My experience with KB has been that it showed me how multi-factorial the interaction with this energy is. At first, it was easy using KB to move into sublimation of the energy, but then things changed. It was like in order to fully integrate and master the energy, I needed to see the different aspects of the mind body spirit system and how they interacted upon one another.
Even St Paul said of people who could not practice abstinence, “But if they cannot contain, let them marry: for it is better to marry than to burn”. So I dig what Fire is saying.
What I’ve been able to see as KB unfolded (mainly looking at it in retrospect) is how for example diet and the state of our nervous system can affect our ability to “contain”, or not to “burn”. Often the sensation of horniness, outside of the pure hormonal nature of it, that zing or electric feeling through the nerves, is the result of demyelinisation, and there are plenty of studies on how fat cells assist in repairing damaged nerve cells. A lot of the high protein diet folks are probably not getting enough fat to keep their nervous system healthy enough to practice sublimation easily.
The other aspect is in building the right relationship between body and mind for receiving these signals from the nervous system that occur through elevated sex hormones. For people who are “of the world”, this is a very difficult thing to do. One way to start to shift in this direction is to start working with the flow state more often and to practice seeing the world from the perspective of energy rather than matter; such a shift is something easier and more practical to do than a hard shift from a materialist perspective to a spirit driven one, and it gives the advantage of being able to perceive the feeling as something that can be steered rather than an external fact of biology.
The revelation of how important fat (and lecithin) is to the the nervous system when you’re running this type of energy though was a big one that came up and that I haven’t seen discussed yet.