But why would that be this way?
This makes no logical sense to me.
Wouldn’t she want to go after the thing that made her aroused?
Aren’t most humans doing what their emotions tell them in the first place?
Examples:
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Proactively rolling her eyes upwards when I look in her eyes. As if she proactively wants to tell me that my attention and looking are not welcome at all.
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Completely ignoring me when walking by, proactively not giving me any attention or acting as if she is “above me” status wise and reflecting an energy as if “I would not be worthy of her attention”.
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Straight up me being completely invisible like a tree on the street, where she would only notice me if she would straight up bump into me. In these cases, it is like me not even being there. As if I am not even human in the first place. You know like, when you encounter humans on the street you at least somehow acknowledge that there are other humans walking on the street. But in this case the invisibility is at the level of me not even being recognized as a human living being in the first place.
PS:
I have no problem with proactively approaching girls right there on the spot, but she needs to give me at least some basic IOI’s first.
I do not approach girls who do not give me any IOI’s in the first place, because I will not run desperately around like a rabbit chasing the carrot on the stick.
Maybe.
But what I also know, is that when a true KHAN, or natural “Chad” shows up, or someone famous like Justin Bieber, all of a sudden 99% of these women are suddenly all chasing the object of desire. Suddently there is no more “playing hard to get”, “acting bitchy”, surpressing their arousal, fleeing the spot or anything like that. No, when KHAN / Chad / Justin show up, all of a sudden they are fully invested on all emotional levels and proactively start the chasing.
Just mentioning this, because this whole “girls will act different ways for the same feeling” seems to only apply to for as long as my status is not super high enough yet. What do you think? My intuition tells me I need to become much more congruent and high status…
I’m continuing to work on becoming more congruent.


