The art of seduction is the first and only book I’ve read that confirms all my observations on seduction, although I’ve read only a couple of books on the matter.
Art of seduction is so horrible imo. Especially with the way it calls woman victims or whatever.
But I mean We all at different stages in our life.
Going from technical game to more authentic.
For a book i find models by mark manson way better though .
Or radical honesty but also you usually can’t skip steps in your development.
The problem with PUA mindset is you always have to do something to improve your value.
Just be higher value you don’t need to fake being something.
I have tried This a lot saying the things I absolutely don’t think I should say. But since it’s confident to reveal it it just makes the girl wonder How you are so confident. Which lead to attraction,
If you are super relaxed around hot girls and don’t make a move they wonder if she is not hot enough without you doing anything. And girls are attracted to masculinity. It’s in their primal brain
There is also a sequence you can Do that worked pretty much 100% of time to bed girls .
If you say it right all 40 minutes of story telling😂
, But Then most girls only sleep with you Cause of psychological triggers. And after a while you realize she don’t even like you. She just had to f you since that was what triggers you hit in the brain.
And the good old sex coach routine Which had people Act as a sex coach even though they never even had sex or very little. And just gave them performance issues and not able To get it up Because of pressure.
But there’s so many layers in This journey I would just suggest go for the info you find helps you and be kind to the women you meet.
Kind not nice absolutely don’t be a so called Nice Guy
Being a gentleman and a nice guy is a huge difference indeed
Greene is a great writer, historian and entertainer at best. I have hard time seeing how this man knows more about meeting and having intimate moments with people than for example RSD.
Rsd is also kinda meh just fantastic at marketing .
It’s really about picking your path authentic game
Or technical
Or a mix .
Right now I’m doing the hardest unplugging😂. Do not start with This step as result wise you Will lose girls especially at the start .
Find the thing you resonate most with at This moment in your life. Then find someone That’s good at it. Don’t want to mention different puas. But There are good ones.
And learn from that person. For example Fresh and fit are very insecure. Always raising voice to girls not being relaxed .
If you were to seek for people see Which people are most relaxed talking to girls. As that will tell you a lot.
Not only women but men as well. They’re called “victims” since when they’ve got seduced they cannot help it, they’re lost (to the “hunter” but actually to their own psychology stimulated by the “hunter”) so to speak.
I would rather title it “A History of Seduction”. It offers a lot of invaluable interpretations and insights. The main concept revolves around making the “victim” aware of their needs (usually psychological) and offering them their fulfillment by being pragmatic and playing to the “victim’s” fantasies. It’s as simple as that though the process is more complex and the complexity depends on the “victim’s” psychological make-up.
I’m not talking about bedding women only but actually seducing them, that is, penetrating their “soul” and permeating it with their own fantasies in order to not only bed them but enthrall them. Though, I understand that almost all men are interested in just bedding them or having some kind of relationship, where being genuine and congruent is just enough.
“The Art of Seduction” offers much more advanced and way more complex concepts than that. Concepts that are extremely potent. The main one:
SEDUCTION DOESN’T END WITH BEDDING THE WOMAN BUT “POSSESSING HER LIKE A DEMON”.
Bedding the woman too early can actually destroy the whole seduction process.
Sounds familiar to anyone running WB?
I thought it should be for 5,3 seconds. Damn, gotta re-learn it.
Wholeheartedly agree with this.
I just want to naturally express, I know I am charismatic and fun and engaging and my presence can light up their whole world, IF I am not swimming in the dark pool of my insecurities stifling my genuine expression
I wish I would be a funny guy
hope WB will change it.
Can you guys please open a separate thread about seductikn and keep this one about wb?
You are a funny guy but wanted will enhance that for sure
WB = seduction
When I was running WB, I didn’t go out to “hunt”, but from the way my female students reacted to me, I can tell I was seducing them inadvertently. They would get enthralled by my presence, and if I had got into seduction with intent, I would have dominated their psyche. Of course, teenage girls are the easiest “victims” to seduce as they have plenty of psychological needs and are more prone to fantasising.
Anyway, I’m interested in mature women since that’s what my strongest “psychological lack” is. That’s the key to seducing me. Lol For teenage girls, it’s usually about attention and appreciation.
I’m pretty sure WB main concept was “borrowed” from “the Art of Seduction” or it’s just the key to seduction.
From the WB sales page:
“The beauty of Wanted Black lies in its simplicity – you just have to be yourself. There’s no need to put on a facade or engage in elaborate performances. It amplifies your innate qualities, infusing your persona with a mysterious edge that commands attention.”
And how does it work for you?
Or anyone running WB?
I wonder.
Edit:
I’m tempted to go back to running WB to test out all the concepts in WB and those I learnt reading “the Art of Seduction”. Yet, first I need to dissect and analyze the whole framework and evaluate the “environment” to decide.
If you got time, lend us your views on WB since you guys created it. Otherwise we’re going in circles on this thread.
Where does more of the focus lie? Building up the authentic self that’s naturally attractive or within the realm of seduction? Or is it 50/50?
The title could have been named “The Revelation of Sex,” so…
it’s about a subject (you), an action verb (to seduce), and an object (women).
Edit:
It was to be called “Become Sex” so the subject becomes the act.
Yeah, this definitely sounds right to me. I’m only using this for my monogamous relationship but it has definitely increased my charm and attractiveness in a very natural way. It’s made me more playful, silly and mysterious. Doesn’t really make me into the characters of James Bond or John Wingliss, that’s actually good as I wouldn’t want to honestly. Wouldn’t fit who I am.
Won’t be running this long-term but it’s a fun title so far.
Dont forget the spontanious healing part
Echoing what @Beowulf wrote: WB amplifies my attractiveness in a natural way. I strongly believe that seduction comes from authenticity first. Be authentic, bold and charming. Have standards. Nothing else is needed to get a quality woman.
And if she wants someone different, that’s fine since I only want in my life women who like me how I really am, not the games I play.