IMO HS and TWTP should directly make the listener aware if the relationship is a stumbling block? Otherwise, it doesn’t seem like the listener’s being empowered, but living a life directed by others’ definition of power.
(When I was on TWTP, and IC+YANA in a custom, a ‘bro’ came to me telling me to stay away from others, he’s the only one I can trust and count on because he’s my ‘bro’… so I should work on his interests which are totally in my interests and he’s planned my next year for my sake. I jotted every encounter I had with that guy the last two years and the pattern was the same, just less blatant)