Main Disc. Thread - WANTED: Dream Boy (Now Available! Custom Core Available!)

I remember my mentor said, The feminine wants attention from the masculine, Shes like a flower and you are the sun.

You are litteraly blessing her with the greatest gift of all if you are just authentic and not in your head.

You are giving her permission to be herself, You see her inner little girl, that has its insecurites,

And you see her inner little slut that wants to come out and play.

And you love her for all of it.

Seriously relaxation and just having fun is like 95% of the game, I remember he said if you just did the relaxation part you have more results than 99% of guys.

And then there’s the whole social dynamic around being relaxed and goofy around her that implies pre selection and that you are used to women,

She might even think you are use to hotter women.

All my best results never came from me trying to be high status,or pick a girl up,

The whole term pick her up implies you are taking value. You are blessing her with your presence, and she is blessing you with hers.

Or atleast that’s how i see it.

There’s been several girls i dated who said you are so different. One of them said you changed my life more in one date than some have a entire relationship.

Another started listening to my guided meditations to sleep XD.

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And also expecting girls to approach only will make you miss alot of opportunities.

Imagine you have approach anxiety, How much approach anxiety do you think a 45 kg girl will have that never started self development and stuff.

Im not saying it never happens, im just saying some never will. Most girls love being approached during the day, it fullfills their disney fantazy if you are charming.

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Sometimes on this sub I just feel like talking to a woman who’s maybe on the counter or doing something mundane and just joke around. I asked a server if there was any cow juice for my tea and that made her laugh.

That’s it.

No flexing muscles, no negging, no strategising, no ingratiating myself to her. No expectations of getting “laid” or whatever the end goal is. Just rizz and vibes. Which women happen to like very much.

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Found ASBR with WB works well for a cold approach. Not had any success when it comes to using my lots/wdb for a cold approach.

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When Timothée Chalamet enters the room, she will approach him, regardless how “shy” she is.

The trigger for her to approach you, simply needs to be strong enough.

If the trigger is not strong enough, then maybe you are not yet “Wanted” enough in her eyes?

What you call “missed opportunities” here, I would call “you comensating for her lack of attraction for you by doing the works for her and approaching her”… :thinking:

I don’t think I agree with this assumption. Sure, some would, but I don’t think you’re realizing the sheer amount of people (regardless of gender) don’t actually want to engage in the “risk” of approaching. Some may be social anxiety, some may just be that they aren’t inclined to approach. People’s personalities and ways of handling sexual/romantic feelings are different. I know quite a few people who are head over heels for someone, yet absolutely refuse to approach or start a conversation with the person.

EDIT: Some could also be intimidated by those they’re strongly attracted to. You see it a lot with guys and super attractive women, at least in the younger generation. Either a “there’s no point” or “she’ll just reject me” mindset. What if she’s confused by the feelings that you generate, and those feelings themselves are scaring her? “Why am I feeling this way about someone I’ve just met once?”

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Good point.

But here I would ask the question, would you wanna be together with someone in the first place who absolutely refuses to go after something they want and despite fully knowing that they want it really bad?

If she refuses to absolutely go after something she actually wants because of some self-invented mental rules, then she’s probably wouldn’t go after any other goal in life either, wouldn’t she?

To me, that would be a major red flag in a person.

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Isn’t everything a self-invented mental rule? I thought those are what we were here to break.

I definitely understand your preference and get the point you’re making, but I don’t think a limiting “mental rule” in one area necessarily implies its existence in another. A ton of guys are willing to cold approach, yet are they all financially successful? The fact that they’re willing to chase after what they want should imply that they’d chase after obtaining wealth with reckless abandon, yet not all of them may be like that. I think the situation is a little more nuances and complex.

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And to play devil’s advocate for a moment, I believe I’ve seen the exact opposite of this argument on the forum before. Would you really feel better dating someone who approaches every single person they find attractive? There are quite a few negative stereotypes that could be cast on such a person. Even on a more primitive social level, we prefer people who are also selective and not chasing everyone they come across, as it signals their value too.

Those may not be your feelings at all, but also to anyone else reading. Now we have arguments on two opposing ends of the spectrum complaining about not seeing a specific result, which may not even be indicative of the actual attraction being felt. If the other person’s going to be villainized regardless of whether they approached you or not, what’s the point?

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That’s just not true. Some would approach sure, but far more wouldn’t because they are too shy. And if they’re not too shy, some women just have a rule where they won’t approach a man. There’s plenty of women on social media who complain more and more that men don’t approach anymore. They say stuff like “well today I walked by my potential husband/bf/lover but he will never know because he’s a pussy despite me giving him all the hints”.

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Agree

If anyone has spent any time learning what is attractive it comes down to that really

Have good body language, posture, tonality and slow down your speech

And learn how to feel at ease

Glad Wanted Dream Boy has the nervous system regulation too

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i think women don’t have too much right to complain this a few days ago I saw on twitter a woman was she was mortified because a man approached him, they complain men don’t approach also they are trying to humiliate them when men approach

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Well…I dont want to give Saint another headache and turn this thread into ideology but both things can be true.

Women DO want to be approached by men they find attractive, and they DO NOT want men they don’t find attractive to approach them.

This is why it’s important to be a WANTED man :relieved:

(Saint don’t worry I wont go past this reply-if others disagree with what I just said, I am ok with agreeing to disagree).

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Yes, but when you became wanted man will you be attractive to all women? I think a person shouldn’t do approaching if he doesn’t get clear iois -signs- I think because this subject is a little problematic, I didn’t do any approaching before and I don’t think I would approach a random woman on the street who I don’t know

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I don’t care about anyone’s personal ideologies about women, dating or what-have-you, but it’s detailing the thread. Can we move the Timothée Chalamet chatter to another thread?

Edit: You’re all thinking way too much about this. It aint that deep.

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Same here. This is why I jumped off the red pill hamster wheel, all these “rules” that some online “guru” came up with that somehow “guarantees” dating success. Thank @SaintSovereign for the existence of this “third way” sub.

The one thing DreamBoi demands is to let go - an IDGAF mentality - and yet from the stacking posts it’s a concept that is still being processed. What do you mean just DGAF?

Wonder why this kind of talk doesn’t happen on the Wanted Black thread?

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This is so irrelevant to WDB can we make a thread to argue about women or just stop in general?

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Since I started WDB I have become extremely comfortable with girls, in turn they have become extremely comfortable with me.

Some girls at work like some guys and some guys they don’t like.

I don’t think there is a single girl at work that doesn’t like me.

I feel like the girls from work are talking to me more than they talk to the other guys and I also feel like they are more comfortable and authentic with me.

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Please cease with the ideology posts. I’m simply going to delete them going forward and ban those individuals from this thread.

Women are not some kind of hive mind monolith – society itself can be, but we’re not going to pretend that ALL women on this planet responds to the exact same thing. Men don’t. We all have our tastes in a romantic partner, things we look for, things we consider red flags. And that’s okay. Likewise, it is okay for titles with a different way of approaching seduction to exist.

The copy is extremely clear about the approach. If you have an existential issue with the nature of this particular title, that is your issue, as there are many, MANY people loving WANTED: Dream Boy. But it is difficult for anyone to even find the best reviews because people keep wanting to argue with the idea rather than the results.

Again – that issue solely belongs to the people who are seemingly triggered by WANTED: Dream Boy’s very existence. In this case, return to the seduction title that benefitted you the most. That is, unless you are willing to stop overthinking and just go out and have fun. WDB, for those who can relax and just have fun, is literally the EASIEST title to run in the Subliminal Club library. You can literally just pretend you aren’t running a title, and go out and have fun. No need to seek results. Not much action necessary.

Just go have fun. Then you’ll clearly see and understand how the title works in ACTION rather than rigorous but ultimately ineffective mental analysis, because the title itself defies analysis. Given it’s “authentic” vibe, everyone’s responses are going to be wildly different and thus the only commonality that we’ll see is increased romantic contact with those they find attraction.

The PATHWAY of expression for that romantic contact however, is contingent on the individual’s own personality. Look again at your WDB results, everyone. Pay close attention and you may notice that the qualities you consciously integrated from past seduction titles are flaring up in full force, since WDB’s scripting is designed to completely bring out your authentic self.

Therefore, it is reasonable to assume that those who have run Wanted Black would see WB-style results – especially if they were successful in using the title. At the end of the day, this academic style analysis is unnecessary with this title, because it’s taking that which you have already developed and enhancing them through a specific set of tools (the various features).

If you do not understand those tools, or you do not wish to use them, or they don’t vibe with you, don’t use WDB. Use the title that fits your personality.

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This!
He is right about it 100%
I just relax and have fun and it’s there!!

Sidenote;
BTW can we stop the “banning threats” from the managers here, if the discussion doesn’t benefit the thread simply asking would be sufficient.
Thank you for listening.

Noe about WDB… It’s really so seamless like nothing happens and I’m just being me…
But it’s a better me.

This sub is really awesome it’s almost like Stark but just the social aspects of it adding dreamy vibes.

From my journal:

  • Add to that Fast Physical Shifting
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