If he’s got a lot of mental muck going on I bet he could just run Regen and it would have plenty of work just on whatever he’s already digging up daily anyway
In addition to the subs suggested here, may I also suggest this book:
It is absolutely essential for anyone with a business whether it’s struggling or not, IMHO. It should be immediately followed by his other book Profit First, once the major issues have been addressed.
For making money he may want to try Mogul, The Ecstasy of Gold, or Ascended Mogul. While Emperor is an excellent program it may be a bit broad if you want him to focus exclusively on making money.
For dealing with emotional issues he might consider Regeneration or Dragon Reborn.
Thank you everyone for all of your great suggestions. You really have been very helpful.
He continued yesterday with his happy go lucky attitude. Smiling happily, saying “I love you”, and expecting life to go on as normal as if nothing was wrong. I tend to be optimistic and I’m not a worrier, but I felt nauseated all day about what he had done, and then to see him acting all happy was really disturbing to me.
He ended up running Emperor last night and gave up Wanted. He said that he couldn’t sleep because he kept on thinking about all the things that he can do better.
He says this morning that he feels like he has no satisfaction and that he feels like he needs to have accountability about everything he does. This is gold right here, and what I thought he was missing and needed if he ever was going to make a pronounced change in his life.
He even looks different and the way that he is carrying himself reminds me of a very successful alpha male that we know who turned himself into a business man millionaire on a blue collar salary.
Great to hear that he is getting results,wishing you both the best
Can you please tell if he is playing emperor zp or the QV2 ?
Thanks @sid He’s playing ZP. I’m seeing a dramatic change in his mannerisms and behavior. The annoying daily dose of foolishness (for lack of better word) is gone. I’m seeing someone who I actually enjoy being around and who can be respected now. He feels like he needs to be excellent with every fiber of his being. He says he feels like he has to constantly do something that’s productive. He said it’s like “do, do, do, do, do, out”. Like he has to be productive until he falls asleep. He says it’s a weird feeling, but that maybe this is how he has to be, to be successful.
It’s only been day one. He should be able to make great progress if this continues.
I didn’t read the entire thread. Who is " He"?
My boyfriend/partner/guy? Not sure who he is anymore
Not to be that guy but I think he should decide what he wants to do because you’re looking at things from a very controlling view
He’s an adult and you don’t sound like you have very much better intentions towards him than his parents did
@lrw I can relate to your guy’s situation. I don’t have my own business but my family on either side parents or siblings have never been financially successful and I have been incredibly determined to break that cycle although unfortunately I more often than not sabotage myself.
I’m tired of being surrounded by people with such a narrow view of everything especially wealth. Always talking about being poor and broke while this weirdly disturbing hatred for wealthy people. i honestly feel that’s why I have such a difficult time when I run Mogul ZP or RICH ZP. I’m working on eliminating a lifetime of programming that is in direct conflict with what I crave more than anything
I’m tagging @SaintSovereign to get his feedback
EoG Stage1.
I consider it mandatory for everyone.
Pre-Q version did wonders for me.
Why for everyone?
OK, everyone on this forum posting regularly.
We might think that we don’t have any hangups about wealth, but that’s just bullcrap.
Also the younger guys only looking to get laid would really benefit from having their life under control with money and higher goals. It would help them to meet/ attract higher quality women.
Edit: There’s nothing positive in not being wealthy.
I get what you mean. But “Mandatory” is a strong word.
And that’s why I chose to use it
lol. I mean…what you see as mandatory…just always isn’t
Well, to be fair…
I worded my sentence: I consider it mandatory for everyone.
I do not claim to be an authority on this
This is a low success ceiling. It comes from being programmed at an early age not to be able to see yourself succeed above a very low level. It can’t be fixed overnight. Trust me, I know, I just broke out of mine.
Emperor may be the way to go with that for now, but what really got me through it was a year on DR. But that will only work when he is ready and WANTS to get through it enough to really walk through fire to get there.
It has to be his call, and he has to be sick enough of bouncing off of that ceiling that he’ll face all of the reasons that he’s like that and get through them.
Hi @lrw ,
If you could elaborate if possible, why does he need therapy? Is it for his self-sabotage?
Also, to what extent is parental support (I am assuming non-financial areas of support) important to him in terms of being a success?
I think this points towards some deep emotional issues that perhaps Regeneration, Rebirth or EOGST1 might possibly address rather than than his own capability in running a business.
We’re able to create our own reality, specially here in the U.S. where there is so much opportunity, but I know that it can be really hard to get out of those cycles. Some people create cycles of defeat while others create cycles of success. It can be done, and I am so proud of you for being an eagle among the chickens.
He got all these thoughts, ideas, and plans last night on how to get out of debt by the end of the year and have thousands of dollars extra to invest. There was so much input going on in his head that he had to write it all down on a notebook and he said that he will be taking that book with him in case he gets any more ideas. It seems that this is all from Emperor ZP.