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Iām still trying to figure that out for myself. When I was on Heartsong, I realized that I loved guys who have a beard, either shaved head or light colored hair, fit and slim to medium buid, and tall. That was what Heartsong brought to the surface. I also like African American guys, but I also like all types of other guys. Iām big on personality. He should be nice, at least somewhat happy, smart, confident and have the hots for me. lol
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hmmā¦
not really sure right now, to be honest.
i have functioning eyes, yes. and that picture you put up appeals to me. Probably not much of a hot take there.
But also there are a lot of internal, non-visual parts to what I like. Iām not talking about āvirtuesā or spiritual qualities necessarily.
Iām talking about the energy. How it feels to be with this person. To exchange energy with her. Talking. Laughing. Playing. Doing things together.
The visual part is one element of it. Sound matters just as much or even more to me. The sound of her voice.
I generally feel attracted to women who are curvaceous. (For me, itās a no-brainer. Pun intended, because those curves tend to make my brain stop working.) But the last woman other than my wife to whom I was really attracted, did not fit that description AT ALL.
Typically what has happened in the past was this:
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I meet a woman.
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I find her fascinating, attractive, appealing, and fun.
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Her facial and bodily features then get added into my Internal Databank of desirable characteristics.
Now the next time I see a woman who reminds me of this woman, Iāll be attracted to her.
Itās happened again and again.
They kind of become my type after I fall in love with them.
But in general?
Thighs, bruh.
I wanted to create a t-shirt that says:
THIGHS
MATTERS
hahaha.
Iām a simple man.
Just check off the boxes in the Evolutionary Rulebook for the most part.
If I saw the woman in the picture that you posted, Iām fairly certain my brain would short-circuit for at least an hour or so. And 45 years of earnest personal growth work might feel sadly wasted.
If she starts talking and she seems interesting and fascinating??? Then weāll have real problems.
Iāll be like āHold on for 4-6 months!ā And then Iāll go off to run Khan or something.
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Nice @MadaraUchiha we can go clubbing together then because we wonāt steal each otherās girls then haha. Your type is not my type at all.
Thatās what I like :))
Yoooo I am so down to party with you guys for real
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yeah this is probably the most popular type in 2022.
and probably has been the most popular type in my lifetime.
but i always wonder if guys are genuinely turned on by this type or its more of an ego thing where they like this type because everyone says its the top option.
but yeah i mean this is definitely an attractive woman but as far as raw arousal, just that gut level sexual desire, she is too pale for me.
i like darker skin.
skin tone is very important to me and i really seem to get turned on by caramel skin women.
not sure why, just something i noticed as i became more self aware and noticed what genuinely turned me on.
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yeah i think i know what you mean.
for exampleā¦
and this might sound super weirdā¦
i like for sex when the girl acts really bratty
its hard to explain but i have found the best dynamic for sex for me is the girl will act really annoying/bratty and then i act super dominant in response in a kind of punishment role play
again, hard to explain in words but i really really get turned on by annoying/bratty girls because the best sex i have had this dynamic/ role play
again, hard to explain but i get more turned by a girl who looks super annoying/bratty then a girl who looks super nice and sweet
again, this might sound weird but this is the best way i can think of explaining it
also, i seem to be pretty good at dealing with girls acting really annoying/bratty so maybe there is some connection
anyways, this is a really long way to say that yes i agree that in my experience great sex is not just physical at allā¦there are other elements needed for sure
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question for you.
do you honestly/genuinely care about all that just for sex?
i understand for any ongoing relationship but if you where just looking to have a one night stand would you really insist on all that?
i ask because for me if im just looking for a one night its 2 things, how hot the girl is + being clean
im super picky with hygiene so if the girl looks even 1% like she might not take her hygiene seriously then i get completely turned off but besides that for a one night stand its all about how much the girl turns me on/how hot she is
nah, I can actually get that.
Thereās a really instinctual/animal side to us. The things we like and donāt like. The kinds of dynamics that turn us on and pull us in.
Polarity and such.
The things that make you feel alive and feel stimulated; activated and motivated.
Truth is I feel Iāve only scratched the surface of knowing everything that I like or how I really tick. Iāve been with my wife for over 20 years. Iām sure that shapes my perspectives as well.
Really interesting what @lrw said above. Playing Heartsong and then having greater awareness and experiences of what you like and what you want. Sounds pretty cool to me.
But for now, Iāve got my plans locked in. Eventually, Iāll get some space to explore more of these kinds of things. My future subliminals queue has: fitness, sex, and art. Those I consider more āfunā things. To be done when I feel better situated with my current goals and vision.
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Canadian actress Sarah Gadon
This is my type but I am not saying I would not like any other type of woman. It, of course, depends on many things, personality, etc.
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No nudity.
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Iām really into women into alternative/goth/punk style. Itās a turn off when they just do it to be trendy though. I like it when itās genuine self expression. Nothing sexier than a badass woman.
Consistently every time a woman catches my eye sheās either got some interesting tattoos or presents herself in such a way I can see creative expression is important to her.
Having said that I try to be open because whatās on the outside doesnāt always indicate the inside. But I kind of get an intuitive sense of who Iād vibe with and who I wouldnāt.
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No competition from me so far lol.
In addition to my previous mentions of Alicia Vikander and Natalie Portmanā¦ some other examples include:
andā¦ I canāt find a good photo at the moment, butā¦ definitely Ziyi Zhang from Crouching Tiger.
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Iām slowly figuring out my type as I get older so itās nothing set in stone, though Iāve been more interested in blondes lately and girls with curly hair as well.
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You whatās funny. Thatās exactly the type of girls I go for and is my type 
If Iām not wrong itās @RockyHandsome type too.
Also the third girl looks like Troian Bellisario from Suits lmao.
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It is
Okok I was about to image reverse search to make sure aha thanks for letting me know!
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