I know your post is not directed to me and you didn’t ask anyone for tips. I respect you completely.
But I want to point out, that telling someone to “Stop being emotional” is the purest example for a lack of emotional intelligence.
I suggest that you or anyone else that resonates with phrases like that, to run ChosenZP and work on developing their understanding, empathy and leadership skills.
It’s incredibly beneficial in general and can improve all of your interactions + relationships… it’s not just for work environments or leadership positions.
One of the pro-tips listed is (Chosen will positively affect all areas of your life.)
@Vkluff , you’ve mentioned here that you haven’t noticed much with WantedZP and I think I can touch on potentially why.
The dynamic of this recent experience you’ve shared:
is on the complete opposite spectrum of WantedZP.
There is nothing you could’ve done differently in the interaction itself. The trajectory was already decided…
You see, it’s a matter of position and that was determined far before… possibly even from your very first interaction.
It’s built into the relationship, through both of your frames and subconscious beliefs and you are providing each other feedback.
This is how the relationship will manifest, regardless of what conscious approach you take, what situational adjustments you make or what choice of words you choose.
The PUA community loves all that overthinking, complexity shit because they don’t know how to take advantage of their subconscious mind and go through a shift to where they can win just by being themselves.
I hope I’m making sense here.
What I’m saying is that you just have to change the position that you operate from and you’ll never manifest experiences like that ever again.
But doing so, means you have to have a higher self-worth with regards to women…
You have to become the ultimate and absolute QUALIFIER with ZERO wiggle room.
That’s what WantedZP will turn you into.
The hot women that every guy thirsts for, ogles at and gushes for, will make you yawn and look at your watch.
Anyways, the Wanted archetype is a coquette and it seems that the woman you were engaging with was in the position of being the prize/qualifier.
It’s almost like she was running Wanted (though I must say, her coquette is terrible, lol)…
She told you to say “please”, lol… That’s something that I often make women say as a flirty and playful gesture.
You know, I always hear men talk about how women “shit-test” them…
They’ve never been in the other realm, lol.
Once you’ve crossed into a certain level of self-worth and wantedness, you’ll be the one shit-testing women… to see if they’re even worth the fun.
You see how the dynamic is completely switched around? This is a rare thing in society, it’s not programmed or accepted as the default way of things.
This is somewhat true. The women on Instagram are getting their likes and validation… but from who?
Have you seen those guys in the comments?
I looked at comments on pictures of the woman I’m dating and a lot of them I can tell are from porn addicted, creep type of guys with low self worth.
This is who they are getting their ego pumped up from. There’s 2 genders, male and female… but there are like 2 different species of men, lol.
The pumped up ego, validation, “self worth”, and qualifer position that these women have ONLY applies to 1 species of men.
For the other species, it’s absolutely useless. It doesn’t work.
When they encounter this species of men, it’s like seeing a ghost. It doesn’t make sense to them, because they’re SO used to the other species, in fact most of their identity is BUILT through interaction with the other species.
I hope I’m making sense here, lol. Of course there is no 2 species and it’s just for the means of explaining the point…
They need something interesting and you have to be someone that separates from the rest.
On nearly 5 months of Wanted, I do exactly this…
I automatically make them overthink and second guess themselves, just like you did here.
But before and during as well, not just after, lol.
To summarize, you’re the complete opposite of being Wanted (operating from the position of the absolute invincible qualifer/prize). That’s why you haven’t noticed much with it, it’s going to take time.
It’s not going to jump you in position too quickly because that requires your beliefs to change and that’s a process… A potentially longer one for you, because of how much you contrast it.
If you want to do Wanted ZP then use it consistently for 6 months and I doubt that you’ll attract women who can engage with you like that, lol.
Khan seems to be working well for you though, so that is good too.
I am merely shedding some light on a subliminal that you used, yet weren’t satisfied with.
Keep it going, you’re on the right track.
