Main Idea Thread - Ladies: What Kind of Titles Would You Like to See?

Topic says it all. Ladies – what kind of titles would you like to see?

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Queen Like confidence, respect and Aura:

A title that would help women get confidence and serenity.

Like mother hens these women would help, advise and protect their family and friends.

They would walk and pose with grace, have the ability to engage in conversation with anyone and have the gift to make everyone they meet feel special. Everyone would remember them fondly because they are kind and a have a memorable aura.

They would also deal with negative people in an efficient manner. Only with a look they would deter people who had bad intentions towards them or anybody else around them. They would use NVC to deal with these people.

They would get gifts and get unexpected dividends easily.

They would be excellent hosts and get invited to parties and gatherings all the time.

Many people would be attracted to them and they would be graceful and kind letting them down when they are not interested.

They would also be fun to be around.

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My 2 cents as a man

Pretty much all the women I´ve met so far have been victims of sexual abuse/rape at some point in their life, and I´m thinking a comprehensive Valkyrie module for survivors of this kind of abuse would be a cool idea for (but not limited to!) female-focused subliminals.

Streetsmarts, intuition enhancement, detection and intimidation of predators, ability for ruthless boundary enforcement and self defence against abusers, evasion and escape abilities, gentle restoration of inner safety, re-affirming and strengthening of psyche/identity, total healing and relaxation of the nervous system, gentle reframing/removal and detaching of unconscious victim-identity imprints/wounds, manifesting supportive friends, environments, things like that.

Basically some sort of a more focused Regeneration + Survival Instinct as an ESSENCE module :thinking:

All this expressing in a way that doesn´t take away from their femininity/grace unless desired.

@SaintSovereign

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From convo with gf

Something relating to attachment styles and developing a secure attachment style

A wealth for women subliminal (or archetype)

A status subliminal where you are trying to be #1 in your field and don’t want to be held back by gender stereotypes - an ambition for women subliminal that helps you ascend to the top of your field

Physically, something like Spartan, but instead of combat something more oriented towards another type of physical discipline, like yoga, and instead of having that hardcore warrior aura, being calm flowing and grateful. Something that uses physicality to bring serenity to the mind and body, increases flexibility and strength, and health.

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Idk how much scripting there is in HoT or seductress on this, but so many women have these unattainable standards for their physical body burned into their heads from all forms of media. Advertisements and models are cherry picked to display certain portions of their body to show off clothes the right way. So it’s just years and years of being shown highlight clips of bodies in the best setting possible that isn’t reflective of reality at all. It’s only gotten worse with social media.

There’s a difference between understanding that vs feeling it on a deep emotional level. I’ve seen women feel really bad that they aren’t hourglass shaped, something totally beyond their control. Even with physical shifting from these subs it’s such a fine line between enhancing best qualities vs trying to have a different physical body. But at the end of the day it can still feel like “what I have isn’t good enough”

Like just the idea of “shapes” is so reductive of the nuance and complexity of every body. And some guides still default to this idea you have to play down features vs embrace them. Hide vs proudly display.

And it’s hit or miss who’s effected by this. Some women don’t care, some fit the more societal aesthetically pleasing body so it doesn’t effect them as much, some are crushed daily. And it seems like the only advice given is to either love yourself and your body or just stop being so insecure about it. Both are not easy solutions to execute. It’s just weird how women can be borderline shamed for a problem that someone else instilled in them.

I guess if we had the ability to alter our bodies at will and change them these things wouldn’t stick as much. But I think it’s important in the absence of that women are able to feel comfortable with their body because for the most part it isn’t going to change that drastically on a structural level.

That was kinda a rant. I didn’t know how to articulate these ideas or specifics of a title. But it’s what’s been in my head lately.

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Some more ideas:

These women have an independent mindset. They are professionals or entrepreneurs but they only need to dedicate a few hours a day to make enough money to live comfortably they don’t seek monetary richness. (They would use other subs or tools if they need to develop the economical or professional aspect).

They share what they have with others, even when they have little, because the appreciate and seek social and mental wealth. And so they share love, knowledge, kindness, experiences and so on. They enjoy nature and practice gratitude regularly, even when they are in discomfort.

They understand that in life we all struggle for one reason or another, and when they fail at something they don’t beat themselves about it, instead they shrug it off or they take notes and learn from it.

They master their emotions: when things go wrong they pause, asses the situation and act with calm logic.

They recognise and give space to negative emotions but don’t act on those impulses, when they need to offload they dance, walk or practise any other activity that suits their personalities.

They focus on what they can control and let go of what they can’t, their peace comes from knowing where their limits are.

They don’t take things personally because they don’t need external validation to feel worthy, their value comes from their integrity. Other people opinions or societal expectations are just different ideas that may suit other people but they don’t feel they are compulsory.

They make the most of the opportunities that life throws at them.

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Another idea. Embracing being the villain and letting it mean nothing. Squashing people pleasing habits.

Without turning this into a men vs women debate, the amount of vitriol and hate women get from some guys just for existing is ridiculous. Combine that with the tendency to be stuck in people pleasing behavior is a recipe for having unwanted people in your life.

I think sometimes it’s helpful to embrace being the villain. Not to do anything wrong, I mean the perception of you as a woman having the villain image projected onto you. Sometimes you just can’t win, it’s the other person and their insecurities but they will be inspired by an unending amount of confidence that yes YOU are the problem. And that one sided confidence can mess with someone’s head. Taking away their power by embracing the thing they think they can use to make you feel bad, weaponized sexism. The assumptions that women shouldn’t be bold, confident, and should always be nice and pleasant.

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I would say that “You are THEIR problem” when you are not people pleasing and speak your mind boldly and confidently. That, I would acknowledge, and if I get a “bad woman” badge for that I would wear it proudly.

Out of that context, I would never want to internalise in any way, shape or form that I am a bad woman for speaking frankly and boldly. There is a very fine line that can be risky as women already have enough internalised guilt.

There have been plenty of witch hunting in history. Women who stepped outside their prescribed roles, often, became targets. ‘If you are not a virtuous people pleaser, you are a bad woman’. In recent years, fortunately, things have started to change but that internalised sense of people pleasing is still present, as you said, and so is the guilt when we don’t. So, in general, I don’t want to embrace the villain yet as I feel, this may backfire and cause a lot of recon.

I understand where you come from and I agree that the ‘people pleaser’ should be erased from our unconscious mind.

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A woman who embodies total-spectrum excellence — sharp in the mind, clean in the body, glowing in her emotional field.

Mental Lethality
• Advanced focus under pressure
• clarity in high-risk moments
• Pattern recognition + prediction in dynamic systems
• Strategic thinking, timing, and anticipation
• Unflinching decisiveness

Kinesthetic intelligence and fast-twitch reaction
• Graceful, fluid control of movement
• Body-mind synchronization (muscle memory + mental calm)
• Ruthless consistency

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You raise a lot of good points. And I absolutely would say it needs to be refined more before it touches anyone’s subconscious. But this might also be a good example of a different type of title. I feel like the lack of variety with women’s titles kind of leads to this situation where everything needs to fit and of course not everyone will feel the same about what should or shouldn’t go into it.

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I saw this video from Afnan Khalifa where she explains why women are not respected. Maybe this could be a product that could help the ladies.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=s7oL3O0NT4A&list=PLQyXUw7Dih4tpZobLG-c3aF7NjuR4hHd5&index=5

The 7 Rules She Teaches

  • 1. Stop waiting for respect—decide you already have it.
    • People mirror how you treat yourself.
    • Stop asking for permission; execute your ideas and bring results.
    • When you embody authority, others feel it without you saying a word.
  • 2. Nice women finish last—set boundaries like your income depends on it.
    • “Nice” gets used in business.
    • Every yes you give when you mean no lowers self-respect.
    • Boundaries are power. “No” is a complete sentence.
    • High-value women aren’t the nicest—they’re the clearest.
  • 3. Stop overexplaining.
    • Overexplaining invites negotiation and weakens authority.
    • Powerful women state decisions once and act.
    • If someone needs value explained, they aren’t your client.
    • Say less. Execute more. Let results speak.
  • 4. Respect is taught through consequences, not conversations.
    • People don’t change from talk—they change from outcomes.
    • Enforce standards through action (firing, leaving, ending deals).
    • One consequence teaches more than a thousand explanations.
  • 5. The people you tolerate determine your worth.
    • You can’t become your future self while surrounded by people who see the old you.
    • Sometimes “low self-esteem” is just the wrong environment.
    • Leaving is not betrayal—it’s evolution.
  • 6. Control your emotions or they’ll control your respect.
    • Feeling emotions isn’t weakness—performing them is.
    • Grace under pressure is power.
    • Strategic calm makes you untouchable.
  • 7. High-value women don’t argue—they exit.
    • Arguing for respect proves you don’t have it.
    • Leaving is a power move.
    • Success replaces debate.
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