She’d definitely benefit from SS.
This is definitely a case of her wanting to seduce you but feeling like she can’t.
And trust me, once you gave her oral sex, she would’ve gotten honey and had sex, 8 times out of 10 
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Honestly?
This was happening waaaaay before SSX, basically since I know her (from march)
I gave her oral sex, and she says I’m amazing…
so… no, unfortunately
what if you guys both listened to KB1 or Divine Diamond? I know that was discussed a few months ago but what are your current thoughts on that?
She doesn’t listen to subs, neither know english
That’s right. Forgot. Not even very very basic english?
Yes, read and written. But to immediately understand when someone speaks it, I would say no
And anyway, is the script in very very basic english?
There was a conversation like this once before and I remember it being said that the script was in basic english and even someone that didn’t speak much english should be able to benefit. You should definitely submit a support ticket tho. Things change.
Even if your girl can only read written english, that means that the words are locked into her subconscious…
Subconsciously we know the meaning to all the words we’ve ever tried to learn in a foreign language, but consciously we have to remember they’re meaning, what order they go in, how they’re supposed to sound. When we “remember” we are successfully tapping our subconscious, but when we “forget” we’re failing to tap into it.
My point is that because she can read english, her subconscious knows more english than she does, so it might work. And it won’t HURT her to run subliminals… either she doesn’t understand enough english to be affected at all, or she understands enough to be positively benefited. No harm in trying.
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Anyways just read this today and thought it’s exactly what you were looking for, something to consider…
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I’ve just started SSX and it’s supposed to wonders… I don’t wanna jump here and there
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This morning unfolded into yet another intense conversation about sexuality…
The prospect of reviving the vibrant sexual connection we shared months ago appears to be slipping farther away for me.
For her, everything seems routine and ordinary. There’s nothing unusual – just the regular rhythm of her pre-menstrual cycle OR the arrival of her period OR and a general discomfort in her new apartment OR…
This morning, the issue was that I should caress her, kiss her neck, and engage in delicate conversation to arouse her… actions that, in truth, I undertake daily.
I’m contemplating whether the solution lies not in drawing closer but, rather, in taking a step back. Perhaps being less present will prompt her to discern the difference.
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Have you thought about Diamond? Because it can make her more horny.
She can try Limitless or BLE. On the one side, you will see if it working at all and on the other side, it can also lead to improving her English by better brain utilization.
I’ve bought the “new technology” SS that it’s exactly for that
As I said I don’t want to jump from sub to sub hoping for one that will work
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Genesis (8th cycle)
SSX (2nd cycle)
LBFH (1st cycle)
I didn’t see my girlfriend yesterday either. I know this is better for me cause I can focus more on other things.
One of these is finding my purpose, since I’ve started using Genesis I’ve not seen much progress in that area. However, it is likely that the anxiety and nervousness that I have been having in cycles lately is actually recon from Genesis.
I’ve started Purpose Mastery course, it seem very well done. One of the first things you go through is finding your Original Story (a particular event, usually between your 5 and 15s, that shaped your style of making reactive decisions in life).
In my case I might one of these:
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Betrayal Overcomer: my father left my mother when I was 10, he was having an affair with another woman
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Rejection Overcomer: my father was always pointing out how I have to be better, often making fun of me, I don’t remember expression of love from him except in recent years, when he was ill.
Also leaving our house after the separation seems a bit like a rejection to me.
Now, I have a clearer picture of what is causing a lot of stress in my relationship.
Fear of her not being honest to me (betrayal) and of me not being enough (rejection), I even wake up at night because of these.
Dream
I dreamed of finding myself in this house, where a dog, which initially seemed aggressive then jumped into my arms and was extremely affectionate, it almost seemed like it was looking for comfort/protection.
A person who is there tells me that it is strange and that it would be nice if I could dedicate some time to it every now and then.
I accept, he seems amazed and he tells me that he should go and talk to the owner about it immediately.
I meet the owner and he tells me that the dog actually does this because he is reliving his trauma. I am shocked and ask him whether or not it is useful for him to see me if he relives a trauma in my presence…
Current Stack
KB st1 - 1st cycle
SSX - 3rd cycle
Yesterday evening I was very tranquil, I’m not sure if it can even be definied as apathy. I had dinner with my gf and then we watched some tv.
Even though I touched and caressed her I didn’t have any sexual or even emotional pull.
Than after sometimes I decided to go to bed, thoughts started to come to my mind “why I don’t feel sexual?” “why I’m not attracted” “our sexual attraction is ended?”.
We were in bed, none of us could sleep, but I was very relaxed and started observing the thoughts above. They came and went, then I settled into the background of thoughts.
At one point I started caressing her butt.
I was teasing sometimes not even touching but letting her feel the presence of my hand, she got very aroused.
We had sex, it was very dominating on my part. I was much more “talkative” than usual, probably SSX and some dirty talk video I’m looking lately. I know she loves this but I’m often a little “shy” about it… but not this time.
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my 2 cents:
she feels unworthy of love and the root cause is something that happened in her childhood and she projects that onto every guy. give her a lot of hugs and affection and just tell her that you love her even when you don’t have sex.
she’s very sexual but that proves that she’s traumatised, because it’s a coping mechanism. she’s actually addicted to sex because it makes her feel safe and protects her from the trauma. it’s a classic trauma response
i know you didn’t ask for my opinion, just trying to help…
Thanks for your option but I was a post from 5 months ago. Now things in our relationship have changed for the better.
And no she don’t use sex as a coping mechanism, I’ve realized I was the one that actually did that. But again, things are changing
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I’m glad to hear that, I wish you guys all the best
After I read your post, I saw some other testimonials on youtube and reddit that creatine could create temporary erectile dysfunction.
Have yours got better after stopping creatine?
Yes I don’t remember exactly but I’d just a week after stopping everything was back to normal
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