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Khan Stage 1
Actions that i have taken:
- i go around the work place making conversations with coworkers. Basically hows things going etc hows your dayā¦i like your dress. It comes naturally to me i dont require effort for that. Coworkers are very responsive.
- im noticing that stage 1 is making me very soft with peopleā¦i wonder if i am still dominant. It takes alot for me to get angry. Sometimes i try to get angry but doesnt happen lol. Any ideas on this ?
- after work i went to get some goceries and just smiled at women that i think look good. Some keep looking back, some smile etc. In others words lots of positives on that aspect.
- a female coworker wants some advice regarding diet from meā¦she keeps telling me what she eats and this doesnt agree with her or shes tired and needs multivitamins etcā¦
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she wants to make sure the baby you gave her is doing well 
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Questioning yourself seems in order with Stage 1
perhaps your learning dominance does not always look the way you thought āspeak softly and carry a big stickā.
Some of the edge of dominance comes from ānot belongingā , as you naturally belong more and more, there may be an appropriate softening
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Im still getting there lol
I played two loops today i got angry and had so much energy at the same time lol
Its like my mind was doing things on its own. Like auto pilot lol. I was like moving like a machine.
Maybe the anger is there for me to deal with hardship and learn how to be normal in tense and angry situations ā¦
i came to this conclusion because the sale pages says that khan will beat you down and challenge youā¦ so yeah that maybe a challenge
What you think ?
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Yes, makes senseā¦anger can also be fuel and/or a good response for dealing with certain situations.
Whatever the case the fact that your experiencing something new and challenging is definitely a good thing.
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@Simon
What kind of action does one take one khan stage 1?
What kind of action did you take on stage 1?
I had to post this
A coworker that needed some help with work related stuff called me to help. So i went to her station and began helping her. She then takes out her phone and tell me to read this message from her husband to herā¦
The message read that he assumes that we having an affair but we not lol. There is no proof for him to think that way but he does. She chats to many other men at work which he doesnt question her about but meā¦lol.
She said that it becoming an everyday topic at home that he is telling her that we have something going onā¦lol
I never make a move yet and this is already happening
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you could tell her
" wellā¦if heās already thinking itā¦"
and then make a move
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She was not on the fuck list
I assumed she was talking nonsense but i saw chats from him mentioning my name 
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Thatās funny, but Iāve got to say that the nastiest fight Iāve ever been in cake from a similar situation. You might want to do something to set his mind at ease.
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I dont think i have to because i did nothing wrongā¦
Different case if i was having an affair with his wifeā¦we talk like the normal hello how u thats it.
Other men chat to her constantly on whatsspp even when shes at home and he doesnt have a problem with them but me lol
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Neither did I. Till afterwards. He had it in his mind though and acted on it. Dudes can go flat psycho over stuff like that wether itās real or not.
On another note though, if sheās pointing that out to you, sheās down.
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What you mean down?
Like emotionally?
He even asked her why she doesnt have my number on her phone lol
Down for IT my friend. Sheās trying to introduce the idea of you and her having an affair in an indirect way.
She also is probably getting off on the idea of making her husband jealous, so there are a lot of crazy peppers in that dish though.
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Clearly a case of him sensing that you are a person of higher value compared to the other men who chat with her.
Thatās a good sign.
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