I just read this thread, and this is along the lines of what I’m thinking.
I don’t mean ‘it’s all your fault’.
But I just get the sense that you’re focusing so much more on what she’s doing than on what you are doing or how you are energizing the situation.
That’s normal enough. Most people project a lot.
Blame is easy and mastery is HARD.
But unintended projection’s a good habit to start breaking.
I think some of the answers read in too much on this,
You run a seduction sub you like the validation, Because shes hot, It’s new and fun, It’s clearly read in your post, So while you like it and probably even respond positvely to it, But then pull away, Probably sends out all kind of mixed signals,
You said it yourself maybe i should run wanted black, You love the attention, You even want more of it,
But you also know the consequences, Oh but a forbidden romance is even more appealing to the mind, And to her, Look at the stories women read,
I think the question to ask is if she was not married and was single would you sleep with her? If yes then you are defnitely sending mixed signals.
And that she gets distant if you don’t respond to her sexual advances might just be that she feel hurt, And not manipulation,
However she is a big red flag, And even though crazy girls can be fun, Do not ruin her family, For a one time fuck, Or even your life,
Just my 2 cents,
Ultimately the decision is yours.
Even if he doesn’t ruin her family, she will ruin her family with this attitude with some other guys
I can confirm that. The other week when I was talking with her, she slipped and told me that she’s talking with one guy who was interested in her and so forth and I realized that, she’s more likely already cheating on her husband or planning to cheat. She has mentioned that she caught him cheating before and that she rather not know that he’s cheating.
She knows deep down he probably is and the reason why she’s entertaining different men.
Tho I don’t intend on ruining no family even though she will eventually by some other guy, like you said.
funny you say that because she loves reading about forbidden romance lol
who doesn’t love the attention of women especially beautiful ones. It makes the work setting and just life more enjoyable because once you enter their social circle, it’s a whole new world full of opportunities and amazing adventures that you didn’t know were out there. Because believe it or not, and this is something I realized recently, beautiful women have more connections than unattractive woman. Literally her existence draws people to her, even famous people or people with lots of money, with no efforts of her own, just her genetic makeup.
when I ran primal LD and LE, I may have been too nice in complimenting her hard work one time and she fell so hard, and she may have been holding it in till she had the opportunity to nonchalantly ask for my number. I may have flirted with her without realizing that I wasn’t just being kind and if I knew she had problems with her marriage, I wouldn’t have done it. Plus not seeing her often created the perfect mix of push and pull that made her jump and pursue me.
this threw me off, comment of the year
This is an attractive thing in general, men or women.
Attractive people will always get treated better and have more people drawn to them effortlessly.
thats possible?
I haven’t ran DR:LD in a while now
Halo.
But when you asked to people no physical looks is not important.
I decided to go with WB for the attention ofc but also for the emotional regulation and the other mental benefits that compliment my stack.
Also, WB fits my seduction style also compared to when I ran primal.
Maybe it’s not a mature move atm but I guess we’ll see what happens I guess. I’ve ran WB before but wasn’t consistent and I feel like I need to give it another go again. Just micro loops tho
Running it more so now for my self and not my boss
Just make sure you save all text messages and any other proof that she is initiating/entertaining this for your own safety.
I can list a million ways it can go bad for you(slight exaggeration 
) but having proof will save your butt in most of these scenarios.
way ahead of you, saved them all on my phone plus all her coworkers in her department know what’s up. I’m going to ease up tho slowly and move away from her or basically friend zone her by saying how she’s like a big sister to me, yada yada, plus there’s camera footage of her touching my neck soooo if thats not enough then I don’t know what is lol
This sums everything up PERFECTLY, wow
just an update
I added WB to my stack on the 26th of this month and only running it for 30secs, surprisingly it seems to be pushing my boss away and making people around me, who know me, act more distant. I know this is temporary and when my brain gets used to the stack, things will be incredible. Already seen some potential already, hopefully by then, I’ll have a new job, a better social circle of friends and a more abundant life full of amazing women who respect me.
Exactly what i was thinking lmao😂
Flirting back, more gas to the fire but then playing oblivious or pointing out it wouldn’t be appropriate due to her family or work professionalism, but also keeping her hooked.
It certainly would be the most delightful seductive torture. 
What a beautiful and hilarious comment thread to return to.
I added WB but tbh overall, not what I expected but it’s still too early to tell. I know adding a sub to a stack, at least to me, tends to be a little rough but then gets better overtime, because right now, I’m starting to hate that I added WB to my already great stack but will have to brave the storm till washout, when the bloom hits, wish me luck lol
Keep us updated, i like that u added wb even tho its not wisest it will sure be more fun and entertaining experience.
The boss hasn’t been touching me or making any moves so I guess something is working lol
Tho this is what usually happens when I’m running a sub, results seem stagnant. The washout is what I’m worried about lol
But who cares, I’m not trying to attract her lol