I’m not always looking to become an attractive, attention ——— when I’m out and about…but when I do, I prefer AV!
Today is one of those very few, and rare occasions where I find myself with enough time and effort to contribute to this thread, so listen carefully to these words that I manifest…
AV is VERY unforgiving to newbies and/or those that are not congruent with the vibe it is projecting. The reason; with AV, you have to forget about creating any comfort and/or trying to set up a date to see her at another time. Think about it. Do celebrities care about asking for her number to see her another day? NO! They don’t give a rats-ass about later dates, they are there to enjoy the now, to live in the moment, so the fun is to be had with the lady then and there, that same instant/night, or they don’t bother to go any further. Setting up a date is something they might consider or care about AFTER all the fun/sexual connection has been established…that same night!
In my experience with AV, it works by slipping under her radar, like a trojan horse designed to hack its way into her psyche, and once in, it activates and deploys, literary doing the seduction for you, bringing down her barriers/shields or whatever else you wanna call it. It does not create comfort in any form, and you have to be totally ok with that, because it’s purpose is creating the sexual tension that is needed for her to let herself go, in order to unleash and submit to her instinctual nature. Spontaneity and freedom are key in order for her to express her untamed, unfiltered, unreserved and unrestrained sexuality. And in order for all that to happen, she NEEDS to feel in the presence of a man that is capable of opening up those doors for her, and do so unapologetically. She needs someone that can make her feel free of any judgement and/or restrictions. When that happens, that’s when you’ll discover the true power of AV, and see its magic in full glory. AV is like a master key to the lock(s) in her mind where all those instinctual feelings/desires and emotions are kept, and now it is up to you to learn how to turn that key in the right direction in order to open her up and reap the rewards…
Forget trying to create comfort with AV, because that is NOT what it was designed to do. That is the reason why women shut down and lose interest in you quickly, because YOU FAIL to proceed and follow thru, YOU FAIL or hesitate to enter the doors you just opened in her mind, and as a result, she now she feels inadequate in your presence. I’ll use computer analogy again for a better understanding of this sequence:
-Your lack of congruence trips a level of suspicion in her mind, then…
-Her defense mechanism promptly does a mental re-boot, causes her to snap out of the AV seductive trance, then…
-She’s confused and realizes she shouldn’t feel that way with you or around you, then…
-Her “anti-virus” (ASD mechanism/social programming) activates, detects and catches the trojan horse, eliminates it, and then…
-She moves on to safety (quickly loses interest/feels weirded out by you, and moves on).
So, in essence, you did not live up to the vibe AV was projecting in her mind. That is why they don’t get back to you at a later date, because what they felt in your presence that night is not congruent with the “nice guy” and/or romantic vibe that you are. Trying to get her number to set up a date with them, and/or being romantic with AV is useless, because that is NOT what they feel with AV on. When AV does it’s part, she becomes (sexually) open/interested in your approach and ready for that adventure in the now, but by not proceeding, you are basically rejecting her instinctual response to you, feels inadequate to those feelings in your presence, does a “system re-boot” and moves on. And that is why they feel weirded out afterwards.
Now, don’t get me wrong, there are times when AV will not get you the desired response from a woman, as there are other factors that come into play. She can be sexually immature, as in the case of (most) younger women I’d experienced, she might be at that time of the month where her hormones are all over the place, she might be out with her friends where they are just having fun teasing/flirting with the guys to enjoy the attention. She might be a gold-digger looking for a sugar daddy to string-along…and so on and so forth. So in reality, even if your game is tight and you’re 100% congruent with AV’s vibe, you’re not going to have a 100% success rate due to those other factors/logistics. And you know what? Who cares? You have to be detached to outcomes, which is also a major part of AV’s VIP/Celebrity vibe, to live and enjoy the moment, with a sort of a IDGAF attitude.
I remember an incident at a club, where I was having fun with this HOT looking chick on the dance floor…and from all the dirty dancing and touching between us, it seemed like we were definitely hooking up that night. Then, all of a sudden she stops abruptly, and tells me she has to go. She just snapped out of the seductive trance I had her on. My response? I told her I had a great time, proceeded to pull her in tight and gave her one heck of a slow seductive kiss. She stood there for a few seconds, with this stunned look on her face, as if waiting to see if I was going to ask for her number, and/or follow her out of the club.
I just waved her a goodbye…turned around, made my way to the middle of the dance floor, and kept dancing to the rhythm of the music all by myself. Before I knew it, I got sandwiched in between a group of 3 girls that were giving me looks from afar when I was dancing with the hot chick. At one point I looked around and was surprised to see the hot chick was still around and staring at me from afar, her friends trying to pull her to leave, and she having a disappointed look on her face, and looking like she wanted to exchange info or something. The moral of the story? I was there to have fun, either with her, other chicks, or just by myself. That confident attitude alone is one heck of a strong aphrodisiac to women, and with AV on, it’s an aphrodisiac on steroids… And yes, I did end up having one heck of a fun night with the other chicks…



