Questions for guys who are really good with women and advice on what to do

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#1

So I’m pretty sure my female boss likes me. She has been showing interest, touching me randomly on the back of the neck and today, while talking with her and another coworker, she brought up something sexual that was not related to what I was talking about and kind of inappropriate in context, but she’s very loose with her mouth.

I like her liking me because it has been very advantageous for me at work but at the same time, I started to realize that when I ignore her advances, she turns cold on me, acts standoffish and such, which is kind of odd.

What do I do?

She’s married with kids but she seems very unhappy in her marriage and has complained that her husband is not intimate with her, so she might be trying to find some level of intimacy that won’t interfere with her private life. Basically trying to turn me into a work husband.

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#2

This question is not even for “guys who are really good with women”. Anyone with a little common sense can give you the correct answer.

Your boss? That’s a no no and a red flag in my book.

Your boss lacks professionalism.

IF THIS ALONE DOES NOT GIVE YOU THE ANSWER, THEN I’M NOT SURE WHAT WILL.

So… your boss discusses those issues with you? At work?
That woman has more red flags than a Chinese military parade.

I assume you’re debating if you should be the provider of that intimacy. Am I correct?

Here is my question to you: Are you really wondering if you should get involved with a married woman, with kids, who can’t keep her personal business to herself and talks about sexual stuff at work while being your boss? Is that what your question is?
That question answers itself.

:point_right: Dude, stay completely away from her. That is no-win situation for you! CHANCES ARE PRETTY GOOD THAT IT ENDS UP BADLY FOR YOU!
Consider looking for a new job. There are some situations in life that you shouldn’t even touch with a 10 foot pole.

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#3

This sounds like sexual harassment at work. Kind of fucked up. Married or not, your boss should never touch you like that.

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#4

Man I see so many possibilities of this shit going sideways…

But even ignoring everything else, this part

Let me get this straight; she rewards you being open to her sexual advances but punishes you when not?

Honestly man, there is NO reality of this turning out good for you, even if you´d get some fun action out of it short term.

Fucking up your career at best, and being fired +, with her already showing so many red flags, potentially you ending up as the one being accused of sexual harrassment for not giving her what she wants.

ksub already mentioned the ethical implications.

Just don´t.

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#5

You’d better work on your integrity and self-acceptance, dude. That’s the biggest red flag I see here.

I’d treat this situation as a lesson, because it seems to me you won’t be staying there long. You’ve already messed up by showing no integrity or boundaries. Trying to fix it now would likely just offend her and make her more aggressive—which could turn out really bad for you.

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#6

Agreed with everything above.

I’ll add stop whatever sub your doing
and run just Emperor: The Will to Power or Emperor: The Art of War until the situation is resolved.

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#7

If you don’t mind me asking which subliminal stack you’re currently running?

#8

She’s your boss dude. The worst thing you can do is engage in any type of romantic relationship with her be it very light or casual or serious.

Your income/wellbeing is first and most important thing that you need to secure. For your question “guys who are good with women”: the answer is there’s no woman worth the potential fallout of being jobless and having no income.

Also, if you’re running seduction subs or modules it would be wise to drop them for the time being.

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#9

Definitely seconding that type of advice.

I only did a quick scan, but it looks like it has gone from “friendly but not flirty” to overtly sexual in just under a month. Two customs involving LBFH and True Social, and recon due to past experiences in this sphere. Good results off LBFH, but it’s sounding like one of the alpha or healing titles would be beneficial.

This is how too many customs over complicate a stack, to the extent I’m sure it would take anyone several hours of hunting through the journal to find the modules to figure out what could be the culprit, even though it’s clear this boundary issue has arisen due to internal reaction to desired attention from an inappropriate source. It can be dangerous running sexual titles or titles with that type of core without first going through some kind of alpha program to fix any self worth issues, because it makes it easy to over compensate in the wrong direction.

I don’t know if EWTP or something else, there are several subs that have a component around removing undesirable influences, but maybe in this instance something like GLMC might do the job by kicking the self worth into gear enough to create a boundary with an appropriate level of congruence.

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#10

Run Wanted and let her go crazy but never give it to her :cowboy_hat_face:

Now seriously

It can only go down into the shithole for you, her, her husband and the kids if you do it with her, so don’t do it.

Somebody else is ready for that shit show and allready on her horizon

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#11

If I were into your shoes I would slow down on seduction subs by reducing the exposure to the minimum or maybe even stop them altogether until your boss doesn’t show any more attraction signs.

Quite frankly, I’m facing a similar situation where my manager is showing very strange and sexually/romantically driven out of place behaviors for a work environment, as you can read in the last entry of my journal.

So, in a sense I quite know how you’re feeling but, thank God my manager isn’t a married woman with kids.

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#12

:rofl: ksub here to put things into perspective with humor.

Okay, dude. I think you know where I stand.

As for questions, please post them in your journal rather than opening up a separate post for each question.

Now where is that eject button?

https://www.youtube.com/shorts/r2DkcTfstTY

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#13

haha. I can’t believe that video was 10 mins long. Oh wait…

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#14

not immediate per say boss, more so the client, but she does tell me what to do.

#15

lack of professionalism doesn’t begin to describe her, she’s anything but professional lol

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#16

tbh I know she’s a red flag and yea that is the biggest deterrent but she has an amazing butt, like its huge and around. But you are right tho

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#17

at first it was fun, it started on my PS, LD and LE stack run when she pursued me. I should’ve just put the boundaries then when it first started

#18

I’m sure It is but I guess women get away with it more easily than men.

#19

I’ll definitely have to read your journal

Since running emperor, it seems to have slow down a bit. I can’t imagine what would happen if I ran Khan black or wanted black, she would practically hunt me down to fxxx lol

Is your manager super hot? What subs are you running that warranted that behavior? I feel like there’s a certain point you reach where the woman doesn’t give a fxxxx that you’re a colleague or whatever, she just wants your meat no ifs ands or buts. I’m genuinely scared to run wanted black around her lol

I love the attention she gives me but it’s not healthy. She keeps telling me that her husband doesn’t show her affection and whatever, it can kind of get strange when it’s time to interact in the office.

#20

more or less, yea or it seems that way but like in a subtle way