I know it’s common sense but I forget that
I’ve just realised that I’ve been living such a safe and comforting life. Why not fuk up? I’m still young so why not make mistakes?
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I swear on everything, I will speak to this hot girl next Monday
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And I will do it like the wanted man that I am… smooth
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Huge announcement - I got rid of my beard…
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I can’t believe how young I look hahaha… anyway I’m rocking the 2/3 day stubble since today. Let’s see how that goes
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Right so yesterday was the end of my first Stark and Wanted cycle and now I’m waiting until Friday to start the second one.
I gotta say that Stark and Wanted has been the most interesting combo I’ve tried from subclub. I’ve felt the most changes and seen the most results with this combo, internally and externally so I am very much looking forward to continuing on this journey
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Cycle 2, day one - Stark and Wanted, 10 minute each.
Took the break for a bit longer but here I am, first day of cycle 2. Moving up to 10 minute loop each now to see how that works out
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Dunno where else on the forum to share this so I might as well just continue with my journal 
I went out to have drinks tonight by myself. Before going out I felt amazing, I felt like I could succeed with anything. Unfortunately the night turned out to be terrible. I felt like every single club/bar I went to, everyone just hated me. I got upset to such a point that I started being stupid and decided to play WB… in my earphones, but standing in the middle or the square
Obviously didn’t help. But the whole night I just felt unworthy and ugly
Hi I don’t have advice, just want to say that you’re not alone. I get these “today’s going to be great like yesterday, I’ll just be what I’ve been” and things don’t go well, they go to lengths to not go well. Did that “play something in the middle of misery” too, didn’t help too. 
Hang in there! Hope you feel better tomorrow.
I’ve decided that it’s time to start posting in my main journal again. I need to keep track of my thoughts and progress so I can get back to it later if needed. Right now, I’m still deciding which subliminal to stick with for a while (though I did run a few loops of WB and Primal this week), but I want to get started and share some more thoughts I’ve been having about seduction. I’ve been reflecting on why I struggle with seduction and why it’s been difficult to choose a seduction subliminal to commit to for long term.
Interestingly, most of my successful experiences with women happened when I was drunk or tipsy whether it was in clubs, pubs, parties, or even on regular dates. There were many times when I would get tipsy before a date to boost my confidence. Its sad, I know, and I definitely wouldn’t do that now, but the fact is that those dates were, unsurprisingly, successful. When I was in that state, I felt free to express myself fully. If I liked the girl, I would show genuine sexual desire, be playful, tease a little, kiss, escalate - whatever felt right in the moment and the women responded positively, they loved it.
So, I started wondering why I can’t be like that when I’m sober. It all seems to come down to one thing: a lack of self-love. I often feel like I’m not enough in one way or another, and I think this is something many people here might relate to if they also struggle with seduction. We just need to love ourselves enough to feel worthy. Worthy of the girl, worthy of expressing our true desires towards her, whether it’s verbally, physically, or energetically. At the end of the day - I love women and I love their feminine energy and so does every heterosexual man right now and before us, so it should be so natural to seduce.
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Literally just read about this topic in a book I’m reading (using alcohol/drugs as a crutch for “gaming”), and yeah the author calls out people who do that and basically says if you want to really get good at this, you have to do it sober. As for other things you said, I think Love Bomb would help you.
Love bomb would be the obvious choice, but I think that in my case I should just stick with one of the seduction subliminals, take more action and grow with it.
I think that I might be having recon due to not having girls around while running seduction subs
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Meant to respond to this. I feel for you, I’ve had times where I felt like this. I know this is an old post, but if I were you, I would have a mission when you go out alone. Like if you have “approach anxiety”, have a mission to literally walk up to 10 pretty women during the night and say “Hi”, and whatever happens after that doesn’t matter because the walking up and saying Hi is the mission. Then once it no longer phases you and you can do it with ease, say Hi then say “I’m (your name), what’s your name?” and have your hand out for a handshake, etc. Don’t get alcohol until you’ve completed your mission sober. Oh also this book I was reading mentioned that if you go out alone, talk to 3-5 people within the first five minutes of entering the bar or club (can be anyone, guy or girl) or else you’ll likely end up freezing and not talking to anyone. I’ve certainly found this to be true. Talking to people immediately will get you in a social mode. Also I think it’s highly unlikely anyone really “hated” you, sounds more like a projection based on how you were feeling at the time (maybe at least partly due to recon).
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That’s actually solid advice and is something that I plan to do in stage 2 or 3 of Khan. Or maybe even TB if I feel like it. I’m glad you brought this old post to my attention because looking back at it, I realize that I am now so much more comfortable with just speaking to random people and not caring what they think. These days, this kind of situation where people don’t like me or something wouldn’t really affect me much.
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Also, talking to people within the first 5 minutes of entering the venue is so true. Looking back, I’ve always had the best interactions at parties with women whenever I would just start talking to people right of the bat.
The longer I’d wait to start an interaction, the harder it would be for me.
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What is the name of the books you’re reading BTW?
Seduce With Integrity, by a guy I used to watch for advice years ago. Also just started reading the Book of Pook which was mentioned here by someone, also a very good book, but the first one has more actionable tips (so far anyway).