Quite Devastated by some news, Probably bye bye subclub

my freakout has calmed down…

i am back to being who i was 2 days ago…

I’ll be using my subclub stack once a week… i may cheat this and may use it twice in a week…

I’ve gathered subs and fields for this hair problem…

i got into fields for hair months ago but was inconsistent in use

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I haven’t read that carefully through the posts in this thread so I don’t know if I’m about to make a point similar to anyone else’s.

I met a guy once who had definitely experienced early-onset male-pattern baldness. You could tell because the hair at the corners of his temples and at the crown of his head was thin or gone. It was very noticeable to anyone who looked.

He was also extremely cool and influential. He was a director who, in his twenties, wrote and directed his own plays and was sort of the center of this scene of young, dynamic, art people.

He was also a skilled and agile practitioner of the Brazilian art of Capoeira, specifically Capoeira Angola, a lesser-known and culturally rich variant. Watching him play the game of Capoeira was like watching a fish slip through the reeds. Tricky. Formidable. Playful. Strong.

He basically carried himself and moved like someone who was somebody.

As a result, his hair was more like a unique and distinctive feature on a luxury car, like an unusual paint color or something. It just became one more thing that helped you to remember who this cool person was. Because he was such a cool person, making fun of his hair would probably have backfired and made you look stupid more than he.

Now you can change your hair and so go ahead and run the subliminals, take the vitamins, use the special brushes or whatever. If you make enough money, you may even choose to get artificial hair put in or something like that. All fine; if you understand what’s involved and if you want it.

But just remember that the magic of charisma, attractiveness, and personal power come from a variety of sources. Hair is probably one of the least among them. And there are probably quite a few of those sources that are much more directly open to your influence.

Know what I mean?

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yes brother, i do!

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My man. :sunglasses:

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Unfortunately there are things which are outside of our control and we just have to accept that.

I am going to share a secret with you that noone else will tell you. Porn stars date bald men because for some reason they find them sexy as hell :slight_smile:.

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From Pretty Boy who get the 18-21 year old hotties to the Creepy Predator you usually see in Chris Hansen show. Dont bullshit him bro, losing hair at a young age is one of the worst thing that will happen to a man.

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As a counter-example, look at this picture of (the still somewhat cancelled) Louis CK

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This is him after losing hair:

It’s the confidence and the style, man, not the hair. No bullshit.

But I will say this:

If you happen to be a photograph, and the only tool you have to make an impression is the physical appearance of your head, then think carefully before losing your hair. (Also, try to find a nice photo album or hard drive to live in. Don’t hang around on coffee tables or someone may spill a drink on you.)

But if you’re a living human being, then don’t forget that you can also develop some of your 15,000 other attributes (the personality may be a good place to start).

EDIT: Two more points, actually.

  1. If I were young and my hair was thinning, the subliminals I’d get first would be Khan, Emperor, or Ascension. Because confidence is going to be a much more important issue than hair. If you’re worried about dating, having a unique feature is going to help you to stand out, as long as you have the confidence to wear it well.

If that’s one of the worst things you can imagine happening to a man, then Congratulations. You are living in a very beautiful world. :wink:

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This is wrong.

Whilst he may have had foppish good looks when younger Prince William is vey much a situational alpha as he has massive social status and plenty of money. However as a beta male he did what all beta males do and made do with the woman who chose him who happened to be a 7.

You see, for men its not just about good looks, if only William had had the charisma or personality he would have been able to do so much better.

So clearly, losing hair at a young age is NOT one of the worst things that can happen.

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I have a video of the day when @Lion played his Khan + RICH + Renaissance Man custom for the first time. :ok_hand:t2:


I hope he doesn’t mind me making it public. :innocent:

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to be honest… my reaction and the implications of balding at such a young age is whats killing me inside

bro i understand confidence is King but wouldnt you go crazy on hair growth subs?

I’ll be continuing with Khan, AM and Wanted btw

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Good, you have now started to define your problem.

This is the first step for it not to be a problem in the future.

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ROFL! That’s exactly how it was. I can confirm it. Proudly overweight, bald and bold :smiley: :smiley: :smiley:

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@Simon I think that without saying one word you may have defeated my point of view more effectively than @G-mac’s entire post. You are a dangerous man.

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Yes, definitely, man. I think I’d like to be able to have more hair if I had the option.

maybe not this much though:

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seriously, if we’re just talking about feelings, I can definitely relate to your feeling. Try to find one person in the world who likes every single thing about their body. And if I could snap my fingers and change all of my perceived defects? Sure, man. I’d do that.

(I’ve also got enough imagination to know that even that so-called ‘perfection’ would come with a whole bunch of downsides.)

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For those of you who stepped up to be supportive of @Prome or to get him re-thinking about his situation, thank you!

@DarkPhilosopher
@Malkuth
@remarkable
@Lion
@Simon
@RockyHandsome
@Liquidfire
@Budewr
@BLACKICE
@Introvert_Uli06
@slickman
@TheGreenMan
@COWolfe

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@Prome

You’ve been reminded time and again to stop any hostility. As tempting as it might be to respond in an angry or hostile manner to someone who might act in an angry or hostile way to you, stop.

When you post something like that, people see it and it has an impact on them. Even if your negativity is directed at one person, others see it and are impacted.

If someone directs something towards you that you think is hostile or angry, flag it.

Although eventually you deleting your own angry or hostile post is better than you not deleting your angry or hostile post, and even if you delete your own hostile or angry post, others still see it and the impact has happened.

Our requests for you to post habitually in a civil manner seems to need another perspective for you to consider. How about a new way of thinking about respect. How about before you post something, ask yourself if you would say what you about to post to someone bigger, stronger, more hostile, and more angry than you? If the answer is “no”, then stop yourself from posting it. Either cancel your post, or post something more tactful.

If I think you are unwilling or unable to stop yourself from posting such things again, I think you know what I will do.

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Thanks RV.

I’ve learned my lesson. Life has humbled me

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Thank you guys…!

I really mean it!

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While I always appreciate kind words, I appreciate it even more when people are respectful towards each other. To be respectful when someone thinks another is acting in a negative manner is even more appreciated, and even admirable.

As @Budewr wisely pointed out, leaving a company because of something you don’t like about an individual’s presentation on a forum when the products of a company might be benefiting you, even if you think it’s making a morally high ground statement, might be detrimental to your own development. New technology is expected out this year that should prove even more powerful and helpful.

If you wish to avoid the forum, that’s fine. If you want to post, please do so respectfully. If someone posts something you think is disrespectful, just flag it.

Whatever you decide, if the products here at Subliminal Club are benefiting you, please re-consider your position, and make a decision to benefit your own development.

One more thing, if you see that your post deleted that was criticizing @DarkPhilosopher where you are also saying you might leave Subliminal Club because you dislike his moderation style, that would be me deleting it.

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Loving your kindness @RVconsultant since i joined here and ive always thought you were a bot since your such a nice kind person

i honestly love mods round here its been a minute since i joined subclub, but you guys deserve some love :smiley:
@RVconsultant
@DarkPhilosopher

i might not always agree with their points or their views, but that is totally normal,. were meant to be different to have different views of life

that what makes us unique and special

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