How does this work though?
Just because she is emotionally longing for me and feels safe being with me, does not automatically mean that she is sexually attracted to me…?!?
That’s the main thing I don’t understand about this archetype.
Since I don’t understand this, I have troubles seeing myself adopting this archetype.
Same question here.
Just because she is emotionally obsessed and thinking about me, does not mean that it triggers sexual attraction…?!?
At the end of the day, all that longing that she is experiencing is practically worthless unless it triggers her to take action and offer value to me.
Can someone please help me understand how this conversation happens here?
What does this even mean?
If authentic means “without putting on masks” and “without manipulation”, I am that already.
My authentic self is bold, direct and straight to the point.
No time for time wasters or women who don’t know what they want.
I will tell her to take off her cloth or get out of my apartment.
I will not play her “emotionally safe harbor and rock to rely on” unless I get value out of it.
That’s the whole point of being “WANTED” in the first place – to receive value without having to provide too much value back.
I wrote that I don’t resonate with that archetype, because I am already quite authentic and that alone has not automatically translated into attraction and getting laid for me in the past. “Just be yourself” does not automatically translate into sexual attraction.
As with wealth titles, I am looking for tangible results, and after having read the WDB copy several times now, I still don’t understand how WDB’s features actually translate and convert into sexual attraction?
A man can have most of the described WDB character traits and still not trigger sexual attraction – what am I missing here?
Can someone help me to understand this please how exactly “longing” and “her feeling safe”, translates into her wanting me sexually?
Maybe once I understand the connection, I can change my mind about whether I can identify with this archetype…