Main Disc. Thread - WANTED

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#1369

Is anyone feeling like WANTED’s “it is what it is” nonchalant attitude is a bit too calm at times? Like I almost feel passive at times, not saying that I feel like I have no backbone, but more like I can’t even bother with the issue because it’s such a drag and I’m chill this way, like it’s a bit worrying to me, like during one of the instances this week, I ordered some food, a calzone and a pizza, and they sent me the wrong order of the pizza (asked for bbq chicken and got pesto chicken instead), yet I just shrugged it off and ate it, even though I was craving bbq when I ordered, like I didn’t even bother to call the restaurant to say that they got my order wrong or anything, like it’s worrying because I think it might escalate the attitude to other areas, like what if someone was messing with someone I care about and I feel like it’s “it is what it is” and just don’t bother?

I guess this is also a good reason why ascension was the perfect addition to my stack

#1370

It is what it is mentality is one of the best mentalities to have when you are manifesting.

The more you want something the harder you push it away, only when you surrender to the reality in front of you yet still take action is when it will come.

Kind of like when you search for something for an hour but the minute you give up, you find it. Its a delicate push pull game we all play.

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#1371

Fuck this is me already. Sometimes I think I’m too chill and some women want a man who lloses his shit and “puts her in her place” but I prefer to next the girl and find another one. I can’t be bothered tbh.

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#1372

i guess its because that type of guys reflect a high amount of test to the females with their behavior, now that I think about, something like primal could be really good with WANTED if someone wants to be a bit wilder in behavior

#1373

I think it’s daddy issues tbh

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#1374

I love America!

Maybe because Police Academy series had a similar scene.

Or because Saint and Fire are americans.

Or maybe because two girls just gave me double blowjob, I don’t know.

I love the feelings and freedom latest subs are giving to me. Of course, my personal work made a great deal and such but subs are getting very very interesting to me. Identity change, state change, new states…

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#1375

Are Saint, and Fire Americans?

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#1376

I guess so.

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#1377

I think they reside in America, but I don’t think anyone can confirm this besides the gentlemen themselves.

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#1378

You’re worried because things AREN’T getting to you? It’s not that you have no backbone, it’s that you aren’t sweating the little things anymore. Your mental cycles and energy are being focused on things that matter. It’s almost like you’re realizing that things aren’t happening TO you, things are just happening and you have the ability to choose whether or not you want to act.

The crazy reactive types get that way because they’re control freaks. They fear change of any sort, and when something unexpected happens, they melt down because it upsets their order. The more stoic people “roll with the punches” because they understand the nature of a widely unpredictable universe.

You’re probably not used to having so much control over your emotions and it’s causing a bit of reconciliation because you feel like you SHOULD get angry, but you aren’t. It’s nothing to be concerned about. When someone makes a legitimate attack on you, you’ll take action. But, if you do feel that it’s too passive, add something like PCC or Emperor in order to get a bit of an extra edge.

Not every woman wants this, nor is the “putting in her place” attitude some kind of archetype for what it means to be “alpha.” Personally, I believe that losing your shit means a total loss in frame control, meaning they actually got to you. When people play games with you, it’s an attempt to boost their own ego at the expense of yours. If they can get you angry, annoyed or reactive, they “win,” because they proved to themselves that they could bring you down.

Of course, I’m not recommending that anyone be a pushover, just be careful how you “put people in their place.” I had a friend that loved to try and put me down in front of people. For awhile, I dealt with it, simply rolling my eyes and walking off. Most of our circle hated him and knew why I was walking away – they did the same thing. One day, he finally annoyed me so much because he called me “sensitive” when I asked him to stop.

I simply reminded him in a calm, controlled voice – in front of everyone – that from an objective measure, there isn’t a single aspect of his life that’s better than mine. I had more money. I had more friends. I lived in a luxury apartment, he lived in San Francisco’s Tinderloin. I dated more attractive women, etc. If being “sensitive” means I didn’t have to live a crummy life like his, I’d take that any day.

HE lost frame and stormed out, ranting and raving about how I’m a capitalist or some nonsense, but I simply ordered the friend circle another drink and we had a marvelous night.

Was that alpha? I’d say so, because I definitely got laid that night.

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#1379

Yes I agree. If I have one insecurity that has prevailed however, it’s that I’m not being man enough by being so chill. The fear of missing out on women because I don’t play the game of “alpha bro angry man”. But I just can’t be bothered

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#1380

Wow you really dissected me so accurately :sweat_smile: but yes, that makes a lot of sense and resonates with how I truly feel, it was also a creating this strange feeling as if something isn’t present anymore, I guess it’s the fact that my emotions aren’t running wild is new to my subconscious, part of this can also be attributed to the fact that I’ve been sober since a couple weeks before starting WANTED, so I believe my subconscious is probably like “how tf are u so calm without any drugs?!”, which is probably causing me to recon by feeling like something’s off or missing.

A couple of members have recommended me to use ascension and I did feel better, like something has been ignited inside me, but I don’t quite feel it’s enough, what do you say? Continue stacking ascension with WANTED or go ahead and stack emperor instead?

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#1381

Fear of Missing Out (FOMO in trading circles) is really dangerous. Its a form of self sabotage that can be sneaky and quite detrimental to your goals. Fear of missing out is still fear (forget everything and run). Most forms of what people agree of what is an Alpha is someone who doesn’t let their fear get the best of them. That lack of fear will get you laid more in the longer run.

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#1382

Yes. I feel the fear but it doesnt control me. Like I said: I can’t be bothered

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#1383

James Bond is always very chilled and take action all the time !

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#1384

I’d stay with Ascension + Wanted. The feeling of “not enough,” may be reconciliation, since you’re clearly feeling like you lack power. The answer to that is to wait and see if your emotions stabilize a bit. Don’t add a bunch of stuff until you have more a handle on what’s going on.

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#1385

You could also consider Primal. Works very well for me.

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#1386

Do we really want to be with a woman that are addicted to jerks and abusive assholes? I see some of those women as being damaged goods. I’m not saying that they can’t change, just saying I’m not going to wait around till they change. Too much pain and misery in the meantime.

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#1387

He’s also a master reframer…

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#1388

No. Cause then you’d be on my stack, and you’re too young to be on Simon’s stack. :smile:

Don’t stack Emperor for mood enhancement. Try GLM instead.
If you don’t work on it’s goals, Emperor will punish you. It doesn’t play around.

:wink:

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