@Realitysmith
I was last week in a thermal bath.
There where 2 French guys and a Swiss girl.
The Girl was brawling to the guys how unimportant money is and they should also not care about money. A lengthy 10 min monolog and how high she is. 10 min later she told them that she only takes high paid jobs so that she can have her Joga studio and travel whenever she likes but money is sooo not important. The one French guy stood by his value and was OK with having money, the other was playing along with her and had the same “values” as her. She quickly started to sit behind her new hookup with the legs spread open towards him,laughing and touching his shoulders. Her dog ( it’s a free open thermal bath) was 1 meter from the bath away and she repeatedly was petting her dog only to put her ass in the face of her new hookup.
The one French guy get it immediately and told his Frend that he is very tired and has to go home now. He hugged his Frend and started to dress up. The girl was asking what he was doing and he told her that tomorrow they have a party and she is welcome, she was happy about the invite but she wanted to bring her female friend also.
He said it was OK and left.
Now she tells her hookup that she has the whole day free tomorrow and she wants to have a good night tonight and that she want to enjoy the evening with him. He was very happy and they laughed for the next hour.
I was sitting 30 cm away from them and started to get upset a little, how long can you play this sexual game without talking about Sexuality, desires, fantasy, wishes, Lust, etc etc.
Then they where rubbing legs in the water the whole time and on one point the guy ( turns out he is a diving instructor) get asked how to breath under water. He smiled at her and told her that there is a way to breath under water and if she want to try it. She was so happy and laid down in the water.
He kissed her under water for nearly a minute.
She told him that this was super pleasant and then 3 min later Her response was : TOTAL SHOCK
she lost her shit so fast that she jumped out of the water and told him that she has to go home because tomorrow is a busy day. She realized that the guy is warm and a passionate loving being that likes Sexuality. She couldn’t handle it.
I saw and expirience this many many many times in Switzerland. It’s all good until someone is warm and sexual, then they lose their shit so fast and the whole fasade of : I am the supreme being and I know everything and have everything under control crumbles ins seconds. Then they flee.
(3 Weeks ago I was swimming at the river near my place. On the way home I hear an old lady calling my name, she was my neighbor 20 years ago, I know her, her husband and her children well. We chatted happily and I invited her to a tea at my place. She was super excited to see where I live, we enter my apartment and she couldn’t believe it. My apartment hast 4 rooms, each romm has a wooden staircase to another room and on the top in the roof a beautiful Bath. We chatted and I invited her whole family to a dinner at my home, she happily accepted. The moment she saw the last part of the apartment she was struck by paranoia. I felt her vibe changing from super friendly to sheer panick. In her head she was like this: I am in a apartment with a man alone, he showed me his bathroom, something sexual must happen, I need to flee. She rushed down so fast and startet to relax a little the moment the elevator came.
The main entrance door was open the whole time she was in my apartment , I wasn’t attracted to her nor interest at all. She is nearly 70 years old.
That’s how fucked up it is in Switzerland - ASEXUAL)
The guy didn’t understand the world and was suddenly depressed and started to feel bad about himself.
I wanted to cheer him up and make him clear that everything is fine with him and he had a great vibe al the time and this is his first Swiss experience.
Long story short, spoken like Yoda- very different our country’s are


