Definitely felt better on this upgraded WB than last. I feel better and gonna start up a more regular gym routine (4x a week) got a new potential job starting next year for more salary and I’m gonna start building up a little collection of women to spend time with once i get out there. WB and SSX will be front and center for that.
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Fear of rejection. Wanting to win and dominate everyone… is it really that deep and complicated?
Or did you see someone attractive and waited longer than 10 seconds to make a move, which is long enough for the defense mechanisms to kick in and creating every excuse on the planet.
Sometimes it’s not deep issues, fear or inexperiance. Sometimes it’s not going for it when the moment feels right…
How do you know the moment is right? When your mind starts acting defensivly and telling ypu otherwise. Many people are 2 to 5 approaches away from breaking free of that fear.
False Evidense Appearing Real. If life tought me one thing by heart is that we make shit infinitly more serious and complicated than they actually are
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Sometimes I just see and immediately turn away within a second. Let me put it this way, you can’t approach someone when you are crying inside, when you feel broken inside.
That is my situation currently.
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Bro just listen to yourself
Thats progress.
Acknowledging those feelings.
Now sit with it and allow it to run its course, could be a day, weeks or months but it will leave as long as you stop trying to resist it
Examine it. Why do you have that instinct? Where is it coming from? Past experience? Event? Dive deep into and meditate
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Fear of rejection never really go away, it’s always there. But when you keep on approaching despite the fear, you getting used to it. I’ve approached lots of girls still some days I still can’t talk to a pretty girl. I took a report from my journal from two days ago when I approached 3 girls, one rejected me and two gave me their phone numbers and I didn’t approach one other girl:
“I let Val and I’m glad I had the courage to go approach her, she gave me her number and I found out the guy she was with was the coursemate, if I hadn’t approach her I won’t have experienced these benefits, so you see? Fortune favors the brave and I have to make bravery a habit and not once in a while thing. I’m so very grateful that girl that rejected me told me I was dull bcos if she didn’t I won’t have switched to being more brave and approach Val”.
The good thing about wanted black is i don’t feel so bad about rejections anymore like i used to in the past but lately I’ve been having more rejections than good results, i just label it as feedback like the instance i just narrated now from my offline journal 
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Unrelated to attraction or game. In general, there is sadly no outrunning pain and discomfort except for prolonging the eventual showdown. In the end, there is comfort in knowing there is no point in fearing the inevitable. Hope everything goes your way mate. Im rooting for ya 
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Recon wise:
Today’s another experiment where I ran SSX, new WB and AsCh at full durations. Planning to take a break for two weeks. No noticeable recon. Also keep in mind that I was running a QTKS WB custom prior.
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who else is feeling intense recon on this sub?
I feel like WB is really bringing to the surface what I truly want…
Do I wanna be having numerous sexual relationships or do I want a good girl?
Is it my ego or my soul speaking…
Idk I feel like Ive been pondering everything lately
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Dude I feel like with WANTED Black its causing me to redirect my focus to Heartsong lol
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Lol I had that once. Then I realized it was me trying to abandon ship from WB.
It is an intense title. No doubt. I started with 30s. I only graduated to a full minute about two weeks ago. But it goes hard.
Or sexual relationships with numerous good girls
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Cause i’m really questioning if this subs goals resonate with who I am
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I think im getting this because Its like the complete opposite of me in my romantic life
I was never the dude with like 15 girls on rotation lol I was never the dude girls go head over heels in love with…
Fuck I wanna experience it but I doubt it so much.
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I’ve also done that lol. For me I realized the “who I am” is just limiting beliefs wrapped up in a false representation of authenticity. I decided to just keep running WB until I hit at least 90% of the goals then reassess from there. Can’t know what’s me or not if I haven’t actually experienced. On the other hand S&S is good to sort of integrate WB more with your personality.
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Its like this guilt? maybe?
I was always taught one girl, and ive been my happiest in a relationship tbh
Saaaame, I went through that “evolution” too. In my 20s I was more cold and selfish because of some experiences in my teens.
At least I feel that once I have 15 girls, I can select the one, who matches me best.
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Like Im so emotionally unavailable and I hate putting in effort with a girl now
When honestly if I stayed who I used to be and not let it faze me I woulda been so happy in my romantic life cause what I used to do would get me any girl I desire now
Now its like I just refuse to put in that work lol
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I had really good game with girls and was more in tune with them emotionally and mentally, just was lacking in the physical sexually when I was a teen
Now its complete opposite LOL
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Stack them
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