serves to measure progress.
    I’m not much for going to bars as I’m not much of a drinker, but it might be nice to find a place where I can have like one beer and talk to people.
    Coffee shops used to work pretty well for me back in the late nineties and early aughts, but now it seems to me that everyone has their noses epoxied to their phones and no one interacts.
    I wonder if I can find some type of weekly activity.
    It has to meet certain criteria.
  1. There have to be women there.
  2. There has to be enough turnover among the people that there will be new ones so I can gage the reactions I’m getting on girls who don’t already know me.
  3. On the other hand the group has to be steady enough that some people do know me and I’m not a stranger walking into a room all the time.
  4. It has to be a fun environment rather than something businesslike.
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#9

Anything you can share about your schedule? Doesn’t have to be detailed. Can also be like, Wednesday noon I’m free for 3 hours and Saturdays I have the whole evening to myself.

The nice thing about nightclubs/bars is that it’s usually many opportunities. You don’t have to drink. Problem is that it can mess sleep if you have a regular work schedule.

  • Dance classes
  • Any extracurricular activity in different arts
  • Yoga perhaps

You could also try to build a habit of saying hi to women in your day-to-day and just make small talk. While grocery shopping for example. Don’t view it as doing an approach or trying to get laid. It’s just regular socialising and connecting. Eases the pressure.

This is probably what I would do or join some activity/club that I enjoy or want to explore that also have girls involved.

Another way, with true social, expand my social circle so there’s always activities going on weekly that I get invited to and might involve meeting girls. Social circle game. Opportunities. So many possibilities.

I just reread your post and think the last two paragraph might fit your criteria more.

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#10

No problem. I work from 1330 to 2130 on weekdays. I also have to take care my wife who has MS and our son. Time is at a premium.

I can probably find some time for bars. Clubs and I don’t get along because of what I used to do for a living. The more crowded and noisy a place is, the more I want to put my back against the wall. Not a comfortable experience.

That’ll work too. As I said just about every time I’ve successfully picked a woman up, I didn’t know that that’s what I was doing. A normal conversation started and wound up in bed.
I’d definitely like to keep it that way. The PUA stuff isn’t my style.

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#11

Watch how many times I have to explain that again later in this journal.

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#12

  • I actually have to laugh at myself over how eager I am to get started on this one.
    I’m actually more excited about it than I have been in a very long time. I have a genuine sense that this WILL work and that this is going to be an enjoyable journey. I haven’t had that in quite a while.
    While it’s a bit frustrating, even the waiting part is kinda awesome.

  • I was never a big believer in presults, but I seem to be getting some. It’s not so much that something happened as it is I’m noticing things that have been happening.
    There is this girl who works in the facility I guard.
    Cute curvy redhead with kind of a nerdy air to her. She definitely fits one of my types to a T.
    I have long suspected she is attracted to me.
    Couple reasons. First, if I’m there she always chooses to come in the way that makes her interact with me. As an employee with no one else in the car, she doesn’t have to.
    Second, she acts kind of awkward around me in that way that girls do when the like you but don’t know what to do about it.
    Third, I just feel an energy for lack of a better term. She wants me. I know it.
    I am not going to go out on any limbs that would risk my job, but we shall see if WANTED gets her to go out on one for me. This could be very interesting.

  • That got me thinking that I strongly suspect that this program could get me in trouble if I’m not careful so I came up with some rules to keep that from happening. I will edit the original post and add these.
    THE RULES:

  1. Don’t do anything that could jeopardize your employment. You can respond only to the most blatant flirtation and even then keep your response one level below her escalation.
  2. If you get a woman’s contact information from work keep the interaction friendly until she makes it blatantly sexual.
  3. Absolutely no sexual activity at work.
  4. Do not fool around with your direct co workers. Don’t even flirt. You can VERY carefully flirt back with members of the other on site organizations if you’re DAMN SURE they’re flirting.
  5. Always remember that supporting your family is much more important than having some fun.
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#13

  • Looks like I’m not going to be starting till tomorrow, the order is still processing.
    No worries, I’m just anxious to get started.

  • While I’m waiting I’m thinking about the times that I’ve been a sex magnet.
    It’s always been feast or famine for me and I’ve never really sat down and thought really deeply about what was different in the boom periods and the bust periods.
    (Bear with me here, a lot of my journals are me thinking out loud).
    Figuring that out might help me take the actions that’ll make this puppy execute.

I’m just going to go through this as best I can remember.

  1. Birth - 17 almost 18 years. Famine.

I was not aware of a flicker of female interest before about October of my Junior year of high school. That was when I moved from the tiny craphole of a school that I started in and moved to another small but much nicer school.
The reason was that I was a social outcast from the first day of kindergarten.
I just wasn’t into the same stuff as other kids, and I really didn’t know how to interact with them. I was an only child and grew up in a very spread out rural area where there were no other kids within walking distance.
I had no one to interact with but my parents.
My parents had problems.
I’m not getting into that here unless it becomes pertinent, but it’s covered in my Year of the Dragon Emperor journal.
To make a long story short I did not get much in the way of normal social conditioning prior to being thrown into the shark tank in Kindergarten.
There is one unfortunate thing about very small schools.
Everyone knows everyone and there is no real way to go from one social group to another. Simply not enough people so everyone remembers everything.
That means that your place in the social pecking order is set in kindergarten and you can never rise above it because the image of who you are and how you fit (or don’t in my case) is set in everyone’s mind.
If you’re the outcast you’re stuck there until you graduate or move.
Being at the bottom of the social heap precluded any dating. Thing is, there may well have been girls interested in me later in my school career once I’d started growing into myself, but if they did anything about it they’d have been socially ruined.
There were a few exceptions to the no interest thing. They were all outside of the school I was in. Actually I got indications of interest towards the end of this time, but I only notice in hindsight.
Actually I did notice, I just always talked myself out of noticing.
Why?
Because from the time I started to like girls to about seventeen any girl in my school had to act disgusted by me or risk her own social status.
There was one exception to the not at this school rule.
Just before we moved there was this girl from a lower grade who was REALLY blatant about it. I mean there was absolutely no ambiguity about whether she liked me or not.
I still wasn’t sure and didn’t do anything about it.
I might have but then we moved halfway through my sophomore year.
The new school showed a bit more promise for the rest of that year.
There was one girl who expressed blatant interest in me as soon as I got there. She couldn’t talk to me though. She was a bit of a mess, and I didn’t really know what to do.
Things were definitely improving though.
Part of the problem, most of it really is that during the time between when girls became interesting and this point I had implanted the “fact” that I’m flat out disgusting to girls in my head. That’s hard to get rid of even after evidence to the contrary starts mounting up.
One big effect came out of this era. That is since any show of interest on my part wasn’t just met with rejection, but outright disgust and cruelty from her and others, I became very afraid of initiating anything, showing interest, and you could forget about approaching.

  1. 17-19. Feast
    I made a very good female friend right from the start of my junior year. She was interested, but I was too clueless to act on it.
    She started dating a guy from another school.
    She introduced me to her friend though.
    This was a good introduction because there wasn’t any ambiguity. We were being set up to date. I didn’t have to ask, we both knew what was happening, and she said yes to a second date so even I didn’t have any doubts as to her attraction. She became girlfriend #1.
    The relationship went along as high school romances do. I got her home one day early on and actually managed to push past my fear of initiating and things got physical pretty quickly.
    Over the next few months we went further, she learned to reveal the nectar within and sometime in the spring, we lost our V cards.
    That’s when things got interesting.
    The friend who introduced us decided that she wanted to be my second less than a week later.
    I was a hormonal teenager. It happened.
    Not too long after that I met a girl from another school at some event and got her number.
    While #1 was grounded we went out and she became the third.
    As my senior year went on I noticed more girls were interested, but I kept it to the three until after graduation.
    One of #1’s friends did arrange to have me teach her the ways of the nectar within between the time #1 left for college and I did though.
    #1 went to another college out of state and I took it harder than I should have. I was really bummed about it.
    Thinking back this should have led to a famine period.
    Nope

  2. 19-20 FEAST!!!
    When I got to college, I was still obsessed with #1. It was really kind of pitiful and we went in trying to kinda sorta make it work long term (it didn’t. Sorry to spoil the suspense).
    We were both free to do whatever we wanted to though.
    I was in a weird emotional state most of that year. We went through a couple of cycles of break up get back together and it was a massive shit show that by any sane measure I should have avoided.
    But I cycled between sadness, jealousy, and god knows what else. But it was always intense the whole time. (I think I’m clueing in to something)
    And the girls who wanted to sleep with a guy who was obsessed with another girl came out of the damn woodwork.
    I have a pretty impressive count as I said. Most of it came from these couple of years. I got into a couple of weird hobbies too which got me in contact with girls who were susceptible to my particular type of charm at the time.
    IE long hair, goatee, leather jacket, etc. I looked like a bad boy despite not really being one.
    Aside from being emotionally brutal, it was awesome.

  3. 20-21 Famine
    The summer after my first year in college I went to visit #1 one last time. We hooked up but her cheese had finished sliding off the cracker and it was clear that it was over for good.
    My obsession wasn’t.
    This took me from an intense emotional roller coaster to low energy depression.
    I went back to school, had a single dorm, and pretty much avoided social contact. And going to class, I avoided that too.
    Now, I don’t know exactly what it was that shut the flow off. Partly it was that I gave girls less access to me. Partly it was the lower emotional intensity, and I don’t know what else, but I got almost nothing that first semester.
    Then early on in the second I met girlfriend #2. She approached me in the computer lab one day, and we started hanging out and fooling around.
    This should have been great, but I kind of transferred my unresolved attachment to #1 to her.
    Not a good move. She was a player who thrived on being wanted by guys and the drama that brings.
    Parts of it were fun. It didn’t last more than that semester. That summer she convinced me to go to a two week camping event that she goes to.
    Me and a guy who she had been stringing along for years but only had contact at that event.
    She chose him, and I suspect enjoyed my reaction.

  4. 21-22 feast
    I wanted her back. That brought the rawness back, the intensity, and what do you know, they came out of the woodwork again.
    I missed a lot more opportunities though. They were obvious but I always second guessed myself and didn’t act or it could have been a lot better than it was. More than a couple jumped into the boat anyway.

  5. 22-23 famine
    I flunked out of my first college and moved home for the year. I went back to that event in August and hooked up as one does there, but after that it was a full year of nothing.
    I started to become desperate. Not good.
    I went to a community college and got a good amount of social interaction, but I was unable to convert any of it to anything romantic or sexual. I did ask a few girls out in the traditional way, but nothing went anywhere.
    It did give me the weird idea that maybe if I moved away to another school in another state, I’d be able to do better.
    So I started the process of doing just that.

  6. 22-24 feast
    I moved halfway across the country and went to another school. The interest started when I got there. And I had a brief relationship with #3.
    Sadly I didn’t have my shit from 1 and 2 dealt with, not to mention the underlying shit that caused it (I REALLY could have used SubClub back then). So it hit hard.
    I did get a lot of interest but didn’t act on most of it.
    Then #4 who was #2’s friend and obsessed with me moved out (longer story here, but doesn’t really pertain to what I’m talking about).
    I got into that relationship out of guilt.
    I don’t know if that was a feast time or famine time because no one wanted to be around me because it involved being around her.
    That and I think she drained everyone’s vital energy.
    I got with my now wife shortly after I finally got rid of #4
    Since then there have been opportunities. Most I didn’t take, a couple I did. But I believe that the time before that is most valuable in finding out what I need to be doing differently.

#14

  • I guess I’ll have to wait for Monday to get started here. Still hoping for later today because it’s now been five business days, but I’ll be patient.

  • More presults. Normally I’d be second guessing that, but no. I’m going to assign these as presults in my mind since I have that choice and thinking that you’re executing a program is quite helpful for actually successfully executing it.
    If I think presults are a thing, they are. If I think a program is working, it is so long as that belief doesn’t completely mismatch objective reality.
    Anyway, I worked overnight last night. I did that for years, but I switched to swing shift a few months ago. It’s great. I get to sleep at night but I don’t have to get up at three AM like I would if I worked days here.
    There is this woman who comes in just before I get off my overnight shift.
    I had pleasant conversations with her every morning and I’ve long suspected she’s flirting with me. I’ve mentioned her in other journals. It’s not the redhead I was talking about above.
    Whenever I do wind up working nights, she squeals (and I do mean squeals) “ Oh my god!” When she sees me.
    I usually respond with “You can call me (COWolfe)”.
    She did that again this morning. I responded with “You know, if you keep calling me that I’m going to get an ego.”.
    And it hit me. What the hell do I mean I SUSPECT she’s flirting with me?
    Girls don’t squeal when they see you unless they’re attracted.
    Now she is a very high energy person, but this is beyond normal.
    I was able to step back a little during the rest of the interaction and observe her behavior without my usual self doubt in the way.
    There was no ambiguity about it. Constant eye contact huge smile, she threw her head back and giggled when I said that.
    She was in her car so I was out of touch range, but she would have if she could have. She also stayed around talking until someone drove up behind her and she had to go.
    So. I’m already doing a lot better than I thought I was, I just didn’t really notice. For someone who has like, thirty second interactions with people having a two girl fan club is pretty damn impressive.
    I am not going to go out on any limbs to convert. Not at work, but we shall see if SF makes her try harder from her end.

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#15 
                   **CYCLE 1 WEEK 1**

  • I hope it’s cycle one week one anyway. I’m still waiting on the custom to be delivered. It seems that they’re getting so many orders this week that they’re running a bit behind.
    That’s a good thing. I want to see SubClub succeed so I can wait a bit.
    I’m really hoping to get the first loop in tomorrow evening though.
    I’ll be going by the new ZPU instructions, so that one is going to be thirty seconds.
    This may be annoying to anyone reading this, but I’m going to be recording every loop here. That’s just so I can keep track of it myself.

  • The shift in my thinking is still there. I haven’t had much contact with the females of the species in the past couple of days because I’ve been working twelve hour shifts. However my mind has drifted back to a lot of very obvious opportunities.
    I haven’t been giving myself enough credit. They’re have been girls who had a thing for me all along. Most places that I’ve spent much time, there’s been at least one. Hell, they’ve been all over me since I was in high school.
    My only problem was my perspective didn’t allow me to realize that.
    That lead to hesitation and second guessing.
    All I really need this program to do is get that out of my way.

  • I think that my strategy, at least at first is going to be to get myself out there in any way I can, and take whatever opportunities present themselves.
    I’m kind of getting back into it, so I can’t afford to do something like say I’ll only settle for a ten. I’ve seen a lot of guys on here self sabotage like that. As in up their standards before they’re getting results at all. That may come later, but I think that the first thing I need is just concrete proof that it’s working for me and that I can seal the deal so to speak, so the rule is going to be that so long as I don’t find anyone who responds outright disgusting, I try to take the interaction as far as I can.

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