Main Idea Thread - Ladies: What Kind of Titles Would You Like to See?

Another idea. Embracing being the villain and letting it mean nothing. Squashing people pleasing habits.

Without turning this into a men vs women debate, the amount of vitriol and hate women get from some guys just for existing is ridiculous. Combine that with the tendency to be stuck in people pleasing behavior is a recipe for having unwanted people in your life.

I think sometimes it’s helpful to embrace being the villain. Not to do anything wrong, I mean the perception of you as a woman having the villain image projected onto you. Sometimes you just can’t win, it’s the other person and their insecurities but they will be inspired by an unending amount of confidence that yes YOU are the problem. And that one sided confidence can mess with someone’s head. Taking away their power by embracing the thing they think they can use to make you feel bad, weaponized sexism. The assumptions that women shouldn’t be bold, confident, and should always be nice and pleasant.

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I would say that “You are THEIR problem” when you are not people pleasing and speak your mind boldly and confidently. That, I would acknowledge, and if I get a “bad woman” badge for that I would wear it proudly.

Out of that context, I would never want to internalise in any way, shape or form that I am a bad woman for speaking frankly and boldly. There is a very fine line that can be risky as women already have enough internalised guilt.

There have been plenty of witch hunting in history. Women who stepped outside their prescribed roles, often, became targets. ‘If you are not a virtuous people pleaser, you are a bad woman’. In recent years, fortunately, things have started to change but that internalised sense of people pleasing is still present, as you said, and so is the guilt when we don’t. So, in general, I don’t want to embrace the villain yet as I feel, this may backfire and cause a lot of recon.

I understand where you come from and I agree that the ‘people pleaser’ should be erased from our unconscious mind.

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A woman who embodies total-spectrum excellence — sharp in the mind, clean in the body, glowing in her emotional field.

Mental Lethality
• Advanced focus under pressure
• clarity in high-risk moments
• Pattern recognition + prediction in dynamic systems
• Strategic thinking, timing, and anticipation
• Unflinching decisiveness

Kinesthetic intelligence and fast-twitch reaction
• Graceful, fluid control of movement
• Body-mind synchronization (muscle memory + mental calm)
• Ruthless consistency

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You raise a lot of good points. And I absolutely would say it needs to be refined more before it touches anyone’s subconscious. But this might also be a good example of a different type of title. I feel like the lack of variety with women’s titles kind of leads to this situation where everything needs to fit and of course not everyone will feel the same about what should or shouldn’t go into it.

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I saw this video from Afnan Khalifa where she explains why women are not respected. Maybe this could be a product that could help the ladies.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=s7oL3O0NT4A&list=PLQyXUw7Dih4tpZobLG-c3aF7NjuR4hHd5&index=5

The 7 Rules She Teaches

  • 1. Stop waiting for respect—decide you already have it.
    • People mirror how you treat yourself.
    • Stop asking for permission; execute your ideas and bring results.
    • When you embody authority, others feel it without you saying a word.
  • 2. Nice women finish last—set boundaries like your income depends on it.
    • “Nice” gets used in business.
    • Every yes you give when you mean no lowers self-respect.
    • Boundaries are power. “No” is a complete sentence.
    • High-value women aren’t the nicest—they’re the clearest.
  • 3. Stop overexplaining.
    • Overexplaining invites negotiation and weakens authority.
    • Powerful women state decisions once and act.
    • If someone needs value explained, they aren’t your client.
    • Say less. Execute more. Let results speak.
  • 4. Respect is taught through consequences, not conversations.
    • People don’t change from talk—they change from outcomes.
    • Enforce standards through action (firing, leaving, ending deals).
    • One consequence teaches more than a thousand explanations.
  • 5. The people you tolerate determine your worth.
    • You can’t become your future self while surrounded by people who see the old you.
    • Sometimes “low self-esteem” is just the wrong environment.
    • Leaving is not betrayal—it’s evolution.
  • 6. Control your emotions or they’ll control your respect.
    • Feeling emotions isn’t weakness—performing them is.
    • Grace under pressure is power.
    • Strategic calm makes you untouchable.
  • 7. High-value women don’t argue—they exit.
    • Arguing for respect proves you don’t have it.
    • Leaving is a power move.
    • Success replaces debate.
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  • Stop feeling guilty for setting boundaries, having self-respect, and being a successful woman, especially around the people closest to you (family, parents, children, friends).

  • Develop the ability to change, become powerful and alpha, and still remain open to love — the kind of love that allows a woman to expand, not the kind rooted in submission, weakness, or manipulation. Be able to receive the kind of love that supports progress, manifestation, and the full expression of feminine potency in the world.

  • Break and dissolve all beliefs that suggest a woman’s power must be directed solely toward taking care of others, and that doing things for herself makes her selfish or causes her to be perceived as selfish.

  • Scripts that encourage women to do BIG THINGS in the world, in any area they choose to occupy — business, art, career, personal projects, travel, or any other path they desire.

  • Scripts that encourage women to manifest new realities where they no longer have to “play small” out of fear of hurting men’s feelings or capacities, or out of fear of being hurt or manipulated simply for being connected to their center, their power, their expression, and the core of their being.

  • Dissolve limiting beliefs and patterns that make women vulnerable to conscious or unconscious abuse by friends, romantic partners, coworkers, or others.

Questions that come to mind:

  • How can women access the highest concepts of feminine energy and feminine power?
  • What are the highest and healthiest ways to express feminine power in the world — first for oneself, and then for others?
  • How can a woman remain deeply connected to the center of her own life, and to her own needs, desires, passions, and appetites, while fully embracing her womanhood?
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  • Dissolve scripts that prevent a woman from occupying the position she genuinely desires just because she was told it was “a man’s thing,” or because of ideas like “this is for women / this is not for women.”

  • With Seductress, I felt a very strong sense of connection, as well as heightened intuitive and sensory awareness of the environment. I’m someone with mediumistic abilities, and something in the Seductress script makes me feel very vulnerable to other people’s energy.

When I think about the expression of the feminine and its power, it seems important to include scripts that prevent someone who is more connected to the feminine, to intuition, and to energetic fields from getting lost in that or feeling unprotected while accessing it — even just through interacting with others. There are all kinds of people in the world, and being highly sensitive and operating strongly in that spectrum can become a challenge if not properly supported.

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• Embody grounded femininity that feels natural, not performative
• Attract a masculine partner who is emotionally available, intentional, and aligned
• Be soft and warm while maintaining clear standards and firm boundaries
• Cultivate deep self-respect and a secure attachment style
• Release anxious patterns and outdated relational conditioning
• Radiate inner beauty, presence, and quiet confidence
• Be naturally magnetic, inviting genuine pursuit rather than games
• Inspire depth and sincerity in others, especially those used to surface-level connections
• Feel chosen without relying on external validation

• Heal and release past emotional wounds and inherited patterns
• Live as a whole, emotionally balanced, and self-led woman
• Prioritize well-being across emotional, physical, mental, and spiritual areas
• Create a life that feels light, joyful, and fulfilling

• Be vibrant, engaging, and easy to connect with
• Build and nurture meaningful, authentic community
• Draw people in through warmth rather than validation-seeking

• Access and embody your attractiveness with intention
• Explore different expressions of allure such as playful, mysterious, and sensual
• Refine your presence so it feels effortless and authentic

• Build a life of purpose, success, and integrity
• Honor your individuality while continuing to grow and evolve

Maybe something that helps develop and master the different seduction archetypes in Robert Green’s The Art of Seduction book. An aura of, “Wow, there’s something about her” that makes her be pursued. She’s a high quality woman.

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I wish there were a wider variety of feminine archetypes. I say this because I don’t resonate that much with Seductress or with the kind of archetype it proposes and stimulates.

You know, the universe is so full of powerful feminine archetypes. I think even a more superficial exploration of that could open up a lot of interesting ideas.
There’s the archetype of the wild seductress — self-possessed, untamed. I think of images of strong Latina or Mexican women in red dresses: powerful, warm, magnetic. She owns you. (Just as an illustration, but I’d honestly love to see a title like that.)

Besides that, there’s the amazon warrior archetype, who is also self-possessed, conquering, determined, self-sufficient, relentless — but connected to another layer of the feminine. Would that be Artemis?

Anyway… women are incredibly vast. Honestly, because of the lack of resonance, I didn’t have very good results with Seductress and ended up a bit frustrated with the title, turning to more masculine titles to develop things that feel closer to what I described. I think exploring other types of archetypes would be really interesting, even as a way to attract more female users here.

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Would love to see that dangerous nonchalant or wild kind of diva thing going on haha. Like a cobra :snake:. The kind that doesn’t submit but instead makes everyone else drop to their knees.

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Wanted : dream girl

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This is a definite. We’re actively working on it.

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Well said.

Here is one place to start:

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In this classic book, Jean Shinoda Bolen explores and expresses trajectories of women’s development through the archetypal lenses of 7 Greek goddesses.

Of course, it’s only one starting point. But it’s a good one.

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My first ever pre-sults

Just set up a lunch with a girl from tinder. Only just noticed a minute ago her bio just says “I’m your dream girl”

I switch tabs and immediately see “wanted: dream girl” haha

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The themes Id love to see covered are:

Confidence & self-worth – Building a deep sense of worth that isnt based on achievements, appearance, or other peoples approval. I want that genuine “I don’t need to prove myself” energy, not just faking confidence for a few minutes. I dont want to feel like I have to constantly prove my worth before people treat me with basic respect…ugh

Healing attachment patterns – Understanding and healing our own attachment style, while learning not to let other people’s attachment patterns dictate our emotions or self-worth.

Trauma healing – Reducing the impact of experiences that taught my nervous system that the world, men, or relationships are inherently unsafe.

Deconstructing internalized beliefs – Learning to separate what I truly believe about being a woman from what I was taught by family, culture, media, or upbringing. Especially for those of us raised with very traditional or rigid expectations, it’s hard to recognize what no longer serves us and let it go.

Living with less fear – Not pretending danger doesn’t exist, but not letting fear become the thing that organizes my entire life. Id love content on feeling confident doing things alone, traveling alone, and feeling secure in my own company instead of constantly feeling on guard.

Being respected and valued – Building a presence where self-respect comes naturally and learning how to carry yourself with quiet confidence. I don’t want to feel like I have to earn basic respect, I want to embody self-worth from the start.

Id also love content on the difference between protective awareness (making wise decisions) and constant vigilance (living in a state of hyper-alertness), and how to move from one to the other.

One of the biggest questions Im trying to answer is:

What do I actually believe when I’m not trying to live up to everyone elses expectations?

Things like:

  • Which parts of femininity genuinely feel like me ?
  • Which expectations have I simply inherited?
  • Which fears are truly mine, and which were learned?
  • What would I choose if I genuinely trusted myself?

I think these are such important conversations for women who want to heal, feel freer, and build a stronger relationship with themselves.

Ultimately, Id love a sub that helps women become deeply secure in themselves, free from unnecessary fear, grounded in their worth, emotionally independent, able to trust themselves, pursue their own path unapologetically, and embody a quiet confidence and presence that naturally commands respect without seeking validation.

…And of course, throw in the hot as hell, unforgettable, magnetic, effortlessly attractive, head-turning aura too because let’s be honest, a little bit of pretty privilege never hurt anyone Hahaha. >.<…

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You’re in luck. Monarch (Emperor for Women) comes out this week. It’s the first of new titles for women.

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@SaintSovereign :eyes::raised_hands:t5: I’m so excited!!! been waiting patiently for years for Monarch / Empress but I know it was worth the wait. This purchase is going to feel like I’m cashing out on a long term investment. Thank you for taking your time with this sub. All the energy and effort is truly appreciated 🫶🏾 .
I put in my resignation a couple weeks ago. Today is my last day at a draining job I’ve been at for almost 3 years. This is divine timing and exactly what I need to start the next chapter of my life. Will monarch stack well with Peace and Zone . I mentioned in a pervious post. I am planning to start nursing school. I have my 10 year plan drafted and my LONG term goal once I graduate and get experience will eventually be to start a Nursing Concierge business along with coaching with a holistic twist. I’m a INFP of course my plan sounds all over the place :sweat_smile:but I have a Vision, Purpose and plan .
Thank you for being part of my journey since 2021 :gift_heart:

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Some titles for women that are masculine leaning instead of feminine leaning. And some that will dissolve any baggage around sexism and self sabotage from that baggage. I guess none of that is really needed since most masculine subs are unisex use but I’d definitely be more interested in masculine titles for women or at least something that doesn’t lean heavily into femininity.

Also perfect partner manifestation sub. I’m sure a lot of girlies out there already making affirmations into their journals about “the one”. And you guys are really good at manifestation stuff too. I think it could be a hit. Imagine that “Manifest your ideal partner / crush to love you and they will be just the way you’d imagine if you could actually shoot for the stars” hahahaha

And maybe you go the opposite direction and you’ll get a title like “seduce yourself” where you find the things you search for in other people romantically and you learn to embody them and enjoy your own existence and expression now having more independence and fulfilment. Becoming your ideal that you wish you could date??? I’m sure a lot of people would like to just be happy on their own not chasing things like this from others. Not sure if that would even work. Just an idea!

And also a title for having a LOT of friends to hang out with in real life. For people who are stuck at home and don’t have irl friends…. See now none of these are necessarily female only titles and some already exist to some degree… got lost in the sauce :canned_food:

Okay… huntress title
It’s kind of goofy title imagine literally a caveman huntress she has really messy hair and runs on her fours really fast and jumps really far. She eats raw meat and has that cute primal look to her. Tilting her head to the side in confusion when you’re trying to explain something and the continuing to dig her burrow. Just primal but you double down on cute Stone Age huntress archetype very free living very pretty and athletic and strong and that’s it lol

We need this so bad it’s not even funny

Rise, MONARCH. Reign. Now available:

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