Had a bit of reflection today which was new to me because usually i dont reflect much on the self.
I have focused on the way the world is for so long and I always used to assume blame for it. Be it the state of how people are treated (cynical), how I take on people’s emotions far too quickly (empath) or feel like I am responsible for them (anxiety) despite not even doing anything.
I took a step back and realised that it is not okay to be this way. To take the blame for things that have nothing to do with me. Sometimes the world is just going to be pretty messed up and no matter how much I take the hit for that through self blame, it wont ever fix itself. I realised as a man sometimes you have to understand people will just try to behaviour correct you into feeling a certain way for their own needs. I don’t have to take the blame or feel responsible for something that I have no business in.
This is where I made a personal vow today and all future days to reassure myself that it’s okay if things go wrong around me, if I never had any part of it or intention then I can let the blame go. I can’t fix or save everyone…the only person I can look after is myself for the time being. So no matter who or what tries to force you to feeling like shit or taking the blame, understand that you can mentally breathe through it and move on. I personally feel like a weight has lifted today and I am not sure if this came from DR Red but I felt it fits this thread so posting it here. I feel more in control of my life as a man now than as some entity that was just moving around observing nothing but destruction, thinking it’s all my fault.
Not sure if anyone else relates but if it does then hope you can take a good thing away from this post today 
Peace