Main Disc. Thread - Khan Black: The Crucible (Custom Core Now Available!)

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#3044
  1. That’s not true, everyone has one.
  2. I never said that practical advice of going out, and overcoming hurdles and skills aren’t a good thing.
  3. It’s just not ALL, and yes EVERYONE has a wound, it’s not possible to not have one.
  4. One doesn’t stop from the other, nor should it imply your not feeling good enough.
  5. The emotional maturity and growth you get with this type of work, will heavily bleed over into action oriented strategies (i.e approaching). Why, BECAUSE YOU ARE FUCKING MORE CONFIDENT AND PRESENT IN YOURSELF ALREADY. The need for validation goes down, then it’s merely a practical skill to practice and get notches under your belt. BUT, you won’t kill yourself half in the process, link the reactions of woman to your self-judgement. To nice, to pleasing.
  6. The reason I told trader this is because I could tell from his reaction, there’s still a lot of these patterns taking place(how?, because I exactly had those patterns).

So, we both have valuable insight…and yes I know the guys who did nothing BUT innerwork, but that’s not what I am promoting. I did the ‘action’ thing, only to find out getting in the same circles again and again when I actually found someone worthwhile, pointing out to the shadow, the reason WHY I started doing the pickup (to be seen, and not invisible was one of my core wounds).

This carries a neediness that will either A). Give you people in your life you don’t want B). Sabotage yourself into interactions by not being present.

Now, approach a girl with those underlying patterns, and tell me how attractive neediness is… even when you don’t know actually it was needyiness.

Again, nothing wrong with the practicality of going out… but one does need to search his Shadow side… and everyone has one, because you are human. Denying it is like denying you need oxygen to breath lol.

Or having 2 fingers in your ears, while everything burns down around you… ignoring it.

I could’ve saved so much time, and be more effective in approaching if I did this work sooner. I lost a lot of great people in my life because of my constant internal battle. I just don’t anyone to have to go trhough that same shit, to reach a point while I can point out to a shortcut that will bring him faster to his end ideal, or atleast the next ‘step-out’.

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#3045

Gold advice take heed of what this gentleman says but if you find yourself hitting a break wall repeatedly then you need some form of guidance.

#3046

Perfectly said. Some need to learn the hardway until enough mistakes force them to wise up.
What tools or techniques did u use on your internal journey?

#3047

NSFW alert

Just gonna add, besides not using porn or ejaculating, I’ve found myself actually enjoying myself more lately, since I do PE (Penis Exercises/Enlargement) I end up enjoying the journey instead of the finish line, fantasies are more aligned with hitting on women and making them feel great rather than staring at fetish porn (and if one watches porn, he is bound to find his niche slowly, atleast imo)

I’m surprised with the huge progress… I haven’t been on stage 1 all that much, and let me say this again, stage 1! there’s still plenty to grow from this.

I understand why saint previously said that if he could pick one he would go for khan black. Not sure if it would be my personal pick, but I definitely understand it.

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#3048

No. Work with the objectives of each stage and you’ll be well.

Yes. In fact, it could make it easier. Love Bomb Stacks well; there are a couple of posts somewhere about it.

You might experience heightened states of awareness and deeper loving energy from a spiritual point, loving the divine, or loving the divine in yourself.

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#3049

Same. I bought 3 separate products (1 is video, the other 2 are ebooks) to “model” their approaches, etc.

Got basic exercises that are common to them all.

Flaccid hang is already better. And it’s basically only been a month. Thought about running BDLM and/or Paragon to assist. I’ll admit I never considered Khan Black though.

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#3050

Yeah as the sexual energy goes along the spine the more love and spiritual bliss one can feel

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#3051

Are there any benefits in here for lasting longer in bed and making the sex better like the other sexual programs do?

I want women to feel secure and safe around me and to feel a deep desire and sexual attraction towards me.

I have had experiences where a girl became super sexually attracted and I wasn’t doing anything it was just my vibe and energy but then later when we got closer she lost attraction or something. It feels bad. I think it came after the healing hit me because my mind is now full of all these sexual issues I have and tries to figure out where it came from and how to overcome and resolve it.

#3052

I played a loop of ST4 the other day cause I was kinda missing KB and Idk if its growth from my time away from KB or the anti recon in Inner Circle/Art of War but damn do I feel great.

I swear ST4 seems to have revitalized every cell of my body with an essence of divine masculinity. Lifted much harder today, felt stronger, and more confident and resilient overall. I can see why some people have quoted on how this is their favorite sub and they dont know how to take it out of their stacks lol

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#3053

I am experiencing all of this. It was so bad after the first loop that I jumped to stage 2 in the hope to escape the healing process. This is very difficult for me but I know it has to be done.

Why are some experiencing this and others are not? For some St1 is a smooth experience does that just mean they do not have any harsh and painful unprocessed traumas regarding sexuality stored in their subconscious mind?

I feel like I am experiencing these traumas in real-time with a girl I am dating. All the same things from the past that I never processed and overcame are just resurfacing in my behaviour and manifesting in our relationship.

Before using this our dynamic was completely different she was very into me and now all attraction has just gone away and she is basically no longer interested. She was literally begging me to fuck her and telling me how wet she is all the time. Then I started running this when we slept together and she was totally not into the sex. I think this is probably temporary until these emotions pass away again but I am starting to doubt what the point in it is. How am I benefiting from this it is clearly not having a positive effect on how she perceives me right now? She basically thinks she was in an illusion with how she perceived me before.

Is it like really necessary to bring these old memories out to the surface again and make them alive? Or is the whole reason stage 1 is having this reaction on me because these memories are still affecting me on some level even if unconsciously?

As I continue this will all of it just naturally resolve on its own and will I begin to experience the “freedom” talked about? Right now it just feels like it brought so much to the surface and I am just simmering in it. Old behaviours and beliefs have taken over again. Things I thought were no longer affecting me. I feel very vulnerable and fragile right now because of it. I consider this one of the main traumas that have derailed my life when I was younger and emasculated me in a way when I come in contact with women sexually and this really noticeable in my interactions I lost my confidence and self-belief.

Before using this however my confidence and self-belief was pretty high. Now the reminder of these past traumas have brought into my being the feelings I felt back then, which I thought I had long forgotten and was definitely not affecting me on a conscious level.

Did it workout for you eventually?

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#3054

Maybe just wait for kb update and anti recon scripting since they cut out a lot of scripting for current version and doesnt feel smooth or very integrated healing at all compared to other healing subs here.

What other subs u running?
Womens perspective is easy to shift so just add some masculine attraction title with sexual aura and it will shift back into positive view of you

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#3055

It did work out eventually yeah, it got better with time and as I processed everything.

Quick tip for you though, take it slower. Listen less often, or for shorter loops.

Do some grounding type meditation work, look up John Wineland.

That helps massively.

And try not to listen for 1-2 days before you know you’re gonna meet up with your lady friend.

Sometimes the name of the game is recon management more than anything else.

Good luck bro!

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#3056

KB ST1 didn’t hit hard for me this way sexually. It enhanced my sexual performance right away which could have been due to running Diamond previously.
Had recon in the form of anger at work more so on stage 1.

If it’s messing up your love life and you still want to work through your traumas I would take this one very slow. I’m talking 1 micro loop per week. 30-60 seconds for a micro loop. If not consider an easier title to run like Primal Nights, BDLM, or Diamond.

I find sexual enhancement subs take a few hours to process for max effect. If it’s too soon it can have inverse effects. In other words a 4:00 pm loop works best for me on date nights based on experimentation. 30 minutes before can sometimes make it worse.

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#3057

@Serafim is PN considered a healing sub ? tbought it was just an aura.

#3058

That’s my understanding yes. I meant easier to run as in a non healing title.

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#3059

What kind of techniques and protocols do you use to heal yourself outside subliminals?

Some of us have done years of work, but might have missed a spot here or there, some people don’t store ‘emotions’ like others, and therefor also don’t store assosciated trauma etc. Everyone has something(no you aren’t broken); it’s just the stories that we tell ourselves who we are. And some of these stories are not your own, OR you conclude false conclusion based on ‘feelings’ in that moment.

Childhood memories/trauma’s/stuck emotion/coping mechanisms that don’t work/attachment theory etc.

I currently myself are in the process of making a Dashboard for my ADHD, and productivity in ChatGPT, I could share it when it’s done. It contains a multitude of tools for releasing, reframing, and manifesting too.

If not, look up teachers like Larry Crane, Hale Dwoskin, Lester Levenson, Byron Katie, Neville Goddard, Allan Watts, Joseph Murphy, Vadim Zeland, Shadow Work(jungian symbolism, and archetypes), etc etc.

This will make everything smoother :slight_smile:

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#3060

Since I’m pretty freshly self diagnosed with ADHD (working on getting an official one), I’d be pretty happy if you’d share it once it’s done.

Still trying to wrap my head around what I can do or rather have to do to make the most out of my life

#3061

Whats the lengtht of loop you play at 4pm to process by the date time im assuming its 10pm+after
Would this apply to wantedog as well?

#3062

3-5 min usually. Normally use PN, WB, or PR. Haven’t used Wanted since WB came out but if it’s one of your go to’s I don’t see why it wouldn’t. This is based on what works for me, YMMV

#3063

Definitely was overwhelmed by the effect and it exhausted my nervous system. Gladly the intense mental work has passed now, just a little hesitant to listen again.

The relationship instantly improved and got back to what it was after those traumas and the feelings associated with them stopped resurfacing. I feel it is completely gone now so hopefully it does not hit me again with the same again when I restart listening.

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