I emailed him directly, since I bought a couple of his newer programs recently.
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Is it supposed to work in a LTR as well?
Not sure yet. I just downloaded and am uploading it to my Kindle-in-the-cloud as we speak.
From what i can tell, he seems solid though.
I just finished up reading his âThe Girlfriend Buttonâ and that seems solid, but itâs not for LTRs. Itâs for going out and getting laid as much as one wants, etc.
None of his stuff is for LTRs from what I know of so far. Iâm adding this one to my reading pile though.
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I started khan + khan black a small while back, I gave main benefits to khan, but I noticed one thing that has to be a khan black benefit and that is suddenly losing interest in porn. Iâve been addicted to it since third grade, and as of now itâs been a few days where I didnât really get the impulse to look at it, and even thinking about it or visualising it, I donât really feel anything special or addictive like in the past where every small thing would end in a relapse.
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Way of the superior man, attachment theory books, shadow work, non violent communication
For ltr stuff
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Iâm less and less âsoldâ on the LTR idea lately. Being a pushover nice guy sucks arse. Do not recommend it 
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I have that book, havenât read it thoughâŚltr?
You are making assumptions, or are you calling yourself a pushover.
Only âniceâ guys are in relationships? A ânice guyâ is manipulative at hearth.
How about a friendly guy, with strong boundaries and the ability to walk away?
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Yes, it has a lot of nuggets that will make you more susceptible to the dance between masculine and feminine
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100% true!
What I meant is basically I fell into the trap of trying to âdo betterâ so sheâll want me. Which is Covert Contracts at the core. Iâm currently reading âThe Sigma Bibleâ to get a new POV going.
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Sigma Bible by whom?
Bud Watson. Itâs a Kindle Unlimited one. Verdict is still out as to if itâs good or not.
To get the pure benefits of this program does it have to be ran solo?
Can Love Bomb be ran with this without derailing any of the positive effects of KB?
Iâm just thinking that sexual energy is very powerful but so is love. Wondering how mixing these 2 would work out or am I being too ambitious here?
You should read Dr.Glovers âno more Mr nice guyâ and books on attachment / shadowwork /internal sustend therapy.
Trust me, they will help you more than most âtechnical pickupâ bibles.
Why you should trust me, I been involved in the pickup stuff before it was even popular, crashed, risen up, crashed again, became red Pill etc.
The problem is that, you will not face your inner demons and try to influence the external world with âknowledgeâ. You will only start to attract girls and people that will keep triggering that wound, until you finally face inwards.
âIf im knowledgable I canât be mistreatedâ or I have control.
You need to work on your core wounds, before getting surface layer advice(which is rehashed anyway).
P.s im also writing this because I did go down this path⌠but it will become self destructive and you wonât find what you wantâŚwaste so much timeâŚwhile you had it inside you all alongâŚhow can you notâŚyou are a successful spermcell out of millions
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I completely disagree. Not everybody in the world has these âcore woundsâ, sure most people have been through stuff, but it doesnât affect everyoneâs life to the same extent.
Not saying it wasnât needed for you, but it certainly is not the case for everyone, and that type of advice can give people the idea that they are not enough now; and have to do this inner/âtraumaâ work before doing the work that actually gets you good with women, like actually talking to women lol.
I was also in a pick up community for a long span of time, went out 7 days a week for nearly two years. I was awful with women, terrified to approach, had tons of things in my life happen that a lot of people would consider âwoundsâ, but rather then getting hung up on them I took a shit ton of action, like so many cold approaches and reference expieriences that whatever beliefs I previously held were just shattered.
I think healing and trauma work can be good for yourself, but as with nearly every other skill, to get good at the thing, you just need to do the thing youâre avoiding.
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100%
Very true, until you close and dissolve those negative loops within, the manifestation of parthners will be very distorted or attract what triggers the wounds.
And even when u get to feed that animal self cravings it becomes meaningless and unfulfillingâŚ
I rather focus on inner work and attract women that resonate on higher frequency and also keep it simple nowdays dont date non virgin, bad character/personality traits, or ones stuck in drama cycles.
Have to be mindful of energies i mix with like nutrition dont want putting in trash food or energies into your system.
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- Thatâs not true, everyone has one.
- I never said that practical advice of going out, and overcoming hurdles and skills arenât a good thing.
- Itâs just not ALL, and yes EVERYONE has a wound, itâs not possible to not have one.
- One doesnât stop from the other, nor should it imply your not feeling good enough.
- The emotional maturity and growth you get with this type of work, will heavily bleed over into action oriented strategies (i.e approaching). Why, BECAUSE YOU ARE FUCKING MORE CONFIDENT AND PRESENT IN YOURSELF ALREADY. The need for validation goes down, then itâs merely a practical skill to practice and get notches under your belt. BUT, you wonât kill yourself half in the process, link the reactions of woman to your self-judgement. To nice, to pleasing.
- The reason I told trader this is because I could tell from his reaction, thereâs still a lot of these patterns taking place(how?, because I exactly had those patterns).
So, we both have valuable insightâŚand yes I know the guys who did nothing BUT innerwork, but thatâs not what I am promoting. I did the âactionâ thing, only to find out getting in the same circles again and again when I actually found someone worthwhile, pointing out to the shadow, the reason WHY I started doing the pickup (to be seen, and not invisible was one of my core wounds).
This carries a neediness that will either A). Give you people in your life you donât want B). Sabotage yourself into interactions by not being present.
Now, approach a girl with those underlying patterns, and tell me how attractive neediness is⌠even when you donât know actually it was needyiness.
Again, nothing wrong with the practicality of going out⌠but one does need to search his Shadow side⌠and everyone has one, because you are human. Denying it is like denying you need oxygen to breath lol.
Or having 2 fingers in your ears, while everything burns down around you⌠ignoring it.
I couldâve saved so much time, and be more effective in approaching if I did this work sooner. I lost a lot of great people in my life because of my constant internal battle. I just donât anyone to have to go trhough that same shit, to reach a point while I can point out to a shortcut that will bring him faster to his end ideal, or atleast the next âstep-outâ.
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Gold advice take heed of what this gentleman says but if you find yourself hitting a break wall repeatedly then you need some form of guidance.
Perfectly said. Some need to learn the hardway until enough mistakes force them to wise up.
What tools or techniques did u use on your internal journey?