Vulnerable in a charismatic way otherwise you could be perceived as meek
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Being vulnerable is something I really struggle with.
I have no idea how
I was just thinking of the difference between entitlement and self worth. I am now curious about how much of procrastination for myself or anyone is tied to self worth?
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Just to confirm you mean True Sell right?
Correct
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For example, your “less than desired results” can be beneficial for your people close to you.
Its not that unusual.
There is a technique, that is called “100 reasons why my current life situation is beneficial to me”.
Secondary gains.
You can list (on paper or Word/Pages) 100 reasons why you current life situation is good for you.
For example, if somebody doesn’t have a job (ordinary job) that means that there is no reason to get up early.
If somebody don’t have a million dollars then nobody of relatives will ask for money and etc.
Try it. It can bring a some kind of enlightenment.
Once, I had a client who sabotaged his results due to his lotalty to his father, who was not that succesful in life.
The magic phrase that released him was: “dear father, I love you some much so I will sabotage my success”.
Its irrational but it was true.
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@Tomcat Our conversation here has got me thinking about so many things today and I am grateful for that. Thank you. I have been struggling with various things for a while and one of the main things is running a sub for a subject that I know will help change my life for the better. I have yet to complete a straight 21 day cycle for either EOG , A Love Bomb for Humanity, or Dragon Reborn St 2.
I shit you not that all the results I have gotten have been from Dragon Reborn St 1.
Something inside of me will not allow me to progress beyond that. Don’t get me started on the whole three or five minute loop once a week that so many folks have recommended. I don’t see how that would be beneficial. If someone had thirty to fifty years of their life to go and are in their twenties or thirties I can see how this might work but I am 55. All this long term thinking makes me nuts.
To me it basically sounds like I should be patient which I will admit I struggle with probably to my detriment. That’s also most likely why I don’t understand therapy. @SaintSovereign Am I wrong?
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No. I meant you.
Crazy I had a dream about this.
My nightmare is turning into my father. Like he is the most meek, effeminate man I know.
Like I hate how weak he is, how he cares so much about opinion of others, how hyper logical he is. How he forces and shoved down his false belief on people, his quietness. How he has zero ambition. And how he fucking wears masks inside the car and just follows the herd.
Like he’s the worst definition of masculinity possible.
I hold such resentment over my dad being weak it pisses me off to no ends if I had an actual strong masculine presence in my life.
I had to learn that shit on my own and I lost so many opportunities, could’ve been potentially a multi millionaire by now if I had learnt the traits of stoicism, women and spirituality.
I’m not a victim by any means. But I missed out on so much things in my childhood, things that my dad could’ve taught me.
What girls to go for, etc.
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Nah stark is terrible for romance.
Puts you in category of “potential boyfriend” in her mind and she tests, places obstacles and all sorts of hoops.
Yes you can talk your ass off and be charming. But she won’t hit you up.
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It is your divine duty as a man to be the best man you could possibly be
These beta incel red pill nerds don’t even notice how their lack of awareness about their flaws and their victim mentality hurts those around them and society
Women are a reflection of men, and they’re hurting because we can’t stand up for ourselves and embody our true self
Not our fake, sex craving and lust driven nature
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You’re welcome, James.
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wait a minute.
Are you, Black Adder?
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No, lol.
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Excellent - especially when paired with commander.
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You can easily become an asshole if someone comes at you hard and charm doesn’t calm the situation. Very masculine just not like Emperor or Khan. There’s a bit more - finesse. I had other challenges with Stark but masculinity isn’t an issue.
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Challenges?
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Are men a reflection of their women too? 
I’m surprised this post didn’t offend me! 
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Earth_Angel : This is not about equality but about being complementary, like Yin and Yang. Peanut butter and jelly.
In other words we want to be able to have passionate relationships. Electrical sparks of attraction, not boring and full of equality relationships.
Can’t have that if you not your true essence
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