Niles, Pursuit of Superior

Journals - Major Programs
#41

Ran a loop of HOM this morning, massive recon I’ve had the past couple days instantly resolved lol. My theory on this is that HOM is such an integral part of what I need to accomplish my goals right now, perhaps in a direct closing position it wouldn’t as much be the case, but as I’m trying to climb the ranks, the connections are everything. Aside from that the internal status is huge on outbound calls, as you better have a pretty good reason, or an incredible vibe to get people to stop what your doing and talk to you. Lastly, I think it is the best tool for eliminating “sales breath”, with HOM I feel significantly less outcome dependent, which leads me to have way more conversations that end up being interested.

Biggest wave of relief washed over me, as my last couple days were atrocious. Can already tell today is going to be a big one.

#42

On another note, I’m strongly considering PCC as the other piece to this stack. I think it could be huge for trying to nail down a closing positiion, and on my calls.

#43

Damn, not sure if it was recon, taking out HOM, or I was sick, but was in such a brain fog state the last couple days. Really started to doubt everything I was doing, but man today I am back strong. I literally couldn’t even navigate a conversation, stumbling over my words, felt like it was my first day selling the last couple days but today I’m feeling so much more clear headed, motivated, confident on phones.

Really curious if it was recon, or this is limitless executive, or HOM coming back into play but I’m feeling 1000% percent today. Might have to play around with split testing here to see what the real difference maker is for me, but I suspect LE might be the real game changer. I’ve had issues with productivity and mental clarity most of my life, so addressing those two weak points might have been exactly what I needed.

#44

Washing out the last few days in quite some time, pretty much went into a new cycle with NR and the past week has been pretty recon heavy. Feeling completely renewed after a few days off, not much work this weekend (been working 7 days a week 70-80ish hours) and just started to feel so dead to the world lol. Taken the time to just relax, watch sports, spend time with my family, and it was a much needed break.

Re-thinking a lot of what I want for my next stack, and all together my career. While I’m good at sales, I don’t genuinely have that same passion/drive for it that o used to. I originally became interested in it because influence/persuasion was such a foreign skill to me, not sure what it is but something about it has lost it’s appealed. Perhaps it’s the type of people I’m dealing with, so many people I influence to make a huge investment for themselves, and then they end up not taking any action on what their learning, or on the flip side, I don’t always have 100% conviction in what I’m selling. I also realized while I’m really social, that working remotely and only having phone call interactions is really eating at me, killing my energy/vitality, and not sure how I want to be spending my life. While I am very goal/money oriented making millions was always a status goal, but the truth is I’m burying my self so hard in work that the status isn’t really their either because I’m isolating myself from social events, friends, etc. if I bring truely honest, I care much more about the status which I feel like I can get from my social skills alone, as opposed to the money. As long as I’m making 8K month that’s enough to live the type of life style o want to live.

These are all recent relocations from NR, however with this sub in particular I find that journaling is key, a lot of these thoughts don’t come to me until I’m writing it out.

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#45

So many updates I’m not even sure where to start…

Weekend started pretty chill/relaxing. Got everything I needed to done for the week, gym, time with family, but mainly it was the first down weekend I’ve had in forever, typically working 7 days a week. Went out for Dinner with my girl/family and came home and got in a pretty big argument with my girlfriend over something stupid.

Decided to meet up with my Aunt and Uncle for a drink because my girl went back to her place, and got a little carried away lol. I don’t drink much these days, but because of the way I partied in the past it turns out I only have one speed, ended up closing down the bar at 2 am, knowing that I had a 1 on 1 with my CEO this morning lol.

Got back home, and my girl was back over, ended up fighting until like 3 AM, pretty rough night and led to a lot of introspection this morning.

Good news and bad news with my meeting. The current company I recently started selling for is shutting down, however was offered an opportunity to come a board a new offer, but it could take some time to get up and running so I’ll have to see how things shake out their. Had some incredible friends I actually met here at SC give me some great advice on my next move, as well as an opportunity from a family member come up. While I am dissapointed about this company closing down as I was a big fan of the brand, I am incredibly grateful for the connections I made their, how much I’ve developed my skills in just 1 month, and for all the support I’ve had from friends and family. Some big news that I have to change and adapt to, but this past year has really showed me how capable and adaptable I’ve become, and I credit a lot of it to the titles I have ran here that have really helped me grow and develop into a man. Thinking back 4-5 years ago my life was a complete mess, I was partying all the time, chasing girls, working restraunts, and my life was going no where. Over the last couple years, (This past month more then anything else) I’ve made some life changing connections, people that I literally envisioned my self being friends with when I was a teenager, learned a skill that allows me to have a source of income and job at anytime I want, built foundational business skills that I’ll use for the rest of my life, learned how to manage money even when I wasn’t making much, just feeling really empowered about the whole situation right now.

While the next couple months might be tough while I transition to whatever opportunity comes up, I have a clear new goal of what to focus on next. This phase of my life is all about learning and acquiring new skills, so that I have the confidence and skill set to run my own business in the future. Sales is a very love hate thing for me, when your on it’s the best thing in the world, when your off you have crippling self esteem, but I’ve come too far to just quit. Despite everything going on I’m off to a banging start to the week with my sales, and I’m taking it as a sign to not give up. I’ve had too many times in the past where I look back at opportunites and think man, where would I be now if I just don’t quit.

So while I will be continuing to grind it out in high ticket sales, I’m looking to start down a path of learning the only skill set that I consider more important then influence/persuasion. I’m not quite sure how I’m going to get started, but I know my next stage in self development, is to learn how to become a LEADER.

New chapter starting today.

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#46

HoM + Chosen :sunglasses:

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#47

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Very interesting how my personality type has changed pretty significantly, any guesses on the main title I’ve been running the last month or two :joy:

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#48

Chosen + HoM!

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#49

Haha no choosen yet, pretty wild though as when I was running emperor I got the executive/ENTP

#50

Feeling brutal this morning. No recon or anything like that, but I did an aderral at like 9 am yesterday to grind out a big day of work and it kept me up until almost 1:30 am last evening. Super productive day but the trade off/effect on my sleep was definitely not worth it lol. Terribly sensitive to stimulants (except for my ridiculously high caffeine tolerance some reason).

Ending my washout today but I’ve spent hours deciding what I want to do for my next stack lol. Decided to postpone that decision as it was going no where and jump into work which helped the emotions/negative feelings quite a bit.

NR is pretty much a lock for now, may switch it out when the new drop comes out, but I don’t have too much of an issue hopping so long as the main goal of the sub is the same/wealth focused.

Considering either KB or ROM as lack of energy and mindset have been probably my two biggest constraints preventing me from getting to the level I want to be at. So much love for ROM, it’s probably fundamentally changed me as a person, and self awareness above anything else I have ran, and even though it’s been months since I’ve ran it, I still feel the benefits. Really gotten into some of Neville Goddard’s books recently, and ROM seems to greatly enhance conscious guidance and manifestation as well, and also give me clarity over my direction/purpose which is huge right now. Genesis helps with that as well, but because of how broad it is, it almost feels like a water down ROM in my opinion.

Lastly, over the last few months HOM has helped me build some pretty life altering connections, help me get reconnected to my family, and provided quite a bit of stability, so it’s in consideration as well, however it lacks in my opinon leadership qualities/alpha mindset, and I come accross a bit more passive then I used to, so while it’s opened up doors, I feel like I haven’t really taken advantage/walked through those doors as much as I could have. For that reason, I’m really leaning towards utilizing Choosen, which should have a lot of the benefits of HOM networking wise, but from a higher level of status/leader mindset as opposed to just going with the flow.

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#51

What’s the dose? That may be the reason, adderal is hard on your body that’s why I prefer Vyvanse. Long focus, smooth and minimal side effects (this is not medical advice, talk to your doctor if anything).

On a 5 day washout as well and questioning what I should do next as well. On side my current stack gave me an amazing experience at a party yesterday where I talked with everyone there and build some cool friendships but on the other hand. There’s scripting in my stack that I don’t really leverage so looking if there’s better options.

When NWE subs come out, you won’t need NR and can use the NWE sub instead so it will make easier to.

I recommend ROM, I really understand why people run KB for mindset or energy when it’s clearly a sexual sub which if that’s your goal. 100% go for it (yes it can be good for energy but only if you can control the sexual energy that it gives which most can’t). RoM has helped me in the past see where I need to dedicate the most change to which at the time was my social circle. Highly recommend it if your in a period of your life where you don’t know what to do or feel stuck in a corner so to speak.

I think having HoM + Chosen custom would solve this issue. Both are great standalone but in a leadership position their a ying yang to each other. HoM gives you the necessary networking skills while Chosen makes you a empathic leader which is a important part in building quality connections.

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#52

Did a 20 MG, no prescription just keep a couple on deck for days I need to grind. Done Vyvanse in the past, definitely much preferred! Could probably get a prescription if I wanted to but not sure if it’s something I want to get dependent on because when my energy/sleep is dialed in I can typically work for long periods of time naturally.

Agree with ROM, it’s probably my favorite sub I’ve used, and if you actively meditate/visualize it’s pretty amazing how fast things tend to happen for you. Probably going to run Choosen now as well as I’ve realized from listening to my past sales calls that although the technichal skills are really strong, I have this emotional blockage with optimism/positivity lately that has me come off really neutral/platonic sounding. I also think it will help with some of the negative patterns that seem to repeat in my life like partying way too hard when I do go out and then I’m in some bad emotional state for like a week lol. Going to dedicate the next couple weeks to just those two and see what the new releases look like.

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#53

20mg is a lot especially if not prescribed. That’s almost the max dose so that’s probably why it’s hard to sleep.

If it’s Vyvanse, the dependancy is pretty low (it’s designed for that) but definitely same rules as stuff like caffeine apply. For example, take 5 times a week for hard focus days then 2 rest days with only tea to recover. Have your usually vitamins, greens, good sleep, etc too. I’ve tried that and it really helped not be dependant on it as well as keep tolerance low.

Chosen or Choosen?

Back in the day I would party 1 time every two weeks but hard. I agree it’s hard on the emotional state. Now I usually do 1-2 drinks and I’m good to go just to be more social and in the party vibe like yesterday. Unless it’s a special occasion then I’d drink more but I always know intuitively when to stop before going hard so that helps as well.

#55

NR Bloom is hitting me massively today, I went deep into this in my offline journal. Ultimately what it boils down to is that I can no longer accept being dependent on someone else for my source of income, or spend my time building someone else’s dreams. If I take a job, it will be my choice, and to earn enough money to support myself, and put the rest towards building my own dream.

Even if I was getting paid $500K/year, a million a year, is irrelevant. If someone can afford to pay you that much, how much are they making? Are they even working harder? Or just working on different things and spending time on activities that build them leverage. Even high ticket sales, which I thought would provide me a lot of freedom and a high income, an incredible comission on it is 15-20%, most are paying you closer to ten. Why not build something for myself? By partaking in that system, I’m subconsciously communicating myself that the person I’m working for is more valuable then me, more intelligent, has more to offer, and that I am incapable. If you need to go and learn skills, sure, a job can make sense. But there comes a point, pretty soon into that journey, that you’ll realize that the people teaching you don’t know any more then you do. Honestly with about 20 hours of dedicated focus time, you can learn enough to make a skill something that won’t be a constraint in your business.

Sure starting a business might be risky, and that’s why the owners get compensated higher. But everytime you go to work for a company, your taking a risk as well by betting on the owner, the leader, and are disposable at any minute. If I’m going to bet on anyone it’s going to be myself from now on.

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#56

Took the strength finders test today and it gave me a lot of valuable insight into myself, what motivates me, and how I operate. I also thought how a lot of the times, I’ve picked subs to accentuate my weaknesses, and while it’s totally possible, why not just double down on what I’m already good at, and then surround myself with people who naturally have the inclinations that I am not good at. From now on I’m going to be basing my stack around what I’m already really strong at, and maximizing those abilities instead of trying to turn a weakness into mediocrity.

My top ten strengths:

  1. Competition
    2.Focus
    3.Individualization
    4.Achiever
    5.Futuristic
    6.Relator
    7.Maximizer
    8.Learner
    9.Self Assurance
  2. Significance
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#57

What subs do you think would best fit those strengths?

#58

Honestly there’s gotta be a heavy alpha/status sub somewhere in here. Khan or Emperor as the driver. 100% fueled by significance and competition, I’ve found in roles where I"m the only setter/closer on the team my motivation just drops to nothing lol. I’m much more status then money driven is something I’ve come to learn. Either one would cover competition, achiever, self assurance, significance and will probably be the main driver. They both resonate the most with my personality the most, but would probably lean more towards Khan.

Next would be either NR to cover Futuristic, Learner, Maximizer, and Relator as there’s networking elements. Stark works as well, but at this point NR which would be the better option.

Finally to top it off, double down on my focus, learner, achiever, and maximizer (skill development) I think LE fits the bill. Grit/hardwork is my primary modality for getting things done and outperforming competition, so I think LE fits here well, and would help kick up Khan to the next level of productivity since in the past it hasn’t been the highest.

Summing it up, Khan, NR, LE…

#59

Taking a break from the forums for a few months. All is well, but has become such a point of distraction. Set some pretty lofty goals for my self, and it’s time to go all in. :v:

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#60

Ok I had to check back in with NFTW around the corner and to drop an update as life has been incredible. Thanks to a connection facilitation with @Plutus I landed what I can consider my “first client” as I am helping the company, a pretty renouned tech firm build out a cold outbound process. It’s an entirely different industry for me, but I have so much experience with cold outbound that I am confident I’ll be able to land them appointments, and this is a pretty incredible opportunity to work with a pretty highly renouned company, and I have been tasked with helping them really take over the American market since they are based out of the U.S. They also suggested that if this goes well, since I am not working on this project full time that I even start taking on other clients.

On the side, I am also working with a start up company, and have been consistently landing them cold appointments. This will be two awesome additions to my resume, and gives me confidence to really go out and start a cold outbound appointment setting service, something that a lot of businesses could really utilize, cheaper then ads, and without revealing any of their strategies for their competitors to copy.

Along with the exciting progressions in my career, my sales skill development has really gotten to the next level. I feel like I’m operating on an entirely different paradigm, and have taken my ego out of the sale completely which allows me to entirely focus on the prospect as the right things just come out of my mouth effortlessly.

I feel like I have been doing all of this with much less “force”, like the right actions, and events are just coming about on their own accord. I have really shifted my focus more towards “The Inner Work”, and spending a significant increase on my time simply getting myself into a good state. Meditating, reading spiritual texts, working out, walking, etc. While all of this could have happened in the past, it would have taken a great amount of force/effort.

Some of this could be after effects from NR, but honestly I attribute a lot to a completely different stack. Emperor, for balance across all areas. It seems to be the best title for me, as I have had discipline issues in the past, and it helps me maintain all of my “Physical” goals, while I focus more in the internal. The other titles I’m running are LBFH which I have come to think is one of the secrets to manifestation, and RoM.

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#61

All I did was connect you guys, you did all the important work :wink:

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