Results would be insane
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Legacy of Spartan is out I have to stick to it for 6 months.
what is LBFH supposed to do? I’m on Love Bomb now and I feel better with Love Bomb rather than when I was with LBFH.
I’m sorry to hear that you’re going through a very tough and trying time. It’s important to stay away from a type of porn called JOI because it can be really harmful for you. This kind of porn includes witchcraft and can affect you spiritually. I hope you’re not watching it. Instead, you might want to try finding other activities to keep yourself busy and learn new things that don’t involve porn. (Easier said than done)
Perhaps you should look into the Spartan sub… This program is designed to help you develop resilience, mental toughness, and a strong ethic, which can be beneficial for overcoming addiction and building a more fulfilling life. Just some thoughts i had.
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The more you view porn as evil, bad, wrong, the harder it will be to quit. Forgive yourself and set a positive intention to change.
“I want to quit porn to be better”
Not
“I want to quit porn because it’s bad.”
See the difference, turn it into a positive change and it will be far easier and healthier.
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Thank you.
Am free from Porn because I noticed I use porn to relief myself from pain (mental, emotional) I came to understand that life has Up’s and down.
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A specific type of porn or porn I’m general.
Am 2weeks free now. Am happier than before.
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JOI porn that incorporates spells, silent imaging, charged talismans, and succubus summoning can be harmful and should be refrained from for several reasons.
Firstly, it can lead to the development of unhealthy beliefs and attitudes towards sex and relationships. The incorporation of supernatural entities and ritualistic objects in JOI pornography can create a false sense of reality and lead to the belief that such practices are normal or acceptable in real life sexual encounters. This can lead to many things that i should not go into on here.
Secondly, it can lead to addiction and desensitization to healthy sexual practices. Consuming porn that incorporates spells and other supernatural elements can create a heightened sense of excitement and arousal that can lead to addiction attachment of other entities and a need for increasingly extreme or unrealistic content to achieve sexual satisfaction. This can lead to desensitization to healthy sexual practices and a lack of fulfillment in real life sexual relationships.
I would stay away from that type…
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Am done with any type of porn.
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Just wanted to know if I consumed this kind of porn. My fiancee looked it up and all she found d was “Jerk of instructions”.
This one’s I’ve consumed in the past.
Is that what you ment, or is it another kind of porn?
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Indeed, that’s the kind of content I was alluding to. A friend of mine faced significant issues after prolonged consumption. He spent three years indulging in it and encountered many difficulties including maintaining an erection with his wife; he’d go limp. The road to recovery was lengthy, and there were additional challenges along the way. Regrettably, there’s much more to the story, but it’s not suitable for discussion here.
I know this issues.
When I met my fiancee the first time, I would have loved to have sex with her. The tension was more than tangible. I made her orgasm with just kissing her, fully clothed, in public (although no one present).
But I knew sex would be a disaster. I was pmo free for a short few weeks, but I didn’t trust my erection one bit. I needed 6-9 months to be able to have sex without a c**kring. In this time we worked quite a lot with all kind of coaching tools, including changing believes, hypnosis, etc.
There were also a few months, when we had porn running in the background because I still needed the stimulation.
That’s all a part of the past now, thank God.
For this thread in general
I was able to reduce my addiction tremendously, but still had regular relapses. The shame made me keeping it secret. This almost destroyed my relationship.
I started this year with three months of KB1 and it did the deed for me. No more temptation, no more curiosity about porn when I see porn memes or whatever I still struggled with.
As a general advice, I would also recommend running LB. Pornaddiction destroys everything concerning self love, self esteem, etc.
LB is rebuilding this.
There’s a beautiful post from Luther24 on this topic. I’ll dig it up later.
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Here it is.
It’s a bit long, but worth every minute.
Even reading it a couple of times is worth it.
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I like what Connor Beaton has said about porn and masturbation - often times it’s a nervous system response to boredom, overwhelm, freeze, etc.
Looking at it from that lens we can stop punishing ourselves in shame for “relapsing” and instead have compassion for this coping mechanism that our mind/body has found, and look for better ones.
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In your situation, subjectively, from my experience, I would recommend you as first aid (I would listen to it all day or until I feel mental stability and inner strength again):
Then for longer period of time and overall cleansing:
After period of overall cleansing to find peace of mind and life purpose:
Its also good not to stop to watching adult movies (or what you like) instantly. For me, it is better to indulge in pleasure but in smaller doses. Quitting an addiction to anything right away can be as dangerous as quitting smoking right away. The addiction often returns and is even stronger. Please take the above as a recommendation only!!!
For me, it wouldn’t be a bad thing to make your addiction a good trait either (transformation or sublimation to something better). But I certainly wouldn’t skip what I would recommend to myself (see my previous post on this topic). Please take this as a recommendation for a possible next path and work with your sexual energy:
Yeah, for me it was a coping mechanism to Deal with feelings that overwhelmed me. Sometimes it was just a letter from health insurance. It was just to much. So I used to pmo. Didn’t help, but helped to cope with being overwhelmed.
I would love to understand what KB changed in me. What was wrong, what was going on, why I needed to pmo. But right now, I’m simply happy that it did what it did.
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I would more than appreciate that.
The basic premise, is that healthy sexuality is basically rooted in connection, intimacy, emotional freedom, and self-love. It’s very clean.
Good ol’ wholesome lovemaking.
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