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The conscious effects seem to have faded this morning. That’s to be expected with only having one thirty second exposure to a very complex program.
I’m still feeling pretty optimistic about it though, and I’ll be doing loop 2 later on today. -
I’m going to have to figure out how to very smoothly let potentials know early on in an interaction that I’m in an open marriage. That’s not something that would normally come up just before meeting someone, and I’ve lost out on opportunities after mentioning that I’m married.
Just saying it right after would likely seem sleazy and probably turn most off.
I’m going to have to think on that and figure out a good way of navigating it.
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- That’s interesting. I was driving to work and saw a number of women on the sidewalk.
I have a completely different internal reaction to that now.
It’s hard to describe. I mean, I’m a guy so of course I notice and appreciate attractive women walking along, but this was a more energetic response and less like wishing I could from afar and more like I could directly engage. It’s a freer feeling and it links to that energy in the chest I was talking about before.
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9/17/25 Wed 1538 CYCLE 1 LOOP 2 1 minute
- Once again not enough time to feel anything while the loop is running. I feel normal immediately after the loop.
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DAY/DATE: 9/17/25
PUBLIC PLACES: work
IOIS (EYE CONTACT ECT): 1
CONVERSATIONS: 0
APPROACHES (HER): 0
APPROACHES (ME): 0
FLIRTING NOTICED: 0
PHYSICAL CONTACT: 0
CONTACT INFO EXCHANGED: 0
FOLLOW UP INTERACTIONS: 0
ONLINE BAIT THROWN: 0
ONLINE 1 ON 1: 0
FINANCES CHECKED: Yes
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Another work day where I had almost no opportunity for interaction.
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There is definitely something going on on an energetic level. It’s not that I just feel something inside when I notice a woman, it feels like there’s actually some kind of energetic connection. And I’m talking about like, a girl walking by on the sidewalk or driving past my booth.
I didn’t feel it so much when I was talking to someone, but that’s probably because I was focusing on talking and doing the job I had to do.
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- I think I had a bit of recon when I first woke up. I was thinking that this will never work and I’m fooling myself.
It went away as soon as I got out of bed though. I’ll keep an eye on it throughout the day. If it returns I’ll go back to a thirty second loop tomorrow. If not it’s on to three minutes.
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This sucker is doing something all right. My perception of energy is changing. I mentioned that before, but I think I can tell what’s happening. My energy system actively reaches out to any woman who catches my attention and at least tries to make a connection.
I’m sure that this was happening before to some extent, but now there is an actual tactile feeling to it. -
There are more women coming in today, and half an hour into work I’ve gotten two IOIs.
The second one I was kinda wondering about but I caught something that I would have probably have missed last week.
After the conversation ended, she flicked a super quick glance back at me. It was so fast that it was barely perceptible, at least to me.
If that’s normal, I’ve probably been missing it all of my life. -
I am being very generous with counting IOIs. It’s for two reasons. I’ve probably missed gazillions of them, and I’m training my brain to think that it happens to me all the time.
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DAY/DATE: TH 9/18/25
PUBLIC PLACES: Work
IOIS (EYE CONTACT ECT): 4
CONVERSATIONS: 0
APPROACHES (HER): 0
APPROACHES (ME): 0
FLIRTING NOTICED: 1
PHYSICAL CONTACT: 0
CONTACT INFO EXCHANGED: 0
FOLLOW UP INTERACTIONS: 0
ONLINE BAIT THROWN: 1
ONLINE 1 ON 1: 0
FINANCES CHECKED: Yes
- Good day. There were more women in here, and I think I’m getting better at noticing IOIs.
I didn’t feel any recon that I recognized, so on to three minutes it is.
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CYCLE 1 LOOP 3 9/19/25 FRI 1555 3 minutes
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I haven’t noticed much today, which is kind of par for the course so far. I’ve had that effect on subs before where it kinda wears off on the first couple of rest days.
Not many women in here today, and I haven’t noticed any IOIs so far.
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I have been thinking about what would be the most efficient way to achieve my goals.
I don’t have much free time, so I’m going to have to get the most bang for my buck with whatever I decide to do.
Does anyone know a good resource, book or whatever on online dating? I’ve tried it, and it was great. In the late 90s and early 2000s.
Since then I’ve had exactly zero success.
That seems to be something I could do for some results that wouldn’t take up time that I don’t have. That is if I can figure out how to make it work for me.
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DAY/DATE: Fri 9/19/25
PUBLIC PLACES: Work
IOIS (EYE CONTACT ECT): 2
CONVERSATIONS: 0
APPROACHES (HER): 0
APPROACHES (ME): 0
FLIRTING NOTICED: 0
PHYSICAL CONTACT: 0
CONTACT INFO EXCHANGED: 0
FOLLOW UP INTERACTIONS: 0
ONLINE BAIT THROWN: 0
ONLINE 1 ON 1: 0
FINANCES CHECKED: Yes
Typical Friday at work. Not many people came in, and it was pretty peaceful.
- I’m going to have to remind myself that this is a long term plan. I was getting to the point where I was expecting all of the results RIGHT NOW and forgot that this was a two core custom with two essence modules in it and I need to be living my life, taking the action when I can, and being cognizant of the incremental changes.
I’m saying this because I’m about to go out and run some routine errands.
I was envisioning having women open me left and right, but then part of my mind stepped in and said “that’s unrealistic” and this is failing.
No it isn’t. It could actually happen, but if it doesn’t right now that’s ok. I’m on the road to it happening.
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- Ooooorrrr maybe the fast results are happening. I went for a ride with my son this morning. We do that, and he loves riding as much as I do.
We stopped for a bit of lunch at a local pizza place.
First off, I got some hard IOIs from the girl behind the counter. Now I was with the kid so I had no intention of doing anything, but what do you know. He opened her. He started a conversation about his favorite subject, and she not only talked there but kept stopping by our table.
She was mostly talking to him but kept making increasingly heated eye contact. And was extremely flirty.
I went back as hard as I was comfortable with with my eight year old there.
It seemed a lot more natural than it ever has before and I just had a good time with it.
I also checked out every woman in the place.
I’ve always done that, but it used to be like I was trying not to get caught at it. Now it’s a lot more natural, unapologetic, and I’m just looking to see which ones might be interested.
I think I’m moving more fluidly.
I feel like there’s a spotlight on me. Normally that would make me very uncomfortable, but now it just seems normal.
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DAY/DATE: Sat. 9/20/25
PUBLIC PLACES: Pizzeria, restaurant
IOIS (EYE CONTACT ECT): 7
CONVERSATIONS: 1
APPROACHES (HER): 0
APPROACHES (ME): 0
FLIRTING NOTICED: 0
PHYSICAL CONTACT: 0
CONTACT INFO EXCHANGED: 0
FOLLOW UP INTERACTIONS: 0
ONLINE BAIT THROWN: 0
ONLINE 1 ON 1: 0
FINANCES CHECKED: Yes
- Holy fricking Hell. What have you people done with this thing?
I took the family to dinner tonight, and as soon as I got into that public environment it was like I was in a different reality.
I was completely comfortable in a crowded noisy restaurant for one thing. That’s not normal.
Second, I was sitting there relaxed, head up and looking around the room. I was scanning the women there for IOIs and whatnot but that didn’t distract me from interacting with my family.
Third and best, I locked eyes with a number of girls.
All of these incidents happened at very close quarters, once when I opened the door for a lady and a couple times when we were squeezing past each other.
It’s hard to describe, but there was this definite sense of lock. I was reading the attraction and there was absolutely zero doubt in my mind about it.
I mean I’ve detected attraction from the eyes before, but this was different.
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**CYCLE 1 WEEK 2 **
CYCLE 1 LOOP 4 SUN 9/21/25 2031 7 minutes
DAY/DATE: 9/21/25
PUBLIC PLACES: 2 stores, outdoor mall
IOIS (EYE CONTACT ECT): 2
CONVERSATIONS: 0
APPROACHES (HER): 0
APPROACHES (ME): 0
FLIRTING NOTICED: 0
PHYSICAL CONTACT: 0
CONTACT INFO EXCHANGED: 0
FOLLOW UP INTERACTIONS: 0
ONLINE BAIT THROWN: 0
ONLINE 1 ON 1: 0
FINANCES CHECKED: Yes
- I wasn’t feeling the effects so much today. That does seem to fit the pattern I’ve been seeing so far and it matches my subliminal experience in general. It takes a while for the effects to be going all the time.
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I haven’t felt it working so much today, but I think that’s more a matter of being more used to it than any kind of recon or it losing its effectiveness.
I haven’t had much contact with women so far today, but I did catch one of those furtive dart glances in one of the couple of interactions I had so something is still happening. -
I’ve been reading the New Wanted discussion thread and it seems that a lot of people have had great results with WB manifesting sexual partners very quickly.
Dudes were saying that they were having women just throw themselves at them.
This would very much tempt me to switch. That’s exactly what I’d like my results to be.
Some guys enjoy the chase and like the flirting that leads up to things getting sexual. I really don’t. Perhaps that will change as my confidence grows on this program, but I really don’t.
I see it as a means to an end (It occurs to me that maybe this is why I’ve rarely had any success when I’m TRYING to hit on a girl)
I have tried WB and I got Jack Squat.
That tells me that at least at the time I wasn’t ready to execute WB.
This one is doing a much better job of helping walk me to the goal step by step.
The first step, which I’m going through right now is just getting it through my thick skull that I am attractive to women.
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DAY/DATE: Mon 9/22/25
PUBLIC PLACES: Work, gas station
IOIS (EYE CONTACT ECT): 3
CONVERSATIONS: 0
APPROACHES (HER): 0
APPROACHES (ME): 0
FLIRTING NOTICED: 0
PHYSICAL CONTACT: 0
CONTACT INFO EXCHANGED: 0
FOLLOW UP INTERACTIONS: 0
ONLINE BAIT THROWN: 0
ONLINE 1 ON 1: 0
FINANCES CHECKED: Yes
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Boring day at work. Not much contact with anyone.
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After further thought there are two circumstances where I will switch Wanted for WB.
When the goals I’ve set have been met and I want to take it higher, or when I’m 100% sure that I’ve dead ended on this title. It’ll be a while on this either way. -
I have noticed that my ability to immersively visualize is improving.
CYCLE 1 LOOP 5 Tue 9/23/25 5 minutes
- I don’t know if I’m getting recon or not, but I definitely felt a lessening of effect today.
Matter of fact, I felt nothing.
It’s unclear if it’s just an off day or if that’s what recon feels like with all of the anti recon tech.
It could just be that it’s been raining all day so all interactions are being kept short in the interest of not getting soaked, or if it’s just a low energy day in general.
There is none of the distressing, stressful recon I’ve had on past build methods, so I’m just not sure.
I know I’m supposed to go back to three minutes if I get recon, but since I’m not sure I just backed it down to five.
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DAY/DATE: Tue 9/23/25
PUBLIC PLACES: Work
IOIS (EYE CONTACT ECT): 3
CONVERSATIONS: 0
APPROACHES (HER):0
APPROACHES (ME):0
FLIRTING NOTICED:0
PHYSICAL CONTACT:0
CONTACT INFO EXCHANGED:0
FOLLOW UP INTERACTIONS:0
ONLINE BAIT THROWN:0
ONLINE 1 ON 1:0
FINANCES CHECKED: Yes
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CYCLE 1 LOOP 6 2132 9/25/25 3 minutes
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I haven’t noticed the usual IOIs or anything for the last couple of days.
It’s possible that the newness has worn off.
I’m going to go to an event for ENM type people on Sunday. That will be a good indicator of if anything is happening or not. -
I occasionally get the impression that my female sometimes supervisor is interested.
Today she mentioned that she likes to have playmates. Don’t think I’ll do anything with that, but I wonder.
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- I’m playing a fun game today. It’s called Let’s Figure Out If this is Recon or the fact I’m running on 2.5 hours of sleep.
My guess is the latter, and I’m not worrying about it today.
At least it’s Friday and I got some OT for working an overnight twelve last night.
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CYCLE 1 LOOP 7. 9/27/25 2300. 7 minutes