Last night while we were cuddling the gf said “I’m so obsessed with you.”
She even asked me if she’s too obsessed with me to which I said no.
She’s never said those exact words before so I found it noteworthy but also not outside her character.
Just a small result but the results within a monogamous relationship continue to accelerate.
(We’re still not officially “open” yet but will be soon.)
I think the more important result is that now I feel that I’m being my fully authentic self, I love her more too, and I love her more easily.
I used to get kind of annoyed when she said “I love you” to me because I “had” to say it back. Sometimes I did, sometimes I didn’t just to maintain my individuality. But now I say it more and really mean it.
I also used to not totally enjoy our sex life. I feel like she kind of has a “routine.”
The routine was mind-blowing when I first started dating her, but it started wearing on me. Now the routine is gone, I’m initiating and enjoying sex more, and she’s being much more willingly submissive which is really important to me. I never verbalized that to her this week, I just started WDB and all of a sudden she became much more submissive/service-oriented in bed.