Because the way we relate to each other, how she makes me feel when we interact, who she is and who I am, the way we impact each other, our strengths and weaknesses, it was clear that if we get into a close relationship it will be intensely challenging for both of us but also transformative in a positive way, we were attracted to each other but also too afraid to get involved because we were both aware of the steep growth this relationship would engender.
None of us were ready for it so I didn’t pursue and stayed in comfort zone and she went back to comfort zone with previous boyfriend.
It all happened subconsciously throughout a week. I understand it because I am very aware on some level and I think HeartSong helps precisely with being even more sensitive to these relationship dynamics.
