Hello everyone, there’s this person who became friends with my brother a few years ago. He got so close with him that even my family know him. Eventually this person started to ask me to hang around with him and he acts like we are friends even though we are not. He is a bad influence on my brother and my cousins. I did not tell my brother to get him out of his life because I feel like we will get into a big argument. He got so close to my family that even my uncles and aunties invite him to birthdays, holidays, etc.
Since he’s been around my cousins and my brother’s behaviors have changed aswell. I even told him that I don’t want to hang around but he keeps messaging me forcing it.
If there’s any title that could help please inform me.
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That’s what I love about this forum the unique challenges that faces everyone!
I don’t know what title exactly suits this situation
But look at the following
Power can corrupt
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Hey @Ay3. I agree with @sid. Power Can Corrupt is an excellent title for this. And it also helps you influence everyone in your life including your relatives and friends.
Some people are put off by the connection of this title with the book the “48 laws of power” but trust me it is very smooth and will not turn you into a “machevillian villian”.
You will be more socially savy, powerful, and charming with PCC. And no amount of other people’s influence will touch you.
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what would happen if two people who have been running PCC for a year will meet each other? 
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LOL! The probability of that is extremely low. But if it does happen, both will get along very well.
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Thought you said you don’t know what suits this situation 
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Yea exactly I don’t know because I don’t know
- the different variables in the situation
- and the level of personal advancement of the one asking the question
Look at these pov just 2 possibilities out of many
1)If @Ay3 is feeling jealous from this person he speaks about he may need to heal this jealousy .
2)If this situation related that this man influence his family and he value his family alot he may look at emperor HOM
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PCC was the first title that came to my mind, but once read that he’s trying to force you to hang out with him, I thought that an alpha title would be good for you to deal with him.
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To me @lrw got a point
You can tackle the problem how you prefer the two main routes that you have is either through you game the unwanted guy out of your family life, Wich PCC will do the job just perfectly
Or you can become someone with arguments that have a lot of weight with very few words because of your status and self confidence
They may even have other way to accomplish your desire but those are the main ones
Think a bit about it then you only have to make your choice (or pick the two lol)
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@sid I don’t feel jealous because I couldn’t care less if a person likes someone else more than me but I’m more concerned about my family, specifically young kids I’m talking about.
I feel like if this person leaves my brothers life he can elevate himself and becoming even better. But I don’t see any way of him staying away from us. When I was still living with my parents he even came inside our house and into my room acting all friendly. Now that I live by myself I told my family don’t tell him where I live because he might even pull up there. It’s crazy really.
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@lrw when I say he’s trying to force me to hang out with him I mean he’s messaging me to ask to hang out. But it feels forced because even after replying no I don’t want to he will ask me the following day and I’m thinking is it not clear that I want nothing to do with you? But he’s not forcing as in he’s telling me you have to come or this will happen… I hope u understand what I’m trying to say
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@Melior the problem is that unless I cut ties with my family the guy is still involved in my life because even though I don’t hangout with him if my family invite me to dinner he will be there and it’s so strange and awkward they try to make him part of the family.
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Get on PCC immediately and HOM even just for a cycle or two while the situation blows over. It’ll be worth it. Or if you just have regular Emperor try that with PCC. But since HOM does good things in family situations that’s what I’d personally put on my playlist until this situation is taken care of.
Also have a movie night with your family. Watch The Cable Guy with as many of them as possible! It may help plant the right idea in their heads so you have an easier time maneuvering the situation. A little Pre-Suasion, if you will.
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Like I said PCC and maybe a alpha / status sub
If you got the verbal gymnastic and status to carry your words and action you’ll have all the tools you need to remove him chirurgically
Not an easy situation to deal with I see that the man in question has taken deep roots 
Courage to you man, he didn’t got there in one day it’ll take some time to make his bad side outshine what he has planted into your family
From what I understand it’s almost a mental war for you
And yeah just tell him you have other things you prefer to do than just hang out in general
This isn’t a sub recommendation. I recommend learning the Sleight of Mouth language patterns. And the other stuff that goes with SLOM. But the patterns alone will help with being able to outframe and outtalk the guy. Put him in his place when necessary.
Honestly, you need to grow up.
I don’t mean that in a condescending disrespectful way.
I mean that literally…
As in, I don’t know how old you are or what you’ve been taught… but independent actualized adult males don’t have these kinds of issues.
I don’t know about anyone else here, but being an independent actualized adult male is the highest priority for somebody that isn’t one.
All of these people suggesting PCC are coddling your growth and offering a cheap solution for you in the box that you exist in.
If someone puts themselves in a prison and is encountering problems with other people there…
I’m not going to give him a book on how to politically and strategically maneuver in there…
I’m just going to tell him to get the f*** out the prison. 
? lol.
Is this making sense?
You don’t need charm or to become socially influential… Yeah that’s not gonna cut it.
Listen up.
You need to grow up out of the box and comfort zone that you’re afraid to get out of and leave all that brother, uncle, friend, auntie drama shit (reminds me of those TV dramas) behind.
If you level up your life you don’t have to ever worry about that type of stuff ever again.
Run an alpha title for 6 months, become independent. Learn to set some boundaries and unapologetically embrace your manhood. Raise your status in the real world.
I don’t understand how you can let 1 person have that much negative influence on your life to the point where you’re asking for solutions for it on an internet forum.
Run an alpha title for 6 months like Ascension or Ascended Mogul, become independent.
If you’re still having these types of problems after 6 months I’ll give you $300.
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You make me want to have problems sir
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I get what you’re saying. He’s not taking no for an answer. Your no means no, and people who don’t respect that boundary are trying to control you.
It must be hard since your family is so open to having him around. I get that you’re concerned about them. This is something that they will just have to learn on their own.
You have to do your own thing and if that means that you have to start keeping your distance from your relatives then do that. Use that time to develop yourself in areas that you’re interested in.
Try to see this as an opportunity that has presented itself and you’re going to use it for your benefit. Our relatives have their own life and you have yours. I have a close relative who ended up marrying someone who everyone in the family warned not to marry. We knew he was no good, but that was just the tip of the iceberg. It got to the point that I had to say “do what you want to do with your life and I’ll do what I want to do with mine. That means that I can’t have you around.” My relative and this person brought division into our family. It is what it is.
It doesn’t sound like this situation will reach this level of toxicity, but if it does. Just take care of you. The other relatives will realize their mistake, and if they don’t then you were better off without them.
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