Today was a good day, I spoke to my teacher and usually she is super like lenient towards me but today she didn’t do what I wanted her to do and so now tomorrow I need to go to class again for some stupid work which is so annoying, on the way back I met my friend and told him that the chick he likes wants to get drinks with me and he was super sad even though he tried to play it off like it means nothing, I slept coz he wanted me to go to the gym with him and that meant waiting 2 hrs for him to get back but I was super tired to go so I slept and didn’t get up but later I got up and I got myself to go without any resistance, in the gym there was this chick who was kinda old but had a good body and I saw the introductory webinar from my mentoring programme which the guy said just get in the habit of approaching for now, so I thought of approaching her and I did it and I faced like way lesser resistance then I usually do and it was easier to talk to her, to be fair it was indirect but it still went well, after that I went for a society and ran libertine before but had very less time so could only run it once and I could notice the difference, it really makes a big difference, in the society everyone was in groups and coz I was chilling with 2 friends already I didn’t really feel like approaching but it seemed very closed off like people haven’t come here to meet new people and I found that super weird for a society, after that I came back and chilled for a bit after leaving my friends after shooting the shit with them for a bit. So the subs now have trained my mind to the point where it is easier taking action as there is not that much resistance anymore but the problem is I still have to take the first step and that’s not always easy, so I was wondering if there is any sub that pushes me to take action
Today was interesting, I went to study with a friend and I could barely focus and after that I kinda started like drifting I’d say like feeling kinda bad but not really bad and this reflected in my boxing class coz today I didn’t really push myself and felt weak and gave up easily but at the end I volunteered to spar which I usually would never have done and I did speak to 2 chicks, one even ignored me first but I persisted as if it’s natural for me to do like I was shocked she didn’t respond, this was good as this never happens to me aulthough most of the times I hold myself back coz I don’t know what to say and do, then afterwards once I was back I chilled with two friends and watched black mirror and the episode really hit me hard and I became really depressed and my friends had to console me out of it but then we were having fun and this chick was super clingy to me like physically, and I was super comfortable and also I felt a little comfortable being a little vulnerable which usually never happens
Overall I love how I’m changing socially so far but the main thing I wanna see with this sub is me actively approaching and gaming chicks and it actually going somewhere and me getting approached by chicks, I’d also like to be more comfortable talking to people who I perceive as the high status cool kids and would like to form relations with them
Even when running subs, you can take massive action to supercharge your results. Growth happens by changing your belifs, which can be done using subs, but also when trying new experience… you see that you are changing socially, maybe try to go out with some friends and game a couple of girls there… you could also go ahead and speak to those “cool kids”, see who they are and see if they react differently to who you are now 
i have signed up for a programme and plan to follow it religiously, it is for game so that will help and i also might take friends so i always have a group to go back to, as for the cool kids i have noticed that they only look for people who provide them with some sort of value and as of now i dont know if i have any value to provide
Today was really interesting I run libertine 3 times and got some attention but not as much as I expected then after I came back and was super tired but yet pushed myself to go to the gym and even pushed myself to go for boxing even if it’s for sometime atleast it’s exercise, I wrote down some goals to follow for now, I have noticed this programme gives me a lot of willpower in terms of exercise and social situations but not in any other areas, after my boxing class I ran libertine again so total of 6 times today, I felt super weird after running it again and during the second loop I was making pig noises and during the 3rd loop I was zoning out completely, however I was more social when I went to the bar but then again my same cycle, go to club, unable to approach, feel shitty, atleast lesser then I usually do even if not by much. Primal I feel is really helping me with my social skills and I’m glad for that but now I’m thinking I want something that will actually help me get laid, I don’t want to become a pickup artist and go out 7 days a week mass approaching but I want the ability to game someone when I’m talking to them socially and if I go to a club I should be able to approach and pull from there coz this quest of getting me laid is what most of my focus goes towards as tbh it’s really attached to my ego and I always feel validated when I get good reactions from women, I came into personal development 2 yrs ago coz of pickup and it feels sad that I haven’t got any concrete results yet even though I have great lot improved
Also in regards to willpower I don’t know if it’s actually willpower or just rebirth and limit destroyer removing my internal blockages so now I don’t have a reason not to and don’t need much willpower to push myself to do things that help me anyways, aulthough this has only happened in a few areas and not all
It could be that you have mistaken default state for willpower. Taking me as an example, I don’t need willpower to get up and go to the gym. I think being fit is my default state, therefore there is no need for willpower. Just like smokers don’t need any willpower to pick up a cigarette. “I am a smoker” is their self-image and smoking is their default state. You like to box and socialise so those do not require willpower. Doing other stuff, like maybe cleaning the house might require willpower.
True, could be possible
Also I forgot a detail from yesterday I just randomly spoke to a chick in the bar that was in the group and it was super flirty and both of us were giggly and it is something I usually might not have done so easily, I just remembered it and thought might as well include it here so I can record all progress without leaving out any details, but in like a few mins she was gone and I wasn’t able to approach her again even though she was just next to me, internal blockages, she even passed by me and I tried to speak to her but she kept walking
Remember that subliminals are not magic. Being honest, when you flirted with her then stopped, you blew your chance. The sub helped urge you to speak to her in the first place, you should’ve attempted to close the deal then. Asked for a number, second meet up – SOMETHING.
Is there a sub that pushes u to take action based on the effects the other subs r causing or is it something u need to consciously yourself
Right now, the sublimnals will “urge” you, but you have to consciously take action on. We are exploring the idea of either a subliminal or stack module that will get you to REALLY take action.
You might need some more education and tools available to you to accomplish your goals. If you’re struggling with closing the deal, maybe you don’t know HOW to close the deal. Maybe you need to go through some PUA courses and learn some inner and outer game TECHNIQUES. Then these subliminals will help you with actually implementing them.
As an example, take stage hypnotists. They can’t make a subject proficient at something they have no reference for. They can make a subject THINK they’re speaking Chinese, but unless that person actually knows some Chinese, it won’t actually be Chinese coming out of their mouth.
Now, if you HAVE gone through PUA training, maybe you need a refresher. And some practice. Give the subs something to work with.
I signed up for a 12 week mentoring programme for pua and my first week goals were given but as soon as I reached the club I just got hit by this wave of fear that didn’t allow me to approach the whole night and even my approaches that I did were so weak it’s like if I approached u u wouldn’t think I was approaching
Sounds like you need to practice in less stressful situations. Start with the mirror. Move on to an audio recorder. Then move up to a video recorder. Then to a close friend. Then maybe to a stranger where you really don’t care about the outcome. Your confidence will grow and soon you’ll be able to approach the girls you’re really after.
Today was ok nothing really interesting but I had gone for my class and after that I wanted to go to a market so I asked a friend to join and he said no and I felt a little weird from inside going alone but then I felt this push and went alone anyways, also this friend keeps playfully pushing me and annoying me so I told him today that I don’t like it and I might beat him up if he keeps pushing me, I said this in a calm way, after that I went out with my friends and I was persistent in getting them out and not that reactive when they kept testing, keep note these r people I’m comfortable with so I have full independence of outcome and I don’t care what happens, I have been trying to get myself to study coz I have an exam coming up but I feel no motivation whatsoever to actually sit down and study
Also I forgot to add a friend just hit me up out of nowhere and wants to hang on Sunday
I would like to add a small note here that I have a lot of moments where I notice subtle changes like walking more confidently, checking myself out in mirrors,being more physical, getting attention more but it’s hard to remember everything that happened throughout the day and report it back especially when my focus latches on to something important that happened or something negative so I would just like to apologise for that and let u guys know that I’m covering whatever I remember when I type this journal entries and will keep filling them in everyday until I keep running the subs
Hi there,
I was reading your journal, see I’m no one to comment or advice. But from your journal it seems you are too desperate for results, also you are looking for results everyday. A simple analogy is suppose a farmer wants to raise a crop. He does all the hard work to make sure that the crop grows well. Now should he allow the crop to grow or should he dig up his land everyday to check whether the crop is growing or not.
Forget about subliminals, your work was to listen to them and you did that perfectly. Stop thinking that just because you have listened to a subliminal, you will have edge and you will see extra results.
Subliminals are working perfectly fine. You are just over thinking in that particular situation.
Mind a trickster. It tricks people in thinking, you are not good enough, subliminals don’t work, you must have done something wrong that’s why it’s not working. She is out of my league. May be it’s too early for a subliminal to work. May be it will work in this condition and it won’t work in this condition.
Give yourself time, you will see the difference in few months. Believe me, I do understand your situation. It will pass. Have faith.
Just for a different perspective, I disagree that you’re over thinking it. I tend to hate it when I ask questions and get told that. And it happens a LOT.
When we ask questions, we need need clarification, not to get told to stop thinking about it.
IMO, you should keep taking action, evaluating your progress, and reporting and asking questions.
The only time you can be “over thinking it” is if you’re not taking action or you’re getting so deep into details that are insignificant.
It IS, however, possible (likely?) that you’re expecting more from subliminals than they’re designed to do. So, make sure you have realistic expectations and an understanding of how subliminals work.