I never think about it like this. She gets the reward, I’m always the prize, not her.
I work to better myself and women are a consequence, I do not better myself for women.
/last comment from me on this topic in this thread, this really does not belong jn the WB thread
Sounds familiar. It’s called the buyer’s remorse and it just happened to me recently. I skipped the building comfort stage and rushed to the seduction stage, this had been enlightening and it juat confirmed some of the interesting concepts i just came across about seduction.
It’s not really a debate and it’s only helped me understand a thing or two about my experiences on wanted black. I see it as individuals who have listened to wanted black sharing their views on what they feel about the sub based on their experience. One thing I’ve learnt about Zp is that each individual’s experience is peculiar or distinct and mustn’t be the same with someone else’s
Take it over here.
What did happen, if i may ask, so we can learn from it?
Taking action aligned with the program goals is essential. Don’t get overloaded and manage the reconciliation process wisely, take days off when necessary.
BE OPEN TO EXPERIENCING THE NEW REALITY AND EMBRACE YOUR NEW SELF.
Cheers, mate.
I’ve found an alternate use for WB. I use it to improve my golf game by playing a 4 min loop before games. 3 weeks ago I got my first ever hole in one on a 130 yard par 3. A couple days ago I birdied the first hole. Finished the round with 3 birdies and only one blown hole. I call anything worse than a bogey a blown hole and normally I have 3-6 per round.
This sub also seems to push the idgaf factor to the max. For golf it gives me confidence to just grip it and rip it and to quickly recover from bad shots.
I had sex with a hottie from my class after two listening days of wanted black, it was pure attraction and seduction and less of building comfort. I kept In touch and we had sex again even though she said she didn’t want to have sex again, just last week all of a sudden she blocks me without reason on all platforms and says she’d talk to me when she feels like. She didn’t want to be pressured to have sex again with someone with whom she didn’t feel comfortable with. Before then she made a comment about wanting more than sex. I discovered I wads more focused on attraction and seduction and less focused on building comfort, establishing emotiona connection. All are very important if you want the full package in any relationship.
Now my take on Wb. I feel one needs to take action, learn more about seduction. The knowledge would help. In my case I learnt about this from a book after the mistakes had already been made. And now I’m more better informed and experienced.
Thx, this is good to know
I have to disagree. Having run Primal off and on for years, it’s not about sexual trauma or blockages. If you have them, they’ll be cleared up.
But the magic of Primal is connecting to that authentically animalistic aspect of yourself in a positive way.
Once that energy radiates through you and you radiate it out in the world, women are drawn to it, like a moth to a flame.
You’re radiating, “I’m having a good time. You can have a good time with me.” Seduction becomes organic.
Lol that is really a great description of how primal affected me. Pure fun joy and this love for women and spending time with women has a new dimension to it, an unspoken dimension but it can be felt like a deep primal attraction that all women deeply crave.
2 days ago I played Primal Seduction.
On the train station I saw a beautiful Latina with her 4 year old daughter. I gave her the :" all night fire" look. She walks 3 meter past me then turns around coming back and ask if she can have my NR.
I told her to call me when she have her kid somwhere else, because I want to enjoy her unhindered.
She smiled and sayd yes.
Yesterday I get a text from her that she have free time next week.
Today I saw another beautiful woman and just felt : I have a good time, you will have a good time with me so come here and get your orgasm.
Damn, Casanova is in comparison to you a loser 
WANTED made me painfully aware of this. The result is that I decluttered all my 20+ polo shirts, especially those with brand logos, and donated them all to family members…
I will never wear a polo shirt ever again. Too NPC, too boring, too mainstream, too much “don’t hurt me” mode, too much “please like me because I am such a nice guy” vibe…
Ha I love wearing polos. But I wear them unbuttoned. Everyone has their aesthetic. No brand logos.
And I hate NPC, cookie cutter opinions, styles & preferences. I’m definitely not that.
Accountant vibes 
I don’t think I give that.
Polo shirt if you have tattoos is 
I played 1 loop of my Wanted Black Lovebomb Inner Circle custom then a week later I realized I need more social foundation so I played 3 loops of my Daredevil True Social True Sell custom and felt something was missing so I played 3 loops of my Chosen Lovebomb for Humanity Sanguine custom and then made a break for 10 days.
3 days ago I used (as always) the pendulum to decide what is the perfect sub (single Titel or custom) and Primal Seduction came as a yes response. It was the title I didn’t want to play.
First couple of months back in the Q days Primal Seduction gave me imense reconciliation.
So I jumped happy and fearfully into Ps. But only for 3 min.
The result I get since 3 days are astonishing.
That’s so new to me that I stay willingly relaxed but explode internaly from joy.
For the last 8 years I can’t attract women in Switzerland and since Wanted Black all other subs I had listened gets boosted and start to realy work magical.
THANK YOU SUBLIMINALCLUB
Hey man, I’ve been where you are many, many times.
Brother, what you need to understand is that you WILL get the girls. However, nobody can say WHEN you will get them.
Just think for a second. The man that gets the girls is probably different than the man you are today. You do deserve it. You just need to grow into the man who will get the girls, and the recon is a sign that this is happening. Nobody can say how long it will take for you to become that man, but.
It’s pushing you to become that man.
My recommendation. Take a washout until recon fully clears. Who cares if your mid cycle. Aren’t the results all that matters?
While on your washout, spend some time alone if you can, treat yourself well, and journal.
You will break through the fog.
You’re an inspiration brother. God speed.