That’s really encouraging @Davisnwc. Thanks for sharing this.
I’ve not known what to say to an erratic female hundreds of times. Good to hear a turnaround.
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I think it helps if you call them out on erratic behavior but still give a platform for them to speak if their complaint is valid. Addressing an issue is fine, but doing it disrespectfully is not.
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Smh I’m amazed at how sensitive ppl can be. A female friend of mine just asked me to do her a favor. Told her I’d do it after I was done with my next task. She then asked me what I had to do as if it were any of her business. I reiterated that I’d do her the favor after I was done doing what I had to do.
She then flipped out a bit and said not to worry about doing it, and even remarked that I’ve been acting like an asshole for no reason lately. Really?..I’m the asshole but she gets upset because I didn’t do what she asked for when she asked for it? And then tried to see what I was going to do, and probably just to see if what I had to do was more important at that.
I said nothing else to her and just stayed even-keeled, I refuse to argue with someone acting like a dumbass. Doesn’t appear that favor of hers was that important anyway if she gave up on asking me for it so easily. I may have to consider dropping yet another friend. I see acting that immaturely as a red flag. Chances are she may have been trying to shit test me too, oh well.
In other news, I’m thinking of ditching inner circle as I’m becoming more solitary anyway and couldn’t care less if new friends, lovers, mentors, etc. are manifested into my life. I’m thinking I’ll replace it with regeneration and elixir. Some mental and emotional weaknesses of mine are starting to pop up so I feel adding those two programs will help “seal the cracks” so to speak. I also see that regeneration helps with spiritual healing and I feel I’m in need of some of that too.
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Update: looks like I made the right choice in purchasing regeneration and elixir. While I was performing a task I felt myself about to have an anxiety attack out of nowhere. Haven’t had one of those since 2011 and still had mild ptsd after coming back from Afghanistan.
I managed to power through the task somehow but my heart was racing and my body was shaking. I put on regeneration which I’m currently listening to, and a mere 6 minutes later the shaking and heart racing stopped. I can’t think of anything that triggered the attack but now I’m glad to have this new sub and supercharger in the stack. I don’t have anxiety issues at all so I’m not sure if that loop of emperor I did earlier ended up hitting a nerve.
With my purchase of regeneration and elixir I tired out the quad pay option. Pretty dope how the whole thing is set up
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Well, you don’t have to be a people pleaser.
But yeah if you want to have a succesfull life you will need a shit-ton of social connections.
If your task is something that you don’t want to share with anyone else, I think the best way is to say it misteriously, and gradually lower their curiosity until it goes away. I do this with my mom whenever I am going through PUA, business and other-self help courses. It usually takes 20-30 seconds.
If your task isn’t a secret just say it proudly. Most times they will understand, or make up a lie that you promised to help someone, it will make others think that you are a usefull guy.
She called you an asshole, because she expected a different answer, you made her think she has lower value, and she tried to feel better with lowering you.
Act according with social intelligence, and you can do the things you want and you won’t loose any reputation.
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Thanks for the input but I’ve had experiences where people would only ask what I had to do to see if THEY judged it as being more important than what they wanted or needed done. Each time I told them to f**k off when I discovered their intentions. Which is why I simply asserted my priority without becoming emotional. My business is my business no matter who’s asking or why.
I understand that interdependency is needed in life for high levels of success in life, but only with like-minded people. I’ve already had to cut off 4 friends this month (including the one from the earlier post). The person I’m becoming is beginning to see that these people aren’t what I need to surround myself with. I don’t think that female was of lower value and didn’t even refuse her favor. Remember, she got an attitude and told me not to worry about it after my response. Also, turn be told I’ve been taking being called an asshole a compliment for years so that’s no insult to me.
I agree with moving with social intelligence. In this case, I had the intelligence to cut someone off who displayed an immature and toxic behavior that I’m not willing to deal with long-term. I don’t care about losing reputation or cool points with those who feel entitled to my help. I have the right to say no
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Classic female manipulation game right there. You passed her “test”, if you can call it that, and you get called an asshole as a bonus…
Never be afraid of upsetting a woman.
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We’re all guided (in part) by self-interest. It just burns when someone else’s gets in the way of yours.
Skillful people learn to pursue their self-interest without totally destroying other peoples’.
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Haven’t been for years.
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Ever since last night my heart has had this feeling of bliss running through it, despite my mood. It feels like being in love, but I have no specific person in mind. May be a regeneration effect.
I also had a female corker state the cologne I have on matches my “macho” personality lol.
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Currently up in the middle of the night hype as hell. I slept for only two hours and I’m bouncing off the walls internally. I studied and even performed my hygienic routine. I’m currently running my stack through earbuds. I think the regeneration/EV4 and nofap combo have boosted my energy levels to unimaginable heights.
I started to notice as of the end of my work shift today that I’ve become so good at being effortlessly productive, that I’m the only person in the department that can seemingly socialize for a majority of the day and still manage to exceed productivity standards. Of course I talk and type at the same time but no one else seems to be capable of doing this.
My discipline with my eating habits have increased and I’m noticing that I’m starting to practice small instances of more financial discipline.
Earlier today I was damn near obsessed with getting my Powerbeats pros to work properly. I’ve been having a charging issue with them and this is preventing me from running my stack efficiently at work the last couple days. Went on amazon and found Earbuds that are similar for only $40 and they even have a longer battery life. Had I known about those in would’ve avoided the $250 headache that my Powerbeats pros have become. I hope the new earbuds I’ll be ordering soon will make a good substitute while my Powerbeats are at the manufacturer being repaired.
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Regarding energy levels, I’ve used Emp and Regeneration sometimes solely for that energy boost. Both have the Unlimited Physical Energy module, and damn, it works well. I’ve been at work, been on an energy surge, and have wondered if I looked like some crack addict or something. Since I use neither full-time, my on and off patterns made me self-conscious 
But the rush is incredible. It’s “I WANT to move!!”
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Been wanting to post to social media today but for some reason I have resistance in doing so. Thoughts such as “who cares” and and “I’d rather not join into the vanity contest”.
I typically only post to social media to document my own personal thoughts. A sentence or two. Starting to think I should leave it behind once again.
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My confidence is skyrocketing in a subtle way. My subconscious is beginning to push me to do things that I have any fear towards just to prove that there is nothing to be scared of.
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Noticing this as well. How many hours are you at so far?
My stack runs around 4.5 hours long with 1 loop of each program. I’ll then pick one of the programs to run for another 45 minutes to 3 hours. With subclub programs I’m averaging 6-8 hours daily.
I plan to be doing 9+ hours within the next 2 weeks. My Powerbeats pros malfunctioning led me to discovering a couple alternatives with longer battery life and so I’ll be able to listen more often and more conveniently once both of those options have been obtained.
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Just had some new dropped on me. My ex came home with my daughter after I’d had some relaxing time after a tough day at work. We began discussing plans of when I’m moving out.
Afterwards she then preceded to tell me that she had sex with the guy she met a few days after we broke up and had over just 1 week later. She’s now pregnant with twins. She’s not sure she’ll keep them though. When she said this I was filled with a mild sense of shock and disgust. Originally told her I’d keep my opinions to myself but she asked me to say what I thought.
I told her that unwise moves were made and stated that having someone she barely knew come and spend the night with her was stupid. I also asked if she used protection but to that, she stated what’s done is done and that part was none of my business which I’m saying that, she was right, but I also know her response was just to deflect and change the subject.
I’m shocked and disgusted at how stupid she could’ve been to make moves that put her in this predicament and also how I was planning on spending the rest of my life with someone so damn short-sighted. I’m mainly just posting this to document how I feel about it.
Although her and I have a child, this news just made me realize I ultimately dodged a damn bullet. Knowing her, she’ll be keeping the kids. I wish her the best but I honestly lost even more respect for her after this BS. Anyway, there’s a female coworker that I’m actually starting to take some interest in. She’s giving IOI’s but she seems to be the shy type so we’ll see where this may go.
Not sure why I’m interested in her, she does have a great personality but I’ve met plenty women with great personalities that I’m not attracted to. There’s something deeper there and I’m interested in exploring.
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You goddamn Skippy on that one. Holy smokes…
I’m thoroughly disgusted by your ex. The sooner you go, the better it is for your mental health. How you’re keeping relatively chill over this is testament of Emperor and your personality.
Shit man…
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@Michel funny how you commented. I had thought of your previous post where you mentioned you were disgusted by my ex, and I’ve joined the club. I’m telling you that emperor and the programs that I’m using to enhance it are incredible, in tandem with the emotional and mental maturity I’ve gained even prior to finding subclub.
Dealing with something like this might’ve destroyed me just a couple years ago. But it also helped that any feelings I had for her before this point were already completely dead anyway. This isn’t something that I’m gonna dedicate a lot of energy to ruminating over. This is a situation outside of my control and I highly value my inner peace so I won’t compromise my personal power by letting it weigh on my brain. 12 hours later I’m over it and I’ve moved back to focusing on my own life. This here is yet another reminder and learning experience about how important it is to truly know and understand those you choose to associate yourself with.
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I’ve been tweaking my diet since early 2018 but I admit there I was still indulging in some unhealthy foods and beverages here and there. I’m starting to find those things not only pleasant but downright disgusting. Looks like I’ll have to overhaul my diet completely moving forward.
My appetite has severely diminished, even when my stomach grumbles I still don’t want to eat. My sexual appetite has also become balanced and my desire to watch porn or masturbate has all but been eliminated. This is coming from a man with a ridiculously high sex drive and who was also a borderline porn/sex addict for over 10 years.
I also discovered a new productivity technique called the 90/20 rule where one works at a given task fo 90 minutes and then takes a 20 minute break in order to maximize mental flow and rest for optimal performance. Working like a charm so far.
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