I haven’t watched the video but I’ve seen some Teal Swan content and I’ve found some of it to be useful in the past.
I would bring up the Golden Rule that is stated in different ways, by different universal teachers.
"Do unto others as you would have done unto yourself."
There are levels to this simple teaching. One aspect, which is relevant to what you are asking, is reflected in another teaching:
"You reap what you sow."
Indeed, no man is an island. How is this applicable here? It means that what you ‘do’, including to yourself, will be returned to you.
Returned: reflected in your outer experience. Some teachings call this karma.
If you sow seeds of love within you, you will eventually see evidence of that love reflected in your outer experience. Does this hereby mean that EVERYONE will reflect that?
No.
You’ve likely been kind to others and received only spite or venom in return. You may also have had situations in your life where you were bitter or even mean to other people and they had little to no reaction besides compassion, understanding or love.
Not that any of those are mutually exclusive.
I say it is unhealthy to expect anything from anyone else. Expectations ignore the fact that everyone has free will. Expectations are born from a mindset of ‘if this, then this’.
I can’t or rather don’t expect anyone to respect me, even if I believe that I’m worthy of respect.
I don’t expect fair treatment from other people, because that idea of what is ‘fair’ is entirely subjective and others may not share the same perspective.
And so on.