I’m new here. I would like to introduce myself and let you know a little of me and my expectations.
I looked at some topics in the forum and realized that most of you are younger people, although you have found some reports of middle-aged people like me.
I’m almost 50 years old, I’ve been married for a long time, I’ve been practicing martial arts since I was a child, so despite my age, I’m in good shape.
I have been working in my own law firm for over twenty years. I have my house, my car, I pay my debts on time. I have a master’s degree from the main college in my country. I had one of six places with more than 1,000 candidates in three written exams, one oral and one interview with an examining bank. I finished the master’s degree with all the marks in all the subjects with use of 100%.
I have some experience in meditation and brainwave entertainment.
I have not tried the use of subliminal ones, I confess I have a dose of skepticism, but at the same time a great interest in obtaining benefits of this type of technology, thus, I am not the type of person who already affirms previously that this does not work, without at least making a valid attempt.
I imagine you may be wondering: with everything going so well with this guy, what can he be looking for here? Well, that’s what I’d like to report.
I got the two new titles available in pre-sale: “Regeneration” and “The Elixir”. It’s two titles aimed at emotional healing and it seems to be exactly what I need.
After so much time in the same job, in the same relationship, life seems to be gradually losing its color.
All the struggles of daily life seem to me to be charging their price.
I no longer have pleasure or interest in the work, I am procrastinating every day more. I have no more focus and it is sometimes difficult to complete a job while maintaining the same level of care and excellence that this type of work requires.
I am very good at what I do and this is the reason why my clients do not abandon me in the face of the growing delay in meeting their interests. I know they have not left me yet, but I also know that if that does not change, I will soon be alone.
I had many disappointments at work, especially with people of my confidence who betrayed me. Legal work seems to me increasingly a dirty business, enveloped in lies and people willing to win at any cost without worrying about the notion of justice or honesty.
I feel increasingly to be wearing a “tight clothing” formed of concepts and moral values increasingly outdated. I have a great anger inside of me because of this, guilt, shame and I feel that I am wasting the time of my life without having found my true vocation or meaning.
In marriage, things go well for the most part. I really love my wife and I know that I am properly reciprocated. We have a good dialogue, we have fun together, we make plans for the future. We have, however, a mismatch in the sexual field. Over the years, that spark has been lost. Routine, stress, and again the day-to-day struggle was consuming our intimate relationship. My wife is a very beautiful woman and I still find her attractive even today. In fact, many younger girls are not beautiful like her and will not even age beautiful like her.
As I said, we gradually lost the sexual contact, consequently, I started looking for porn as an escape and now I can say that I am completely addicted. If I have an opportunity, I can spend hours on the internet browsing pornographic sites. If I do not have the opportunity to be alone to masturbate, a huge anxiety strikes me. I have tried routines like Nofap’s 90-day abstinence program without being able to finish. I also read the book “your brain on porn” and notice symptoms of erectile dysfunction because of porn. Even heavy pornography has already begun to be part of my menu.
I searched for traditional therapy and even with two years of work I did not notice any significant improvement. In fact my therapist thinks that this interest in porn is normal.
I feel my life running from my hands, I no longer feel the person I used to be. I do not have more pleasure and I know that this attitude can lead me to pathological states or depression.
This is the help I’m looking for here.
Now with this complete introduction, I would like to ask a few questions:
After so many bad experiences in life, I confess that I do not even know which ones hurt me the most or that have produced the traumas that have brought me so far. Can using this subliminal achieve events that I no longer have in my consciousness? Or to succeed do I always have to know what I want to deal with?
Will I succeed in getting rid of pornography addiction? And also be free of erectile dysfunction and interest in heavy pornography?
Like I said, I spend most of my time with my wife and at work. What is the effect of exposing her to subliminal during sleep in our bedroom? Can it be influenced? In what ways?
Today I see many sound boxes for mobiles, which are in one piece. Manufacturers claim to be able to reproduce sound in 360 degrees. Is this type of box suitable for subliminal use? Does this 360° technology play stereo sound?
Thanks for listening. Sorry for the long text. As soon as I start using the audios, I hope to have new questions.