Haven’t taken much time to reflect recently, been very caught up in the day to day motions and social events.
Looking back at the month, although it was pretty slow on the sales side that was pretty team wide, as this is a historically slow month for our company. Made a lot of big strides in other area’s though, picked up a new part time coaching gig a couple days a week and have multiple closing positions lined up here as the one I was offered ended up falling through. Had a ton of fun as well, really rediscovering my love for live music and festivals and just feeling really thankful for all the friends and community I have. While it impacted my performance with sales to an extent, I think I really needed a season to just enjoy life again, and I was able to do so without completely throwing my life into chaos which used to be the case. Didn’t make massive leaps and bounds career wise since the Summer, but the goal was to just maintain.
Had another music festival this weekend here and it was a great way to conclude the season. Stack has been True Sell Black, Limitless, and WB for the past few weeks primarily, and this is probably the closest I’ve felt to myself in quite some time. Until the past couple years, my focus was all in on social skills, charisma, and it is hands down my greatest strength. Think the combo of True Sell and WB really maximizes that strength for me.
With no major events on the calendar for most of fall/winter, I will be shifting my focus back on to self improvement, and making money. Ended up spending quite a bit this Summer, and want to get myself back into a better financial standings. The more I think about it, I don’t really care about being wealthy, but I like having enough security, and the money to do the things I want to do, and live the way I want to live. Honestly, I have let so much of the “get money gurus” stuff in media really influence who I am, what makes me happy, and how I think I should be living.
Feel like I really got more in touch with myself these past few months, and I realized that I let other people/influencers/ dictate my values, and in turn my happiness. I was so obsessed with status and success not because I care to be, but because I thought I had to be those things to feel self worth/security. A lot of it was really about wanting attention from women as well, because it’s so pushed that you have to be wealthy and succesfull to attract girls, but from my experience that agenda is pushed by people who don’t have elite social skills.
Not to say that money isn’t important, I just feel that my view and relationship with it has changed. I used to care more for the status, and having it just for the sake of it. Now, I view it just as a tool to do fun shit lol. Interesting here as I didn’t really notice this throughout the cycle, but a lot of these realizations I believe are from WB’s helping you be your true self, as well as the new wealth core in my custom. Uncovering this has been massive for me, as with my motivation aligned with my authentic drivers I feel significantly more motivated to buckle down for the next 90-120 days so I can get ready for the next season of adventure.