Roadmap entry: Inner Circle: Brotherhood | Subliminal Club
To absolutely ensure that we see your idea, post them in both locations. Inner Circle: Brotherhood is focused more on creating a social circle of good friends and colleagues. While it will handle the career, it’s more focused on the social aspect (which, of course can overlap with the career).
EDIT: And yes, we are considering a counterpart for women.
I’ll copypaste my suggestion about the sub from back then:
What Heartsong aims at in a romantic context, I´d like to see in IC Brotherhood as well, scripting to attract and manifest the men that are aligned with our lifes purpose, not just pooling resources, networks and knowledge, but those that are actually part of our soultribe.
Attract the exact people in ones life to help with achieving ones goals and naturally, effortlessly create deep trust based and loyal bonds with them to go far beyond ordinary connections. Making the relationship a deep mutual exchange of genuine and authentic friendship filled with positivity and growth.
That kind of relationship everyone is constantly desiring but is never allowed to transpire because of societal conditioning and other limitations that we hold above our heads.
Develop a natural sense for spotting authenticity vs. deception in others.
Quickly identify and highlight commonalities with new people.
Radiate an open, friendly, and approachable vibe.
Encourage others to open up and share more easily.
Build trust and rapport in a relaxed, natural way.
Attract and maintain genuine friendships.
Strengthen social intuition to read group dynamics smoothly.
Increase comfort in initiating conversations and sustaining them.
Foster loyalty and deeper bonds within a social circle.
Something I’d love to see is an adaptation of the new relational healing that’s in the new Wanted, geared towards male relationships.
Where old relational dynamics that have seemed to never change suddenly shift, without a major healing focus.
I grew up without a father, and I’ve tended to seek that dynamic with peers. But since no one has ever filled that void, I’ve given only fleeting attention to real relationships with men.
The “non-healing” healing feature might remove barriers to living a new life.
I very much love the title’s main idea.
However, right now, I cannot think of a single idea or concept that I would not expect to already be inside the main Inner Circle already.
I mean, I am using the Inner Circle already exactly for that brotherhood creation (and other people manifestations), plus the social skills.
How could this title become so much different from what the main Inner Circle already does?
It seems that everything required to build a brotherhood, career etc is already covered by the existing IC…
Stop others creating secret alliances against you and make secret alliances for you/with you
Also healing regarding past dismissive behaviours or rejection In friendships.
Friends that give you or add to the social aspect to non social thins such as work friends turning into real friends
People approaching you for friendships
People inviting you to their cicles
social Skills and Social calibrations
Emphasis on building deeper, lasting friendships
Finding and manifesting these sort of friendships
Nurturing existing friendships and deepening them
x2 this
This title is so needed. The older you are, the harder to make new friends. And I mean real friends, not people you hang out with from time to time because it’s funny or there’s no one else to spend time with. Real friends share same values or, at least, same values on meaningful things you have to face everyday, and they share a strong brotherhood-like bond. Most of people make their real friends during school or college/university and not after. It’d be awesome if IC: Brotherhood would address this all adult’s encompassing problem. Not going to lie, I’m having hard time making true friends myself, and I’m only in the first half of 20’s. And that’s all while living in my city. It will get worse when I move to another city or even country.
I was thinking the same, such a great idea of a title
The older you are, the harder to make new friends.
It will get worse when I move to another city or even country.
I’m having hard time making true friends
Only one of these 4 statements is true and worth exploring if you truly want to have friends.
You can start by stopping to feed these negative beliefs about making new true friends, and stop projecting a negative future for yourself.
What you express in words spoken or written has a lot of power, remember we create our reality on more levels than we realise.
Actually, it’s “the older you are, the more selective you get”.
Scripting to make you open minded & receptive to others’ differing points of view. And in return, scripting to attract the same from others.
A true brotherhood is not just a cluster of yes-men circlejerking each other’s egos.
It is a catalyst of growth stemming from the unique qualities of everyone involved.
It’s a safe environment where everyone can unapologetically be themselves, or as close to it as possible. While still being able to appreciate/criticize each others’ differing points of view.
The friendships would be complementary, non-competitive, and altruistic.
There would be an emphasis on group harmony.
Would benefit if something like this could be integrated.
The problem with classifications and personality typologies is that they’re never accurate. They’re arbitrary mental constructs someone made up. Yet people talk about "personality types” as if they were realities.
The only value I found in that video is that the guy acknowledged that people might belong to several categories at once. He failed to explain that many other people don’t fit into any of those categories at all. Also, you can classify someone one way today, and the next day, in a different situation, they’d seem to fit an entirely different category.
Personality typology is pseudo-science, often peddled by marketers and by people trying to sell books or programs. Sadly, it’s become so ingrained in modern thinking that many would rather view others through the lens of a classification than take the time to truly understand the real human being in front of them.
I’d love for this title to attract and manifest genuine friendships where you don’t need to wear a social “mask” and you feel safe and trusting enough to let your authenticity out - sharing those parts of yourself you normally keep hidden from the world. Letting your “freak flag fly” if you will.
Also, they say you are the average of the 5 people you spend the most time with, so your own form of winner’s circle manifestation where everyone in your group is supporting each other to “level up” in whatever way is important for you. The classic example of this is a sports team, where there is natural camaraderie from a shared goal, and teammates pushing each other to be their best. I could see this being extended beyond the context of athletics, and into areas like spirituality, dating, finance, personal growth, etc. Conscious guidance playing a big part here.
Some of the charisma and social development features from regular Inner Circle would be amazing as well. In particular, Magnetic Network (your “winner’s circle” mentioned above of high value friendships), Value Alchemist (transformational friendships built on generosity, appreciation and shared growth), Discernment Matrix (discerning potential friends intentions and character), and Joyful Networking (modified to bring genuine Joy into meetups, hangouts, and shared activities with your brotherhood).
Lastly, I would love to see some of the Adventure, Fun, Humor, and Storytelling scripting from Daredevil into this title. In my experience, nothing strengthens brotherhood more than shared adventure and memorable stories. Sharing these adventurous, fun experiences and then looking back on them through shared stories and humorous inside jokes is one of the most joyous experiences one can have in life.