Taking Women Off Of The Pedestal

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#1

@AnswerGroup @Forum_Ambassadors Which alpha titles has scripting that takes women off of the pedestal?

For most of my adult life I’ve looked at women as sexual objects. Admiring their physical attributes and being highly aroused by their beauty. Plus I’ll get hung up on a few girls in particular thinking I have to have them as if they’re the only beautiful women in the world when clearly there are plenty fish in the sea.

I know there are titles and modules that talk of nonchalance, but I’m not sure if I’ve seen it worded specifically as taking women off of the pedestal, not worshiping them, and not being aroused by they’re beauty. I guess the nonchalance aspect would fix that but I still thought I’d ask.

I’d like to know which alpha titles if any has this scripting, especially Ascension, as I’m currently running that.

There’s a scene in Desperado where Antonio Banderas and Salma Hayek are in bed together (fully clothed) and he’s teaching her how to play guitar. She obviously wants him and starts kissing him. His reaction is interesting because he’s surprised by the kiss and takes a moment to pause and think about going further and gives a facial expression that reads, “Eh. Sure. Why not?” This is Salma in her prime, and he’s like, “Sure. Whatever.” He’s more focused on his mission of killing the man who killed his former lover.

That’s basically the attitude I’d like to have when dealing with beautiful women. An attitude of, they’re not a priority, but if it happens it happens.

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#2

You’re answering your own question.

Do you have anything that is very important to you? Do you know your core values?

Hero and Genesis would be one route.

Khan would be another route.

There are many others.

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#3

So I get the, “Where focus goes, energy flows” aspect, and if I’m focused on my mission in life then women wouldn’t be as important. But when I’m greeted by a beautiful cashier or waitress, or walking the beach and see beautiful women, I’m not in an environment to focus on my mission. I’m doing other daily activities where I encounter beautiful women and not focusing on my mission. So I’m asking if there’s scripting that specifically deals with not seeing women as sexual objects and putting them on a pedestal.

By core values I know that it’s wrong to look at women in that light, but years of porn and conditioning makes it hard to embody that moral code overnight.

I ran Khan before and found it a bit too sexual, since the external effects happened faster than the internal effects. I wasn’t ready for it so I’m running Ascension to build a good foundation.

#4

There is not enough room on the pedestal for two. If you put women on the pedestal it means you’re not on there. You need to be on your own pedestal (without being an arrogant douche): that’s called self-esteem. Whichever sub can help you feel that you’re the most important person in your own reality (not women) is what you need. It could be LB, it could be Ascension or Emperor… and the list goes on.

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#5

Great answer. Thanks.

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#6

Based on my experience I would say KB first to heal issues caused by porn and to de sexualize women. Then Khan to become the main character in your life story.

When your the main character everyone else are either supporting characters or extra’s.

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#7

WANTED

:sunglasses:

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#8

Be patient, man.

You’re like a student saying, ‘This alphabet stuff is cool. But when am I going to be able to read?’

You are learning to read at the exact same time that you’re practicing the alphabet. That’s literally taking you there.

I’m not saying, ‘where focus goes, energy flows’. I’m just saying that if you have something more important, it’ll balance out being so obsessed over women.

If you knew that there was a bag with your name on it that had 10 million USD inside. It’s about 20 minutes walk across town. You just have to go get it within 90 minutes. Or it’s gone.

Something tells me 10 beautiful women would not be able to distract you during that 20 minute walk.

There are a lot of ways to do this. Not just one. If your nature is more open to pride and being full of yourself, then finding ways to be impressed with yourself will help. But your nature might be different. For some, it’s more of a knowledge path.

For myself, it’s the psyche path. That’s just where my nature is. Shit. I’ll still get flummoxed by the right women on certain days. We’re freaking wired for it. But in my case, I’m pretty aligned with learning about psyche and experiencing. Sometimes. So, focusing on psyche helps to really balance out the hormones, ass shape, beautiful face thing.

The body is the walkway and front door. The mind is the house.

If you’re losing it over a woman’s appearance and wishing you could have her. That’s like buying a house because it has an awesome front door. Once you get inside, you’ll probably feel like an idiot. ‘Shit. Should have taken a look around here before spending that money.’

Anyway.

Good luck man.

This is perennial stuff.

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#9

I am running KB actually. I’m about to do my second cycle of KB ST1 and Ascension this week.

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#10

Yeah, I figured. I wanted to run WB when it was released but I wanted it tailored for a monogamous relationship. I’m at the point in my life where I want to settle down with 1 woman.

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#11

Lol. Uh…ok. Patience. I guess in a way you’re right. I’ll try to stick with Ascension until I see the sales page results, and that in itself will require patience. Thanks for the advice as always.

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#12

You’ll probably have the chance to tell me the exact same thing before too long.

I say things because I think they’re true; not because I’ve mastered them.

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#13

Just throw out the pedestal, lol. Why do you have one in the first place.

Here’s what you do:

Leave the women on the pedestal. Grab a Mk 153 SMAW. Shoot down the pedestal, shattering it into a trillion pieces. Women go flying, you put on your Gigachad cape and save them all. Easy. Works every time.

edit: On a serious note, WANTED is a good recommendation

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#14

Primal

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#15

What’s funny is I’m actually at the beach now on my day off, taking in nature, and I’m working on some life goals on my laptop, and this gorgeous woman who walked passed me a few times is in front of me in the water with some friends or family. I’m focusing on my work, but I can’t help but steal glances and stare at her gorgeous body. I just thought it was interesting that the very thing that I’m discussing in this thread is happening while I’m trying to work.

#16

I’m getting more unfazed by women when I’m on KB & I stopped to fantasize sexually about them. Also on WB I think more frequently that I’m the prize.

So I would say those 2 titles are pretty good to take them off the pedestal very quickly.

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#17

Also those ancient pedestals are really heavy, so there’s a real danger that the floor will collapse!

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#18

Why is it, that you desire women so much?

Often it is because we feel a lack in our life. Of course, a partner is desirable. But I think there’s more behind your desire.
Often it’s a lack of self love that leads to us desiring something external instead of something internal.

So my advice would be Lovebomb so that you are totally content with yourself and don’t search for fulfillment outside.

I wanted nothing as much as a gf when I started my self love journey. But at a certain point, when I started to love myself, this desire vanished because I enjoyed being with myself.
A week later I met my fiancee.

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#19

Just caught up with the thread (startdmy first post at work).
Keep KB1 running. Porn messes us up badly. Especially men, since we are wired differently and looks were a telltale for fertility and child-bearing capacity.
KB1 can heal this. 3 cycles and I’m not interested in porn or anything alike. I still can enjoy the sight of a beautiful women, but it doesn’t do anything for me anymore. And that’s after 20 years of pornabuse.

LB and KB1 will solve this in a few cycles.

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#20

Was LB the self love cure or was it something else?