If you’re having trouble ascertaining which stage will be most helpful for this… then I’m afraid to inform you that no subliminal can help you in your current state (unless you let it, but I will come to that).
You’re giving too much of a shit. The point of being a King is to not give a fuck, because, simply put, you are in fact indeed THE KING.
You need to roll up to a girl and let your inner masculine core do the talking. That’s the secret. You need to say what you actually need to say, which you already know in your gut. Khan will help you immensely with that as it has extensive scripting for not only “saying the right thing” but to reconnect you with your masculine core.
The reason it’s overwhelming at the start is because you are simply not used to the adrenaline rush. It overwhelms your senses. Which is why, do not fear failure, it’s okay to fail. What matters is that you tried your best, that’s what will mold you into greatness.
Good luck. And oh, use Khan stage 4. Unless you get too much recon. In that case, Primal Seduction + Wanted.