I think the feeling of lacking “main character energy” and the desire for it is a result of two things: everyone focused too much on themselves and people not connecting as deeply when out in public/out in the world. It’s probably more of a thing in western countries than others. Think about it: it’s a combo of focusing too much on self + not connecting as much with others (more competition and vanity that results from the first). It’s like you’re no longer “keeping up with the Jones’s”, now it’s like EVERYONE is the Jones’s.
Also I think people who are giving off main character energy (but does anyone really? like in your day to day life, who does that? younger people?) it’s because they have things on their mind that are more important than whatever is happening in front of them. OR it’s that they’re more present and in the moment than most people around them and accepting everything that’s happening.
Anyway, just some thoughts, just trying to figure out what exactly “main character energy” is and why we feel it’s lacking (when 10+ years ago we didn’t, not me at least), and what is causing it now.