I’m determined to make my Wanted/TS custom bear fruit for me, and I really don’t have much free time to go out where I have a lot of contact. It seems to me that online could be one of the most efficient ways to meet my goals.
My problem is that I haven’t had any success with it since the early 2000s and I don’t want to be blundering around in the dark until I figure out what works.
Also im in the unorthodox position of being in an open marriage, so being somewhere where people are looking for standard normal relationships isn’t going to do me much good.
I’m putting the question to the SubClub brain trust.
Does anyone know of any books or other resources that would help me get a good start with this?
What sites have people had good results with?
That or any other advice would be appreciated.
Feeld is ENM friendly. Give it a try.
If you don’t have much time for socializing, I think that inner circle is a much better title than true social… sorry to say that after you’ve already built the custom 🫠
No worries. I can add it in later if it’s still necessary.
I went with TS because I tend to be quiet and reserved and my social skills, especially in groups need some work.
I have run IC before to no noticeable effect.
But in your situation, specifically, I wouldn’t worry too much about online dating or running different subliminals
Wanted true social both work best when you’re not thinking too much about dating and you just focus on living your best life and doing things you enjoy doing.
True social makes you the life of any event
And wanted has always worked best for me when I’m just engaging in my hobbies, not actively pursuing women, since it’s a title that’s about not actively pursuing women
I’ve met more women from wanted due to volleyball, personal development, and socializing with my ex-partner than I ever did actively socializing to date
So I’d just say find time for something that you really enjoy, or would really benefit you, and let women watch you engage in that thing and they’ll approach you or show you interest
Bro if u have the new wanted in ur stack, then everything is good. Microloops are your friend and try to just play around with everyone that you meet, in no time you will have multiple fwbs
Ok, let me be clearer on this. I don’t get out much. I can’t.
I have to take care of a family and my wife is disabled so that means I have to have a job and do almost all of the housework, all of the yard work, and a lot of the childcare jobs.
I’m not whining, it is what it is.
What this means for me is that I have very little free time to go out and socialize, have a social group.
If I could do that much I don’t think I’d have much of a problem with making this work, and I am doing that as much as I can.
I do have a lot of downtime at work, so I can do online things. What I’m asking for is advice from people who’ve had success in the online realm on what apps to use and on resources (books, websites, etc) that would be helpful for success.
The more step by step and practical the better.