Removing someone from your life

My take on with this kind of behavior.

Imagine vividly how you remove someone out of your life.

Use everything: from friendly talking to screaming, from grabbing him and shoot him out of your house to punish him brutally.

Then when you are confortable, do it in reality

Start with the lowest level (normal talk)
Every time he doesn’t respect you, level up until he gets it.

Don’t start to punish him right away
:joy:

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Hmm…someday I might want PCC if that’s the case…

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An excellent product especially when combined with the alpha titles like Ascension, Emperor, StarkQ, Khan, etc.

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To build on what you said @Skadoosh. Part of growing up is accepting that other people are also individuals just like you. They have their own goals and dreams and desires and ultimately, they must take responsibility for their own lives. This doesn’t mean you can’t help, guide, and support people, but you also can’t allow yourself to be “contaminated” by other people’s decisions. Also, sometimes leading by example is the most meaningful thing you can do if you want to help people you love. Become a role model and watch and see how people around you change. Becoming a role model is WAY more effective then trying to force change in others.

Best of luck!

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I must contain myself to my current stack, but it will be on my radar. Lol.

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Haha I know that feeling too, @praisetheurdtree

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Become a more powerful leader than this guy. Run an alpba title like ascension. Get your family listening toyou instead of being someone who’s voice doesn’t matter and who’s opinion isn’t respected.

Become an alpha that influences his family to live their besf lives.

PCC sounds good too not because this guy is important, because it looks like you feel powerless and dont know how to navigate social situations like this. So Ascension + PCC will give you everything you need.

Or you could run Chosen. It’s all about relationships, leadership, positive influence. If he’s being a negative influence, you need to become a positive one.

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Lol, the reason I’ll never end up giving him $300 is because there is no way that he’s going to create that type of shit with somebody after 6 months on an Alpha title.

You guys have no idea how messed up this is… and I don’t want to offend anyone but it’s revealing a lot of mentality in here.

Don’t give advice if you don’t have your own shit together. This is how the circle jerking and cluelessness begins.

A grown man said no to another grown man and their no was just swatted like a fly.

No more jokes, this is not a laughing matter.

@Ay3, this guy has zero respect for you or your boundaries. You have zero frame and you just let him walk all over you and even infiltrate your family.

He just swatted your words away like a fly.
That’s how much he respects you, you’re a fly to him.

You can’t stand up and speak your heart to your brother?
So your opinion doesn’t even matter? You don’t have a say in your own family?
You rather avoid confrontation than speak your mind to the people you hold most dearly in your life?

You need to start assessing yourself, I am dead serious.
You need to raise your internal status immediately.
You need a stronger frame, you need to assert yourself and take action.
You need to unapologetically set boundaries in your life.
You need to start operating in a realm where making these types of threads don’t exist.

Just stop the madness and Alpha Up.

You’re manifesting this situation as a wake up call to move onto the next chapter in your life.
You’re not about to just do some social game PCC bullshit or verbal NLP techniques to fix it…
If you decide to not run an Alpha title then I’m leaving the forum.

You should be the man of your house.
You picked up most of your programming from your parents when you were younger and now you have access to powerful subliminals.
Get to a level where you can inspire everyone in your family.

You should be influencing THEM. Everyone should be listening to YOU.
That guy’s family should be inviting YOU to HIS house.

Wake up and move forward

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If your a good alpha with no tools to utilise that power and frame that’s not enough

He’ll just end up frustrated and alone, or maybe not there’s more than one way to deals with problems

Like I said at the start I agree with you like I agreed with lrw, alpha title to not let the guy walk all over the place but when you’ve come from far an alpha title might let the time for the other guy to settle more and more

So why not considering PCC as a viable option too? Your frame of solution is not the only one valid bro, and even if I understand where your thoughts comes from, calling that a circle of jerking is a bit overkill

People who can’t considerate others way while still keeping their own strong is a sign of fear, because you just refuse to acknowledge the rest of the truth

But who knows I’m reacting because I don’t like earing ‘’ this way only the best, the rest eat crap"
Kind of putting down others to look better, that you want it or not this way to put things out works like that, I’m allergic to those type of speech

Also maybe the guy need that verbal slap of yours to move his ass, anyway it’s down to him to act

Ps : I enjoyed reflecting on why I felt I had to react tho good stuff to work on

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@ABC333 will try that thank u

@Melior yeah I don’t hang out with him anymore. I told him I’m not interested and I’m probably just gonna block him to be honest.

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@Trader Will look into that. It’s not about putting someone in they’re place to be honest because when he’s around my family he acts like an angel and when he messages me he’s trying to have a conversation even though I’m not interested.

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@Skadoosh I’m 22 and I’m actually very independent. I just got my own house, a job, etc. Regarding me personally my only issue is that this person is messaging me and I buck into him on family meetings. As far as the first point, I will just block him on my phone and remove the phone number. If I see the guy and he asks me why I did that I’ll tell him that I don’t want to have any contact with him. Now that I’ve explained the personal stuff, the issue with my family. You said you need to leave all that family shit behind and if you level up you don’t have to worry about that stuff again. Can you explain what you mean by that? Are you saying that I shouldn’t have contact with my family? And what would a title you recommended help with regarding this? If it’s being independent i have that in my locker already.

@Leandros sounds about right :joy::joy:

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@Melior You don’t make any sense here, lol.
A good alpha doesn’t have no tools to utilize their power and frame and they don’t end up frustrated and alone.
It seems like you have no conception what a good alpha is.

How are you able to use the term “good alpha” and terms like “frustrated and alone” and “no tools to utilize” in the same sentence?

Instead of looking at the information and what’s being said, you’re looking at it based on how the interaction “looks”.

You just marginalized all of the information under this vague reframe that has nothing to do with the information itself.

Challenge the information, lol.

He wasn’t able to assert a boundary and his words weren’t taken seriously in an interaction with another grown man.

Another grown man who is not apart of his family is having a negative influence on his family members and he’s seemingly powerless.

My issue is that the situation this guy described is 101% screaming desperately “I need more Alpha” and people are recommending PCC to him with the same degree of recommendation (or even more) that they’re giving with the Alpha title.

This means that there is a complete lack of understanding about the Alpha dynamic of his situation.

Ok, so here’s the thing, @Ay3

You don’t need to block him on the phone and remove the phone number.
Not only is blocking someone a completely unrealistic and downgraded form of human interaction… but that pathway offers the least amount of growth, if any.

Real life is not a forum or social media.

If you tell him to stop contacting you, he shouldn’t keep contacting you.
He shouldn’t be ignoring what you’re saying and there should be no need to block him.
He should be respecting what you said and be respecting the boundary that you’ve laid out…

This should be the case for EVERY man and for you it’s not… and that is why I’m putting such a strong emphasis on an Alpha title.

Something about your intent, masculinity, aura, frame, energy, internal framework, belief systems, etc. is not strong/powerful/masculine/alpha enough and just being dismissed as insignificant.

There’s no respect, lol.

If I yell at a kid to get off my lawn, I’m never going to see him or have to worry about him on my lawn again. I shouldn’t have to build a fence.

Does that make sense?

Since that guy shat on the intent of your boundary as if it was nothing, lol… I’m going to recommend an Alpha title with strong masculinity and power such as Emperor.

I probably should have used a better word than “independent.”

Here’s the thing:
Just because you have a house and job, etc, doesn’t mean that you’re a strong, capable and respected Alpha.

I’m talking about truly being sovereign and aware of your power and not being held back by tribal mentality or subconsciously requiring protection from society or your family.

Everywhere you go, you can see married couples with kids, people with houses, high paying jobs and expensive cars… yet living in fear, making fear-based decisions and conforming based on how a group thinks or what their parents or friends say.

External signs are often confused with transitioning into and embracing the alpha, actualized adult mindset/belief systems.

The shift has to occur subconsciously.

Most grown ass men and women are walking around with a childlike mindset because the culture, society and way of living in today’s age doesn’t even clearly define a transition like that.

A subliminal like Emperor automatically creates that transition and takes you beyond.

No, don’t leave your family as in run away. I meant leave them as in leave them in the dust.

I meant the low ROI family drama type of shit.

Ascended Alphas, Emperors, Starks and Khans don’t even bother with ANY of that crap, lol.

You know all these TV family dramas that people watch with all types of drama, gossip, he said she said, behind the back betrayal, family arguments, toxic relationships, attacking your reputation, scared to act because of what your family thinks etc type of nonsense…

None of that should exist in your reality…

You should be on such a high standard, high status and high ROI of living and expression that everything just aligns itself around you in terms of friends and family.

The people in your family don’t have access to these powerful tools and it’s your responsibility to elevate yourself to a level that inspires them in positive ways.

Qualify them, elevate them and let them catch up. That’s how family life manifests as an Alpha…
You’re always a realm ahead of them and they’re constantly inspired and catching up. You never stoop down to or operate in their level and they’re always trying to get to yours.
Are you a realm ahead? What can you do in getting further ahead?

It’s the separation… That’s what gives you the judges “hammer” that they listen to. That’s what makes them pull out notepads and start jotting shit down when you speak at the dinner table.

Just some stuff to think about, lol.
It looks like you got it though, keep it up

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Nay bro that’s why you haven’t looked at the part where I said I agree with you
Doesn’t fit the fact that I ‘’ marginalized’’ your info :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:

So you’re marginalizing my own agreement on your points ahaha

Or that your inner definition is very strict, and mine more open?

Food for thoughts

True, I tend to use the words I feel like using forgetting that people will use their strict meaning my bad I guess, I would say then more an alpha in the process or in the desire to become one

I like you pointing out those discrepancy, it helps me put into more solid narratives my expression of self in here

So no bad feelings

And

Maybe because it helps construct more sophisticated tools for that precise type of situation

More in ‘’ flow’’ with what’ s described instead of a counter uppercut who can generate unnecessary tension for a while if badly handled?

You can never know for sure how someone will handle anything anyway

And @Ay3 blocking should be the very last of your options it’s a sort of forfeiting or last ressort.

I’m sure you’ll find the necessary means with some intuition if you either think more general confidence will help with one of many alpha titles available here (it always does anyway) or maybe more consciousness about what’s going on and the power at play with PCC :wink:

Or once again both?? :joy:

The negative influence is more with the younger ones. Having said that he probably has influence on the elders aswell, for example he buys gifts for them. I hope u understand this is deeper than it looks.

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To be fair I haven’t asked him to stop contacting me yet. All I do is respond to him when he asks me to hang out. But on the days that he doesn’t ask me to hang out he’s still messaging me. For example today he send me a picture of a pair of sneakers and asked me if I liked them. I feel like if I don’t say straight that he shouldn’t contact me he won’t get the clue despite me showing no interest in the way I message back.

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I see what your saying. However I’m not that type of person. I don’t create drama at all. especially for this scenario. I have told my mother and one of my uncles who I’m close with about my issue with this guy and told them that I don’t like him being around us. If I told my whole family that’s when the drama will kick in I think :joy:

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@Melior might do both :joy:

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