I think what many are experiencing here (and me and my wife as well), is a HUGE shift in your general thinking about love and sex, that needs to fight years of programming from society.
We are so used to seeing half naked women and immediately going for sex, where love was always a byproduct.
Almost nobody seems to know what sex is like that STEMS from love. Because that’s way different.
And this change doesn’t happen overnight. We need to rekindle the love, dive deeper into what it truly means, and then, ultimately, out of that, sex will be a result.
But also a better one. Physical desire can be fleeting.
The desire for sex because you love that person so much can last forever.
But I think this is our natural way of doing things. In the past, you never saw naked women multiple times a day. In fact, it was almost impossible to.
So, loving a woman WAS the first thing. Falling in love with the person. Not her body. I mean, you even had to wait for marriage as a Christian, for example.
So as I said, if you run this sub, you are fighting decades of indoctrination from society. But to me, that price seems worth paying.