The Complete Guide to Manifesting What You Want

Today, I’m excited to share some of my rituals and answer questions about manifestation.
Many people have asked me how I’ve managed to manifest so many things in my life.
This guide is meant to help you understand my process.

Over the years, I’ve received countless messages—both personal DMs and questions on forums like this one.

That’s why I decided to create this thread.

A quick note:
This thread isn’t about putting me or my successes on a pedestal.
I’m far from perfect.
I’m doing this for more than 14 years and I’m still learning!
I’m still working through health challenges, and here’s the truth: the better creator you become, the more you’ll find things to improve.
Manifestation is a never-ending journey—what you achieve leads to new goals and creations.


About Me

My name is Benny. I used to be part of a mentorship program with a manifestation guru. Later, I expanded my knowledge through books like Ask and It Is Given by Abraham Hicks.

It took me several years to reach a point where I could create with more ease and consistency.
Most of the positive things in my life came from a combination of affirmations, visualizations, and Law of Attraction (LOA) exercises.

A couple of years ago, I experimented with subliminals created by another producer (not Subliminal Club) and stopped my usual affirmation rituals during that time.
While I experienced some benefits, it paled in comparison to the results I achieved with affirmations and visualizations alone!
I realized the importance of sticking to what works for me—affirmations and a consistent practice.
The other program from another company helped me become more serious and action oriented.
Which is not 100% bad.
But it was not natural or good for me.


Why Use Subliminals?

If affirmations work so well for me, why do I also use subliminals?
Subliminals offer the potential to deepen and enhance the manifestation process, particularly in areas like health, where affirmations alone to me can feel limited currently.
Meaning I focused more on women rather than health.
For example, using Paragon has helped reduce my pain, though I’m still exploring its full healing potential…


My Manifestation Results

Here are some of the things I’ve manifested through consistent practice:

  • Women everywhere are drawn to me.
  • Clients compliment me for social purposes—and sometimes more…
  • Sexy Women I don’t know initiate conversations and flirt.
  • Relationships with family and romantic partners improved significantly.
  • Increased financial abundance and free time.
  • Better intuition, including sensing people’s energy and even knowing what they’re thinking.
  • Having people telling me their deepest secrets while I stay elusive.
  • Seeing and experiencing some of the most crazy experiences and secrets of this world and sexual and social secrets you can only read in books! (Life is crazier than any book you can read believe me.)

At my peak, I went zero to Hero!
From rarely dating to averaging one new woman a month—even without going out often.
In a place where sex is scarce.
Other players may go out everyday for 3-7 hours I went out for 1 hour twice a week and had 1-3 girls I can have sex with (peak times).
In the best times, I was able to meet up to 2-5 women a week, balancing between quality and my own standards I usually ended up with 1-2.

Note:
Some months I had nothing!!!
Meaning you can visualize and do whatever for months on end… Going out even 4 times a week getting nothing!!!
It’s crazy but the universe knows what you want and it is working on it so be patient!


My Rituals

Here’s my daily routine for manifestation:

  1. Mirror Work: Stand in front of a mirror and say affirmations for 10–20 minutes.
  2. Visualization: Spend 10–20 minutes visualizing your goals.
  3. Writing Affirmations: Dedicate 20 minutes to writing affirmations.
  4. Gratitude Practice: Write or say gratitude affirmations for 5–20 minutes.
  5. Meditation: Meditate for 20–120 minutes daily.

Key Takeaways

Manifestation requires patience.
At first, you might not see any results, but that’s okay. If your mindset is “Where’s my stuff?” you may block your progress.
To the point of doing this work for a year with no manifestations at all.
So don’t doubt anything.
You need to believe in the unseen.

Instead, trust the process, let go, and go about your day.

When I stayed consistent, I began seeing incredible results—women approaching me unexpectedly, flirting discreetly in public, or giving me their numbers.
Clients and strangers alike seemed to be drawn to me in ways that felt almost magical.


A Word of Caution

Be mindful of what you affirm and visualize.
For example, affirming “women want to have sex with me” will likely attract exactly that—and nothing more.

You might find yourself in a series of one-night stands with beautiful women but no deeper connection.
If you want love, romance, or long-term relationships, you must be specific about what you affirm.


Closing Thoughts

I’m still learning and evolving, especially as I explore Subliminal Club’s titles and their integration with my manifestation practices.
If you’re new to manifestation, I encourage you to experiment with these rituals and see what resonates with you.

Stay consistent, stay mindful, and remember—what you focus on grows.
Be careful what you wish for, because the universe listens.

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yooo brooo you broke the ruleeee!!!
Awh man > : (
We will ban you!
Stop it!

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no I meant ban from the ˢᵉᶜʳᵉᵗ ˢᵒᶜⁱᵉᵗʸ

It’s a “Secret” only from outsiders perspective

Women will give everything to you once you are “That” guy

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ok :+1:

Iron was making a joke. Referencing the other thing we don’t talk about. I think you missed it :wink:

I didn’t
I wanted to attract more attention to the original post
Not to the “Secret Society” clarification follow up

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Thank you for this thread, Benny!

I really want to know how you build your mirror work affirmations, written affirmations, visualization, etc.

My biggest problem, right now, is having a system in which I’ll follow it to the letter.

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Building an effective set of affirmations starts with having a solid foundation. I highly recommend beginning with Louise Hay’s book “You Can Heal Your Life” as your starting point. Her affirmations have been carefully crafted and tested over many years.

It’s best to use established affirmations like Hay’s initially rather than creating your own. As previously discussed, self-created affirmations can sometimes lead to unintended effects if not properly formulated. Once you’re comfortable with the practice, you can explore additional affirmations by researching specific topics that resonate with your goals.

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I’m not a member of that secret society.

But one thing I found out is that if you’re a high value man, almost all girls will want to share you with other girls.

All my past and current girlfriends wanted me to fuck their girlfriends. Almost all girls I hooked up for longer than a couple weeks desired to fuck me with other girls together or simply to watch me fuck other girls.

I had some cases of girls wanting me to be the “bull” and fuck them in front of their boyfriends/husbands but this is something I never saw the appeal.

When you’re a sexual man, LOTS of things kinda fall on your lap (if you’re ACTING enough, of course)

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Thank you so much for the recommendation, Benny!

Do you have recommendations for money-related affirmations?

Thankfully I’m good at the health department, my main focus right now is to build my financial success.

Hahah sounds like you are :wink:
“secret society.” is not real it’s how women treat you…
Let me ask you what helped you get to that level of success? For me it was affirmations
And I hope to see the same and even more happening using SubClub

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"I AM A MAGNET FOR MONEY. PROSPERITY OF EVERY KIND IS DRAWN TO ME.

I THINK BIG, AND THEN I ALLOW MYSELF TO ACCEPT EVEN MORE GOOD FROM LIFE.

WHEREVER IT IS THAT I WORK, I AM DEEPLY APPRECIATED AND WELL COMPENSATED.

TODAY IS A DELIGHTFUL DAY. MONEY COMES TO ME IN EXPECTED AND UNEXPECTED WAYS.

I HAVE UNLIMITED CHOICES. OPPORTUNITIES ARE EVERYWHERE.

I TRULY BELIEVE THAT WE ARE HERE TO BLESS AND PROSPER EACH OTHER. I REFLECT THIS BELIEF IN MY DAILY INTERACTIONS.

I SUPPORT OTHERS IN BECOMING PROSPEROUS, AND IN TURN, LIFE SUPPORTS ME IN WONDROUS WAYS.

I NOW DO WORK I LOVE, AND I AM WELL PAID FOR IT.

THE MONEY THAT COMES TO ME TODAY IS A PLEASURE TO HANDLE. I SAVE SOME AND SPEND SOME.

I LIVE IN A LOVING, ABUNDANT, HARMONIOUS UNIVERSE, AND I AM GRATEFUL.

I AM NOW WILLING TO BE OPEN TO THE UNLIMITED PROSPERITY THAT EXISTS EVERYWHERE.

MONEY IS A STATE OF MIND THAT SUPPORTS ME. I ALLOW PROSPERITY TO ENTER MY LIFE ON A HIGHER LEVEL THAN EVER BEFORE.

LIFE SUPPLIES ALL MY NEEDS IN GREAT ABUNDANCE. I TRUST LIFE.

I RADIATE SUCCESS, AND PROSPER WHEREVER I TURN.

THE LAW OF ATTRACTION BRINGS ONLY GOOD INTO MY LIFE.

I MOVE FROM POVERTY THINKING TO PROSPERITY THINKING, AND MY FINANCES REFLECT THIS CHANGE.

I DELIGHT IN THE FINANCIAL SECURITY THAT IS A CONSTANT IN MY LIFE.

THE MORE GRATEFUL I AM FOR THE WEALTH AND ABUNDANCE IN MY LIFE, THE MORE REASONS I FIND TO BE GRATEFUL.

I EXPRESS GRATITUDE FOR ALL THE GOOD IN MY LIFE. EACH DAY BRINGS WONDERFUL NEW SURPRISES.

I PAY MY BILLS WITH LOVE, AND I REJOICE AS I WRITE OUT EACH CHECK. ABUNDANCE FLOWS FREELY THROUGH ME.

AT THIS VERY MOMENT, ENORMOUS WEALTH AND POWER ARE AVAILABLE TO ME. I CHOOSE TO FEEL WORTHY AND DESERVING.

I DESERVE THE BEST, AND I ACCEPT THE BEST NOW.

I RELEASE ALL RESISTANCE TO MONEY, AND I NOW ALLOW IT TO FLOW JOYOUSLY INTO MY LIFE.

MY GOOD COMES FROM EVERYWHERE AND EVERYONE."

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It’s a result of lots of different factors.

I have been working out for years, so I have a top 5% body, I have a strong body language, my eye contact is superb, I spent years of my life getting rejected and so I built a super confidence, I’m bold/always direct and straight forward when talking to women, I’m always willing to walk out if a girl show a bad attitude, etc etc.

The willing to walk out is SO important.

I don’t have ANY hesitation when approaching a girl (it has been a while since I don’t do it as I’m in a relationship… now it is my girl who approach the girls) so I really don’t care about calling them on their bullshit as I have so many options. When I hit the clubs solo it was a matter of 30~60 minutes for me to talk to almost all single women in the venue. When a woman sees this attitude it builds an “aura” of a man who girls want to impress, and not the other way around. They know I won’t be chasing them, as I have other options around the corner.

They almost never see a needy attitude in me, and almost all men are needy nowadays, so it becomes a natural attractor. When I have an insecurity I face it as a problem to be solved, and not as an excuse or as a way to get simpathy.

I think 99% of my attitude came from a great mindset for relationships. But I still don’t have the same mindset for my financial problems, and that’s why I’m focusing on it right now.

And you? Do you think you’re a part of “secret society” only because of your affirmations?

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Oh, this is beautiful. Thank you again, Benny.

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Have you tried Rich?

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What sorcery is this ? a talk of a secret society of men ?. Are these the men who pull the strings hide in the shadows ?.

@Benny are you part of this secret society ? how did you enter this league of extraordinary gentlemen ?.

Paging @James i chatted him about a year ago about this secret league he might be interested.

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I’m running it for 2 months already. Ran months of Emperor Black also. Maybe I have some strong limitation beliefs that I get to rid off with a combo of attacks (affirmation + visualization + subliminals)

Shhhh, rule number 1

Thanks for the list

Might modify them towards my own goals with people and women